cute-bald said:
that the reason I would not be getting dates on P.O.F. is because I am short at 5'5" ...... like I don't already know!! AND the fact that there is thousands of single women on P.O.F from the Toronto area who ALL share this mentality that they would be "settling" if they dated anyone under 5'10"+. P.S. these are the ladies, who almost all , have had horrible past relationships because of their mentality & selection criteria. The stupid are those that keep doing the same thing over ..... P.O.F. is in no short supply of stupid.
A piece of advice from a guy who has been picked on for most of his life for the following reasons.
1) I was ALWAYS overweight and everyone knows children can be very crewel
2) until I turned 17 the only 2 guys shorter than me were guys with growth defects who to this day are the same height they were at 12 years old. I grew in spurts. I reached 6 feet tall at 24 years of age.
I've been made fun of for being short & for being fat. It's not pretty. But you have to overcome yourself. You need to accept yourself for who you are. Accept that you can never make everyone happy. Accept that if you can't laugh at yourself who can you laugh at. And accept that everyone has personal tastes which vary.
Personal tastes and politics are two things which should never be discussed because there is no way to have a resolution to the discussion about them.
As for POF. I've had women contact me back and forth when my first profile was on there. I've had many women enjoy my communications and my banter on their boards but I also got many moderators very angry at me to the point they ended up banning my account, well actually they banned 2 of my accounts.
I look at it this way. Everyone has a job. I am me and you don't like it you can blow me. If you try to tease me remember I've heard most things so if it's not original be prepared to have your intelligence and creativeness challenged, and be made a fool of in front of your girl. If it's something I've found witty in the past or I feel is creative I'll laugh right along with you and usually send a zinger back your way.
And why is it always the ones with the Napoleonic syndrome that this has to be explained to??