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Best places to meet women?

bob_sapp

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Where's the best place to meet women or get a girlfriend(besides family or your immediate friends)? Lots of people say just to join lots of clubs or activities so you have mutual interests to build on? I am talking about a dating relationship, not one night stands. No stupid answers please :)
 

bob_sapp

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Public transit
Library or bookstore
Night school course
Gym
Grocery store
Hospital (or anywhere else there is a waiting room).
Next question....
How do I start something without coming off as creepy? I need practical, specific advice.
 

rama putri

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You know, I once saw an informercial late at night about a manual being that explains how to get a girlfriend in 50 simple easy to understand, fail safe steps. Let me look that up and get back to you on it ...
 
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Mable

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I would be interested in knowing how to do this (pick up a lady in a grocery store) without appearing seedy? I have heard of this for some time now but how do you tell she is interested at all? Follow up? Anyone successful at this? Comments from the ladies would be appreciated. Angelique, how would you like to be approached?
 

cute-bald

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Your suggestion of joining clubs & activities......

..... IS THE BEST. Then you both have a common interest.... common ground to build on. NOT p.o.f. It is a dumping ground of women looking for tall men only!!
 

ig-88

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yes, but here's the problem with clubs and activities:

if you join for the sole purpose of picking up chicks, people will see this and you're slime

if you are genuinely interested in the activity? yeah, right ... i just love "chick" things like pottery, tupperware, cooking, gardening, interior design, etc. :rolleyes:

so obviously you're not interested in chick crap, and you'll be seen as scum if you're just there to hit on chicks

bottom line, i don't see it working out, imo
 

ig-88

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the problem with the other public places is how do you know if she's married, got a boyfriend, or just plain lying to you?

i think @ work is the best ... if you work in a field where there are a lot of hot chicks

so ime and imo, i think i'd have better odds winning the lottery :(
 
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get a dog (with the caveat being if you don't already have one, and you like dogs, and you can make a commitment to it for 12+ years, and your lifestyle can accommodate one).

make sure it's a nice dog like a lab, or a retriever, or a pug.

walk it in the park, you'll be amazed at what an icebreaker it is.
 

LadyTY2Uall

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How brave and adventurous are you????
Make up a flier, put your pic on it, include your stats, add some heart wrenching comments along with the solemn vow that you are looking for your soul mate not a one night stand. Then, run off a few hundred copies and start leaving them in places like a laundromat, movie theatre, library, Starbucks, grocery stores, a gym etc.
No I am not being a smart ass, I think it would be a novel and unique approach and I think you might get more responses than you would think.

Other than that do the usual, ask some cute girl at the grocery store how you tell a good melon from bad, or, 'which toilet paper is the softest?'

Dance classes are always a sure fire way to meet chicks ;)

Good luck !
 

capncrunch

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Getting a dog is a good idea.

Night classes are good too, provided that you're actually interested in what you'll be studying. As has been said before, if you're taking a class with the goal in mind of meeting women, they'll see right through it.

I've done the PoF thing before and had some good success with that (despite the dire warnings listed above). I only met 1 psycho... well, not in the "Norman Bates" sense, but in the "pathological liar" sense. Fortunately, I saw through it pretty quickly and cut her loose before she could do any serious damage.

But it's less about the "where" than about the "who," the "how" and the "when." Women are everywhere.

Start with this: What do you want? Answer that question - and be specific - first.
 

Questor

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LadyTY2Uall said:


Other than that do the usual, ask some cute girl at the grocery store how you tell a good melon from bad,
Warning! This only works if you are NOT staring at her chest or making squeezing gestures with you hand. :D
 

LadyTY2Uall

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Quote:Questor


Warning! This only works if you are NOT staring at her chest or making squeezing gestures with you hand.

lol ;)
 

RTRD

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There is....

...one of these thread every damn week at minimum.

Look...there exists an ENTIRE INDUSTRY devoted to helping people meet each other. How did you miss it?

There are women all around you...half the population is female. Can you not see them?

What you are really asking is "how do I get women to fall at my feet, instead doing the hard work associated with introducing myself, being interesting and charming, and accepting that more than likely the majority of women will not express any interest."

Guess what? There is no answer.

If you are uninteresting, and have nothing to say, there is no place you are going to go that suddenly women will not care about those things.

If you are grossly over weight and dress slovenly, there is no place you can go where woman will not care about those things.

If you were dealt a bad hand in the DNA department and are particularly short (and 5' 9" is not short...it is just that women prefer taller, just like men prefer bigger tits. Deal with it and stop whining) or particularly unattractive, there is no place you can go where women will not care about those things.

If you think the only definition of "woman" is someone 10 to 15 years younger than you, and attractive enough to make money with her looks (escort / dancer / model), but you cannot say the same, or you don't have considerable wealth, there is no place you can go where women (per your definition) will not care about the fact that you are considerably older and considerably less attractive than they are.

Contrary to what you might have convinced yourself, women WANT to meet men. They aren't all married, in relationships, or lesbians. But, contrary to what you (and clearly some others) would want, they are not going to start doing the work that your lazy ass doesn't want to. Why the fuck should they? You are too chicken shit to even say "hello", or to go out and buy some decent clothes, loses a little weight, boost your confidence and make the best of what you got, why should they actually approach YOU when there are guys like me in this world who do those things?

