I always appreciate any genuine compliment, and the usual ones are likely the same as most ladies get. Being better looking in person than my photos, having a down to earth personality, making them feel comfortable right away, feeling the genuine connection etc.
However, the ones that I think speak most deeply to my soul are the ones where their actions convey deep caring.
Naming their children after me, or asking me to name their children. Asking me to visit them in the hospice when they fall ill, or wanting me to sit with them and hold their hand as they transition out of this world. Those actions show me how deep our connection really is/was, and for me, life is about creating deep, meaningful and authentic connections.
And the nurturing goes both ways. I was really really sick a few years ago with my lupus, and we were looking for a live organ donor. 13 of my clients went in to check if they were a suitable match. 13! Offering the gift of life to another person is by far the greatest gift and compliment I can think of.
When you have the courage to allow yourself to be vulnerable enough to be seen fully/openly and appreciated authentically, the depth of the relationships and connections you make are indescribable.
The greatest compliment I could ever receive from anybody is being entrusted with the beauty of seeing them wholly and authentically and connecting on a level far deeper than anything we can achieve in a guarded state.