Agreed. You are technically paying for companionship, what the SP is comfortable with should not be viewed as a negative. If you don't like the services provided, there are others who can accommodate. No two business will be the same as no two SPs will be the same.
BBBJ poll.
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I voted Never but that is a little more strict than reality.
I would consider seeing a girl that doesn't but would VERY much prefer one that does. That wasn't an option.
Depends on the girl and how much she peeks my interest.
I would consider seeing a girl that doesn't but would VERY much prefer one that does. That wasn't an option.
Depends on the girl and how much she peeks my interest.
Thanks for taking time from your research to drop by and give us shit. Now go away.
I had never really experienced a great BBBJ so I didn't care much about it. Then I saw an SP in Vegas who had done a few porn videos and she offered. She didn't follow all the way through to completion which is good because I would have been done in 3 minutes flat. After that I started looking for BBBJ from SPs. But the more I considered it, the more I have come to worry about the risks. But I don't feel a thing with a condom on so now I look for a fun, creative session. If the session is fun, lively and ends with a bang, it can be a HJ for all I care.
One SP ran her lips up and down my shaft without actually taking it in her mouth. The feeling was great and had to be a major reduction of risk.
One SP ran her lips up and down my shaft without actually taking it in her mouth. The feeling was great and had to be a major reduction of risk.
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This arguments of this board versus the pink board and manipulation of results seem to be just a lot of fluff. In sports, statistics are usually for losers. Polls are intended to provide a snapshot (in time and from a specific audience) of that audience's opinion. It may or may not be accurate depending on how the poll is administered. If this poll is being used to sway public opinion - who cares. It doesn't change an individual's desire from wanting BBBJ to not wanting and vice versa. The value in this poll is for the SP and even that is somewhat suspect. If 50% say they only see an SP who provides BBBJ, then the SP will lose 50% of her audience (of TERB members) if she doesn't provide it. It is simple as that. If the poll becomes infected to show that number to be only 30%, it doesn't change reality that she will still lose 50%. In the case of this poll, it is not a self fulfilling prophecy. With that off my chest, I will say for me, there is no comparison between the feel of CBJ versus BBBJ. I think if you think they are the similar, you must have an overworked and less sensitive dick. There are risks on both sides and with most of life, there is always the risk reward tradeoff which is different for each individual. Just my opinion.
I agree...the most obvious sensible answer was not an option so that poll is definitely skewed.
THE BEST COMMENTARY I READ CONCERNING THE TOPIC WAS ON EMILYJs' blog...very eye opening and calming . Well written
Personally I would prefer a strict YMMV BBBJ.
The thought of multiple guaranteed bbbj's around the clock followed by my super clean willy kind of turns me off.
Tough case, yes, and probably why I haven't seen an SP yet.
So far in my many years of "MPing" I've been very lucky and haven't needed to venture over.
BTW - There is NO condom manufactured today that feels anything close to bareback, you're either a fool or a virgin to think otherwise.
The thought of multiple guaranteed bbbj's around the clock followed by my super clean willy kind of turns me off.
Tough case, yes, and probably why I haven't seen an SP yet.
So far in my many years of "MPing" I've been very lucky and haven't needed to venture over.
BTW - There is NO condom manufactured today that feels anything close to bareback, you're either a fool or a virgin to think otherwise.
I totally agree with Peachy! I'd feel cheapened if I had to lower my rates because I don't provide a certain service, like bbbj. For me it's safety first and without exception! I feel the constant pressure to provide bbbj because a lot of gentlemen refuse to see me if I do a cbj. But I still find men that worry about their safety and mine, and I've had a lot of good comments for my cjbs opethat allow me to go way deeper than a bbbj.
I hope this helps!
Sophie xx
I hope this helps!
Sophie xx
Thanks Sophie. I know that cbj's are not for everyone but I'm doing what is best for myself. I know that there are guys out there willing to have the cbj service and are happy with that service. I also wrote a blog about the polls. It explains a lot more than I can post here and again I don't think every one's going to agree with it but at least everyone knows where I stand. I know that these kind of topics can be tricky but I try to be as honest as I can. In the end, I know that I will attract the people that fit most with me because of my honesty, for being my authentic self and for providing the services that fit me the best. So all in all, this peach is happy with the results.
I have to shamefully admit, that if there isn't a consideration for a bbbj (Hygiene, and comfort level is always as the SP's discretion) the I will seek an SP that will provide the service, regardless of rate.
I play safe, so always insist on CBJ, despite the substandard experience that results. That said, my preferences lean toward CoF. If that is offered by the SP, I request CBJ, but finish without cover, and with no direct contact. Safe for me, and provides an increased level of safety for the SP. I would be interested in how SPs reading this thread view this approach.
