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I am back on the online dating. There are a few sites that I have been using but without a subscription but there is no two way interaction. I will probably be subscribing to 1 of the 3 that I am on over the weekend. Probably a toss up between Korean or HK dating I am getting the least hits here but with a membership it will really allow me to open the channels of communication up. The other Asian dating is out of hand. Between the hours of 12am - 8am (beacause of time difference) I am getting bombarded with interests from girls from the Phillipines, Indonesia, Thailand even recenlty a few white girls from the U.S, Germany. In 2 weeks, i have over 200 women that have added me to their interests.

Supposedly, shit is off the hook in the Phillipines from i what i've been told. Not only are there hot chicks everywhere but i't's a tropical paradise compared to HK/ China or Korea. They love westerners are very pro american and many speak english. Old, fat, ugly, bald it don't matter you can still have a hottie on your arm. I have girls 18 years old goregous looking for marriage, WTF! You can buy a house for dirt cheap down there as well, and you hire a housekeeper to do all the chores. I am considering selling by business here and heading down ( I fear the tsunamis though), or buying a place just as a retreat or vacation home for myslef . If I changed my location on my profile to Manilla or Bangkok it would be all over. There would be a lineup of girls on bicycles fighting over a spot in my bed. LOL!

I heard tonnes of european dudes have second lives even families without their wives knowing. What is your take terbites? Shoiuld i make the move?
 
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I am not an expert, but I have lived in other countries. Generally, if some things are cheap, others are expensive. In the Philipines, food is the big expense along with medical. When I say food I mean generally every thing is over the top, eggs, cheese. I suggest you talk to some one from the country you are considering, that has been there recently. I got some of this info from a Philipina nanny I happen to know. But I see the allure, I would love to go and live there with a sweetie!
 
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Be aware that at least half those flip girls are really just after your wallet, that it's basically pay for play, or worse, just a scam. The other half are sincerely hoping to find a foreign husband to get them the hell out of that country. Of those that are sincere, some of them might even stay with you once they've got a better life elsewhere.

I'm not saying it's a bad idea. I'm just saying keep your eyes open. Pinays are very, very good at extracting cash from foreigners through various schemes. You will often find that once you hook up with your Pinay GF online that she has trouble paying her tuition, that her aunt gets sick and is in the hospital, that her roof is leaking, and that it would be so much easier for her to talk to you if she had a computer at home and didn't have to go to internet cafe. In short, she will have many problems, all of which can easily be solved by you by the application of a little cash.

But not all are like that. Some are genuinely interested in marrying someone who can provide them with a better life in another country, and are dead serious about staying with that person for life if they're treated well. Maybe not what you were hoping for, but that's what THEY are hoping for.

What sites were you trying? There is a free one, dateinasia.com does not require any fees.
 
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You nailed it fuji. Thai ladies are much sincere. All my friends who have had Pinays mentioned how they sneaked and sent money back home. Scammers or Parasites what ever you call them? It's a big business in their country. 95% of the ladies in any Asain dating sites are pinays.
 
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Just for clarity--I don't think ALL pinays are bad or insincere or scammers. Many of them are quite sincere, and will be frank and open about what they want. There really are a lot who married guys twice their age in another country, moved there, started a family, and stuck with their husband through thick and thin. But there are also a lot of scams, and anybody who tries the online dating thing with flip girls should simply keep their eyes open and be aware that a fairly large fraction of the girls online are looking for money or a passport, and not a relationship.

The other thing to be aware of is the cultural difference. The OP is overjoyed that girls in these countries will happily date guys twice their age. It's true too. But be aware of the full package--that Thai or Pinay hottie comes with a family, and in her mind any guy who loves here will obviously want to help her family out, because in her culture that is what love means. That's part of the reason why in that culture hot young girls are willing to date guys much older than them in the first place. They do not clearly separate "love" and "finance" and "family" the way we do in North America, to them it's one inter-connected nexus. In that culture if you love someone, that means that from the bottom of your heart you want to help their family out financially. If you don't help her family, she will conclude that you don't really love her after all.

Nothing really wrong with that, it's just their culture, it's got pro's and it's got con's. But the short story is, if you can't accept a relationship where you will be expected to help her family out then don't date the thai or flip hottie, because that's what she will expect from the relationship.
 