I don't know how old you are, but I will share something with you - women over the age of 35...and especially once they hit 40....are DYING for attention from men. DYING. Less than perfect women over the age of 35 RARELY are asked out. And less than perfect doesn't mean "fat" or "ugly". It means women who look like women...like your mom did when she was 40, or your sister. REGULAR WOMEN. I have female friends who go out once every few months, because that is how often they are asked. At different points in the last 18 months I have had multiple "friends" I was seeing, all of whom knew I was seeing other "friends", and were perfectly ok with that, because no one else was asking them out, showing them a nice time, giving them some dick - so they were glad to get that from me until someone else showed up.

Sigh...

Ok...here is some "practical" advice, beyond getting your shit together, learning how to talk to people, buying some decent clothes and to stop fucking whining about how "tough it is" to meet women and what "bitches Toronto women are"...because all that is doing is making you jaded, ugly, cynical and desperate, none of which is attractive, and all of which keeps you jerking off and paying for ass.

1) You can do the online thing...I do...but remember it takes EFFORT, because the men out the number women online two to one easy. But...women WILL recognize the effort...they see right through guys who spam them with the same message they send 50 other chicks everyday. Get a good picture, write an interesting profile, and approach 3 to 5 women a week with something REALLY unique and focused on them, versus 30 to 50 with generic spam. I once closed the deal on a POF date in a single day FROM WORK...just because when I approached this Neve Campbell look alike it was with a message that was truly unique and based on what she had said in her profile, which I bothered to read. I reached out to her mid morning...by mid afternoon we had exchanged numbers (after a few message exchanges), we talked for a bit, she decided I wasn't a "creep" or whatever, we went out that night, I did my best to charm her, worked up the guts to ask her back to my place, and she accepted. Not ALL of my dates went like that...indeed, that was the only one like that...lol...but as I have posted before, a typical week for me was two dates min...one with someone new, one with someone I had been out with before. Online works...WITH EFFORT.

2) Speed dating. Again, you have to put in the effort of dressing nice and being interesting (essentially, you have to be the "best guy" at the event...or close to the top), but women ALWAYS out number men at speed dating events. I get emails every week from the organizations I was a part of asking me to come to speed dating events for free because they are short of men. If you dress well and are interesting when you go to these things, you should match at a ratio of about 25% (meaning, out of 16 women, there will be 4 who you wanted to go out with and who also wanted to go out with you)

3) Life. You are surrounded by women. Just fucking say "hello". You are worried about whether they are "married or have a boyfriend"...that is bullshit. What you are worried about is rejection....so you are looking for some formula so that you only have to talk to the ones who are going to go out with you. There is none. If you chat up a married woman, even if she doesn't go out with you, you are still getting practice....and clearly you need some. If you chat up a gal with a BF..maybe she was looking to dump him anyway (many women are in relationships they don't want to be in because guys are so hard to meet...they are just WAITING for the next guy to come along). You got plenty of good advice...I have in fact met women at the supermarket, bank, etc. Practical advice - it helps to have a "captive" audience. So...waiting in the same line works...she is going to stand there and listen to you, at least until you say something really stupid and creepy. I also have had success with woman who "had to" talk to me...sales people, cashiers, bank tellers, waitresses, etc. Again, captive audience (though don't fucking waste their time...if they aren't feeling you, let it go, they are trying to do their job)

The biggest piece of advice however is this: Get over yourself. Let go of the notion that the world and women owe you anything. Just like YOU are only interested in interesting and attractive woman, they are only interested in interesting and attractive men. So...you need to make yourself into one. And...even with that, just like you would not go out with just any woman who approached you, every woman you approach isn't going to say "yes". That doesn't make her a "bitch", it doesn't make all women "shews". It means they get to be selective, just like you.

Do these things, and do them often, and you will meet all the women you want. Again, women are DESPERATE for decent looking, acting men to approach them. Make yourself into one and put in the necessary effort, and you will be juggling women. Trust me...I am 42 years old, fat and balding. And I do "ok"...and then some.
 
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OnTheWayOut

sheesh

Most Terbites go to an MP or SC, or call an SP to meet women. Or is that meat women?

Think about where you ask serious questions, it will heavily impact the quality of the results. Asking here for advice on meeting a person to build a strong long lasting relationship is unbelievable.
 
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OnTheWayOut

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i disagree. i'd be willing to bet that most terb members know what it takes to build a strong lasting relationship but are too lazy and find it too much work.
Perhaps most Terbites THINK they know what it takes but are sadly mistaken? Or perhaps most Terbites don't WANT a strong lasting relationship and are trying to get as much variety as they can.

almost sounds like a poll question waiting to happen :eek:
 

Gyaos

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asn said:
i disagree. i'd be willing to bet that most terb members know what it takes to build a strong lasting relationship but are too lazy and find it too much work.
Not true. I've worked for years and still get the "secret messages" from the woman I want to be with (who lives on the other side of the planet), waiting for her to either collapse under pressure or to just meet again for the eventual locked at the lips, business team.

Gyaos Baltar
 

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Hey!!!!

Wasn't this one of the threads that eveybody wanted the most to GO AWAY???:rolleyes:
 
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