Asian Pride
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It's not so much that Great Bear had sex with the Panda, as it is that the Panda had sex with Great Bear.
Settle in bayisle66
Yeah it's brutal. Hell, I felt like a creep when I was 20, even more so today. I don't think it ever goes away.
For quite some time I lived in a predominantly HK-Chinese neighbourhood and nearly 50% Asian high school, but at that time there was alot less mixing. There is no getting beyond that felling of being "shut-out", as though it so out of the question to even think it.
Of course nowadays there are plenty more legitimate reasons to feel insecure and inadequate. The beating just gets worse and worse...
bayisle66 said:
Yeah it's brutal. Hell, I felt like a creep when I was 20, even more so today. I don't think it ever goes away.
For quite some time I lived in a predominantly HK-Chinese neighbourhood and nearly 50% Asian high school, but at that time there was alot less mixing. There is no getting beyond that felling of being "shut-out", as though it so out of the question to even think it.
Of course nowadays there are plenty more legitimate reasons to feel insecure and inadequate. The beating just gets worse and worse...
PHNINE said:
I think to call it an "exotic bug" makes it trivial. Maybe to some people interracial is a game or a kink. But that's not always the case. To some people this is an integral aspect of their sexuality.
It's hard enough to be honest about the fact that I'm only attracted Orientals. Women are either suspicious of you or they feel comodified and offended. I feel like I have to pass out a flyer that explains " Look, it's nothing cynical. It's just that only one type of look that turns me on. All other women are just like guy-friends to me."
Some people have a need to see the reflection of themselves in their partners. However I think it is more natural for people to be attracted to genetic diversity, or at least an appearence of diversity. In other words, someone with as little as possible in common with yourself, you sister, cousin, mother, ect..
PHNINE said:Many Asian men put white women on pedistools. They get all nervous and scared when a white women even looks at them.
Always comforting to know this happens to the other side as well...
It's probably better to stick to your own race, anyway.
It's a lot less complicated that way, without the cultural diferences, which are huge.
Try telling your white girlfirend that when you get married, she'll one day have to help you look after your parents when they are old becuase you are the number one son.
Better to just use SP's, then you can have a girl of any race under the sun.
It's a lot less complicated that way, without the cultural diferences, which are huge.
Try telling your white girlfirend that when you get married, she'll one day have to help you look after your parents when they are old becuase you are the number one son.
Better to just use SP's, then you can have a girl of any race under the sun.
punter said:
Staying within the same culture also comes with it's own baggage and expectations. Some people are looking to get away from it.
Hey Hard Idle, I didn't mean it like the opposite races only find each other attractive. What I meant is that when you find yourself more turned on by another race you have ultimately been bitten by the exotic bug. Of course there is a need to see the reflection of yourself in your partner.
The weirdest thing about us Asians that grew up here is we do see a reflection of ourselves in white partners although they might not see it in us. I know I do. I mean flip the tables, if you were some white dude that grew up in China your whole life, I am pretty sure you would feel more closer to Chinese women rather then some MTV watching teenie bopper white girl, or even a chinese girl that grew up in North America. But in any case, we are saying the same thing and I am not disagreeing with you at all, just adding to what you are saying.
The weirdest thing about us Asians that grew up here is we do see a reflection of ourselves in white partners although they might not see it in us. I know I do. I mean flip the tables, if you were some white dude that grew up in China your whole life, I am pretty sure you would feel more closer to Chinese women rather then some MTV watching teenie bopper white girl, or even a chinese girl that grew up in North America. But in any case, we are saying the same thing and I am not disagreeing with you at all, just adding to what you are saying.
Interesting thoughts but here's some encouraging info for the guy who wants to date asians and is white.
Go on lavalife and you'll be surprised how many asian women are looking for white guys some are more blunt than others. Some come out and say it and others say that they are looking for 6' and taller (which rules out many asian men outside of the chinese b-ball team).
Go on lavalife and you'll be surprised how many asian women are looking for white guys some are more blunt than others. Some come out and say it and others say that they are looking for 6' and taller (which rules out many asian men outside of the chinese b-ball team).
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frankcastle said:
I was going to suggest Lavalife, but then lately with all the negative posts on it on TERB, I decided to leave it out. However Frank, is right and tehre are alot of Asian girls looking for white guy, or in code over 6'. LOL
I am 6'1" so where all the ladies at?
Those parties have been here for years in varying degrees, car keys or simply names on paper. In the movie Ice Storm weren't Christina Riccis parents going to a key party.
A-ROD said:
I'm not sure what an Asian is, but I do know that euthanasia is not a Chinese rock band.