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fuji said:
Just for clarity--I don't think ALL pinays are bad or insincere or scammers. Many of them are quite sincere, and will be frank and open about what they want. There really are a lot who married guys twice their age in another country, moved there, started a family, and stuck with their husband through thick and thin. But there are also a lot of scams, and anybody who tries the online dating thing with flip girls should simply keep their eyes open and be aware that a fairly large fraction of the girls online are looking for money or a passport, and not a relationship.

The other thing to be aware of is the cultural difference. The OP is overjoyed that girls in these countries will happily date guys twice their age. It's true too. But be aware of the full package--that Thai or Pinay hottie comes with a family, and in her mind any guy who loves here will obviously want to help her family out, because in her culture that is what love means. That's part of the reason why in that culture hot young girls are willing to date guys much older than them in the first place. They do not clearly separate "love" and "finance" and "family" the way we do in North America, to them it's one inter-connected nexus. In that culture if you love someone, that means that from the bottom of your heart you want to help their family out financially. If you don't help her family, she will conclude that you don't really love her after all.

Nothing really wrong with that, it's just their culture, it's got pro's and it's got con's. But the short story is, if you can't accept a relationship where you will be expected to help her family out then don't date the thai or flip hottie, because that's what she will expect from the relationship.
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Very well explained.

An acquaintance of mine, a woman, got involved with a younger man overseas. It got serious. They got married and lived here in Canada. She was buying all kinds of stuff for her new in-laws while she paid for his university education. After a few years, they split up. He had his education and his family were much better off. She, of course, was heartbroken. I didn't know them well enough to know if it was a con from the start, but she sure got taken to the cleaners.
 
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When I was in Thailand last year, I was sitting on the beach, I looked over behind me, there was this middle age man having 2 hot girls besides him, one feeding him with grape, the other just do nothing. I smiled and nod to them, they waved back. I went over and start a conversation with the man.
He is from the US, he said that he came over every 2 years, he is not very wealthy by US standard, he saved up 20K and headed over to Thailand, rent an apartment and live a King for 2 years until all his money is gone. He got a nanny, a girlfriend and a motor cycle.
He's going back to US and worked, saved up his money and leave again. I think that was a pretty good idea, freedom of life so to speak.
He said that there is a lot of people are doing that, they all hanged out in a particular bar, with their bikes and shoot the shit about anything, almost daily. What a life.
 
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bunch of white men losers pay to fuck asian women, while blacks are fucking your white women for free!
 
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That's what I like...

TVA said:
bunch of white men losers pay to fuck asian women, while blacks are fucking your white women for free!
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...a poster with Class. How eloquent!
 
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TVA said:
bunch of white men losers pay to fuck asian women, while blacks are fucking your white women for free!
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lool
 
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There are a whole wack of Asian girls in the GTA already. Wouldn't seeking out one of them be easier?
 
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whobee said:
There are a whole wack of Asian girls in the GTA already. Wouldn't seeking out one of them be easier?
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Last time I checked there were no palm trees and sandy beaches in GTA!
 
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TVA said:
bunch of white men losers pay to fuck asian women, while blacks are fucking your white women for free!
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Ya your right they're all walking around Sq 1 with these Ja-fakin broads pushing the double stroller. No offence to the brothers but you guys need to splurge for condoms or learn to pull out!
 
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whobee said:
There are a whole wack of Asian girls in the GTA already. Wouldn't seeking out one of them be easier?
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20 year old hot asian girls in the gta don't date guys more than twice their age. You'd have to fall back to asians in their 30s or opt for pay for play.
 
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fuji said:
20 year old hot asian girls in the gta don't date guys more than twice their age. You'd have to fall back to asians in their 30s or opt for pay for play.
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Not necessarily true. There are many Asians here studying or learning English and they have a more open minded approach to the age difference than Canadian raised girls, Asian or otherwise.
 
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fuji said:
There is a free one, dateinasia.com does not require any fees.
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Thanks for the Link.

Any suggestions for Filtering out the scammers, for somebody looking for serious relationship with 35+ year old.
 
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