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[LC18]

Do you and other SWs provide better service to clients that are more attractive, for example, young, or good-looking or nice muscular bodies, everything else being equal, that is, politeness and good hygiene?

Do you and other SWs provide better service to clients that are more attractive, for example, young, or good-looking or nice muscular bodies, everything else being equal, that is, politeness and good hygiene? No, everyone is equal when they contact me. Now I will definitely provide a better service to a man who is respectful, polite, good communicator and clean.

I mentioned earlier that your hygiene will greatly influence the service you’ll receive. I would like to add that respect is also an influencing factor.

 

[Josephine Grey]

Do a lot of men really do not know what hygiene is?
How many leave skid marks?
Do these men look weird or do they look otherwise normal?

No. It happened to me twice.

Sometimes you get older and things change in your body. I never said anything and hid it quickly for dignity reason.

Young men do need to learn to push back their foreskin to wash their penises and to scrub their ass crack with the proper material. Its not gay to have good hygiene and wash your butthole thoroughly. It's seem to be a lost art for the young generation that makes me fear foreskin a little.

 

[1kevin]

Do you and other SWs provide better service to clients that are more attractive, for example, young, or good-looking or nice muscular bodies, everything else being equal, that is, politeness and good hygiene? No, everyone is equal when they contact me. Now I will definitely provide a better service to a man who is respectful, polite, good communicator and clean.

I mentioned earlier that your hygiene will greatly influence the service you’ll receive. I would like to add that respect is also an influencing factor.

Yes, that's why I said, everything else being equal, meaning that there are no hygiene or bad behaviour issues.

 

[Not getting younger]

Do enjoy foreplay/pillow talk or are you humoring clients?

How important is establishing some kind of connection to you? If so, how do you try to build rapport?

Do you prefer regulars? If so, why?

 

[LC18]

Do enjoy foreplay/pillow talk or are you humoring clients?

How important is establishing some kind of connection to you? If so, how do you try to build rapport?

Do you prefer regulars? If so, why?

Do enjoy foreplay/pillow talk or are you humoring clients? Foreplay when well done is amazing otherwise I’d rather we just skip it and go straight to the next step. Pillow talk is fun because we are usually more comfortable after. No more pressure.

How important is establishing some kind of connection to you? If so, how do you try to build rapport? It’s hard for me to enjoy my time with someone that doesn’t talk. I feel like they don’t really want to be there. Usually sex is also very awkward. I never know what they want so I ask questions.

Do you prefer regulars? If so, why? I do. We get to have inside jokes, funny stories and it feels a lot more natural and less transactional. I like when they start opening up and feeling more and more comfortable while still being respectful of my time and boundaries. I will sometimes send memes to regulars if they allow me to text them whenever I want.

 

[Lifes2short]

(1) By percentages, how commonly do your clients want to eat your pussy? Just curious how common this is.

 

[frisky bsnss]

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(1) If a client starts FS but hasn't given you DATY aren't you dry and kinda unready? It's not abrasive and maybe even painful? How do you handle that?

(2) When a client brings in an outcall SW to his hotel room how should he tactfully ask her to start with a shower? I have never yet seen an agency or indie stipulate that she must be given 10 minutes of alone time in the bathroom to clean up after a date.

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[Josephine Grey]

(1) By percentages, how commonly do your clients want to eat your pussy? Just curious how common this is.

85%

 

[Josephine Grey]

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(1) If a client starts FS but hasn't given you DATY aren't you dry and kinda unready? It's not abrasive and maybe even painful? How do you handle that?

(2) When a client brings in an outcall SW to his hotel room how should he tactfully ask her to start with a shower? I have never yet seen an agency or indie stipulate that she must be given 10 minutes of alone time in the bathroom to clean up after a date.

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1) yes, Lube.
2) just tell her to use the shower and have everything ready for her. Tell the booker in your inquiries too, so she expect it. If she refuses, send her home. I would send a client that refuse to shower home.

 

[LC18]

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(1) If a client starts FS but hasn't given you DATY aren't you dry and kinda unready? It's not abrasive and maybe even painful? How do you handle that?

(2) When a client brings in an outcall SW to his hotel room how should he tactfully ask her to start with a shower? I have never yet seen an agency or indie stipulate that she must be given 10 minutes of alone time in the bathroom to clean up after a date.

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(1) If a client starts FS but hasn't given you DATY aren't you dry and kinda unready? It's not abrasive and maybe even painful? How do you handle that? I can get wet from giving a BJ. If there’s no DATY and no BJ, I will use lube. I also allow fingers if the nails are short and clean.

