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ASYLUM

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Just wondering how many of you have had a crisis on your birthday? the past 2 years i've just turned off my phone and stayed locked in my room and wouldn't speak to anyone. i call it a quarter life crisis. This year i actually decided to throw myself a party as an attempt to avoid feeling so blah. but the party was on saturday and my bday is today...im feeling alright so far since im working but i felt myself starting to feel really down last night before i went to bed (around 2am which means it was technically my bday already)
I think the key to not feeling so shitty is to stay distracted and not think about the fact that it *is* my day of birth and i *am* older
 
First of all happy birthday.

I don't get depressed about a birthday. I don't really put that much significance on any day on the calender, but if you must a birthday is a remembrance that you are successfully guiding yourself through life. I am happy for to each year as the alternative is...

Cheers.
 
Happy Birthday Asylum!

( 1/4 life?? You don't look a day over 1/5)
 
u think ur upset now? wait til 30 and 35.
 
babyfinsta said:
u think ur upset now? wait til 30 and 35.
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LOL or 40 and 45!!

Asylum: you'd better get over it soon, it is only gonna get worse!!!

I mean, how's he going to feel when he finds his first grey pube or finds a little extra hair in his brush?
 
Never understood the birthday blues.

Personally when its my birthday I tend to reflect and enjoy life/existence the most on that day. I relish the day. I feel touched on that day.

I love a good party but on that day I prefer it to be a quiet "near and dear" day... I only want to be around those that matter the most to me.... I also get very emotional but in a good way and I never show it. I just keep it to myself.
 
tboy said:
Especially if you go to your favourite MP !!!:D
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lol... I knew someone would say that

Funny enough.. MPAs and SPs are the last people I want to see that day. Probably goes back to only wanting to be around those that matter to me.
 
Mongrel4u said:
lol... I knew someone would say that

Funny enough.. MPAs and SPs are the last people I want to see that day. Probably goes back to only wanting to be around those that matter to me.
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LOL well you DID leave it hanging out there, someone had to take a swat at it lol.....
 
My birthday is next week, getting to old to stress over it now. I just take the day off work and Go Wild with the Ladies.
Anyone interested in having some fun send me a PM.
 
I'm coming up on the big 4-0

That said, birthdays, and the concept of of getting older, has never bothered me.

The way I see it, I only know of one way to keep from getting older, and that is getting dead.

I'll take getting older :)
 
ASYLUM said:
Just wondering how many of you have had a crisis on your birthday? the past 2 years i've just turned off my phone and stayed locked in my room and wouldn't speak to anyone. i call it a quarter life crisis. This year i actually decided to throw myself a party as an attempt to avoid feeling so blah. but the party was on saturday and my bday is today...im feeling alright so far since im working but i felt myself starting to feel really down last night before i went to bed (around 2am which means it was technically my bday already)
I think the key to not feeling so shitty is to stay distracted and not think about the fact that it *is* my day of birth and i *am* older
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Middle age crisis can do these things.
 
ASYLUM said:
I think the key to not feeling so shitty is to stay distracted and not think about the fact that it *is* my day of birth and i *am* older
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Ummm. Everybody living, ever having lived or ever will live get old at the same rate as you are. Get over it.
 
bandit2238 said:
My birthday is next week, getting to old to stress over it now. I just take the day off work and Go Wild with the Ladies.
Anyone interested in having some fun send me a PM.
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You are way too old now:D

ASYLUM..do not sweat them, they will keep on coming no matter what you do...live the day and carry on
 
toughb said:
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Middle age crisis can do these things.
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if this is my mid life crisis. that means i'll be dead by 48:(
 
hunter001 said:
First of all happy birthday.

I don't get depressed about a birthday. I don't really put that much significance on any day on the calender, but if you must a birthday is a remembrance that you are successfully guiding yourself through life. I am happy for to each year as the alternative is...

Cheers.
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Ditto.
 
When I was in my late 30's, I started to get really apprehensive about turning 40. Then I realized I was WASTING positive energy on something I had zero control over. I know this sounds obvious but our own negative thoughts can drag us into the weeds emotionally.

Ultimately, I told my Mom I did NOT want a special "40th Birthday" bash. 40 was only a number between 39 and 41.

Now I'll be turning 42 in a few weeks. If you passed me on the street you'd say MAYBE 32 ;)

Girls in their 20's still respond positively and I feel great about myself.

Anyway, don't get too stressed out.... and Happy Birthday!
 
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