(2) When a client brings in an outcall SW to his hotel room how should he tactfully ask her to start with a shower? I have never yet seen an agency or indie stipulate that she must be given 10 minutes of alone time in the bathroom to clean up after a date. I work for myself so I will always leave my place freshly showered. I will ask before I leave if I can use your shower and freshen up before I go back home to have a real shower.

If you want the SP to shower, maybe try “would you like to shower?” If she says no then I guess you can’t force her

 

[TOboy95]

What do you say when giving a reference for a client to another lady? Is it a simple "yeah he's good" or do you go into a little detail?

Other than screening info, what do you like to see when a client tells you about themselves in initial emails/ texts?

What's a dream session you're really hoping to have one day?

Love this thread idea btw!

 

[Lifes2short]

85%

Wow would not have thought it was that high. Thx

 

[Josephine Grey]

What do you say when giving a reference for a client to another lady? Is it a simple "yeah he's good" or do you go into a little detail?

Other than screening info, what do you like to see when a client tells you about themselves in initial emails/ texts?

What's a dream session you're really hoping to have one day?

Love this thread idea btw!

1) I will say what needs to be said. Is he hygienic, respectful, did he showed up in time ect. No personal informations are exchanged. Like oh his real name is X ect. Nothing like that. I don't give references anymore tho.

2) tell me a bit more about you. I have very little time to establish a connection with you. What do you do for fun ect. I don't care if you are young, white, fit and good looking.

3) a massage. A guy that Lay me down massage me (properly...not fingerings after 1 sec) and make me cum and then it's his turn. Client that pampers me have a special place in my heart because I pamper a lot more than I get it back in general because our job is what it is. It's about you.

 

[Josephine Grey]

Wow would not have thought it was that high. Thx

They ALWAYS get the best mileage.

 

[Josephine Grey]

How much do looks - physical features, body type and size and age affect whether you get turned on or not?

None to me are important for real. If we kiss and the passion is there and you touch me at the right place you are in for a good time. Guys need to get out of their head that we look at any of these things.

Sex workers are probably the least judgmental people you will ever met. We don't look at you like that. We look at the overall human you are and how you make us feel.

 

[LC18]

What do you say when giving a reference for a client to another lady? Is it a simple "yeah he's good" or do you go into a little detail?

Other than screening info, what do you like to see when a client tells you about themselves in initial emails/ texts?

What's a dream session you're really hoping to have one day?

Love this thread idea btw!

What do you say when giving a reference for a client to another lady? Is it a simple "yeah he's good" or do you go into a little detail? Just like @Amanda Labelle I don’t give references anymore, I don’t ask them either. I’ve realized that what’s ok for me might not be for you and vice versa. If I tell you that the client is a good client and he doesn’t meet your requirements. You’re gonna be mad at me.

Other than screening info, what do you like to see when a client tells you about themselves in initial emails/ texts? Things like physical attributes don’t really matter to me. When people include in their message that they’re that tall, their hair is that colour. That’s nice but it doesn’t matter. Tell me what you’re like as a person. Are you calm? Do you like music? Are you shy? That’s a good way for you to have the best date. For instance, if you tell me ahead that you’re shy, I’ll do my very best to make you at ease.

What's a dream session you're really hoping to have one day? I’ve had some very dreamy sessions already. My ideal date is 90-120 mins so that we can talk, laugh, maybe drink some wine if you’re into that.

A perfect date is anything over 4-5 hours. You get to really see how the person is, have sex a few times if your body and mind allow it. You’ll have the chance to share food and overall just really feel like you’re on a more traditional date. Especially when you book an overnight and you get to cuddle to sleep. (I am very picky on who I accept overnight bookings with)

 

[LC18]

How much do looks - physical features, body type and size and age affect whether you get turned on or not?

How much do looks - physical features, body type and size and age affect whether you get turned on or not? It’s not as important as what people might think. I’ve had clients that were Calvin Klein model hot but were total douches. It was not only a disappointment but it was a total turn off. I am sure you guys are the same. You might book a lady who’s smoking hot and then realize her attitude sucks, so you’ll get turned off.

I don’t judge books by their covers when it comes to my job. I’ll get really turned on by your emails/text messages and then when I’ll meet you in person the way you look won’t even matter. I think it’s very fun because a lot of time I had amazing sex with men that I don’t think I would have spoke to in a bar.

 

[LC18]

Ok, I’ve done that exact same thing but I did shower at home (and scrub my ass) beforehand.

But see there is no way for us to know for sure that you showered properly at home before coming. But his shirt was wet because of how sweaty he was.

 

[kherg007]

What have you learned about sex, or men in general, by being in this biz that you didn't know prior??

 

[JohnnyWishbone]

Are you an escort full time or just doing it part time in addition to studying or something else?

How long do you plan on being an escort for? Is there a particular goal you'd like to reach (before retiring) or you plan on being an escort till you're a pensioner ?