My thoughts exactly, but then again, I have already posted extensively on this very issue.
Samurai Joey
Samurai Joey
stinkynuts said:
Are you taller than me?
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I can't believe women aren't throwing themselves at cute-bald!?
Dude's a short, bald, insecure, bitter, misogynist figure skater. He's a catch - what's wrong with those POF and Toronto bitches?!?
Seriously c-b, what do you expect out of life, love and women? If it's been 44 years, have you ever for a moment thought that it just might be you?
Dude's a short, bald, insecure, bitter, misogynist figure skater. He's a catch - what's wrong with those POF and Toronto bitches?!?
Seriously c-b, what do you expect out of life, love and women? If it's been 44 years, have you ever for a moment thought that it just might be you?
Hey CF... I'm going out on a limb here.... but I think you just made CB's IGNORE list!Captain Fantastic said:
How do you know? Did I make it too?Cycleguy007 said:Hey CF... I'm going out on a limb here.... but I think you just made CB's IGNORE list!
What is this, a competition? "Who can be put on IGNORE by the most wankers?"genintoronto said:
Wishful thinking? With the amount of "short" references I've made in the last couple days... I'm probably ALSO on the list! LOL!genintoronto said:
Well, your replies were good, witty, and all. But I definitely put more sarcasm in mine. That should count for something, no?Captain Fantastic said:What is this, a competition? "Who can be put on IGNORE by the most wankers?"
I want recognition from my contemporaries, not only after I die.
I fully recognize your wit and sarcasm. I think mine might have been a bit too viscous.genintoronto said:
You think? I for one enjoyed it. Especially when it came unexpected and randomly in unrelated conversations.a 1 player said:
LOL LOL! superficial? It is a height issue with that poor soul, never mind the superficial shit. If he is not posting about his mansion, he is posting about height. It's ridiculous.stinkynuts said:
Just to REMIND you all !!!!!
It WAS Genintoronto that offered the explanation to the lack of dates off P.O.F to my shortness ..... NOT me. I just agreed that anyone who lives in North America & is not clueless knows women equate tallness to sexyness & manlyness. Ya' don't even need to read the reaserch out of the sociology dept. of Universities to relise the fixation that women have about height of men. Pathetic but all too true. Don't look at it as my opinion but that of the reaserchers & if you don't agree....... have some balls & publish your own rebuttle if you believe their reaserch is flawed ! Not here to change any opinions or to offer my own or to claim I conducted an formal research....... after all it was Genintoronto who offered the explanation, sooo perhaps rebutt her!
It WAS Genintoronto that offered the explanation to the lack of dates off P.O.F to my shortness ..... NOT me. I just agreed that anyone who lives in North America & is not clueless knows women equate tallness to sexyness & manlyness. Ya' don't even need to read the reaserch out of the sociology dept. of Universities to relise the fixation that women have about height of men. Pathetic but all too true. Don't look at it as my opinion but that of the reaserchers & if you don't agree....... have some balls & publish your own rebuttle if you believe their reaserch is flawed ! Not here to change any opinions or to offer my own or to claim I conducted an formal research....... after all it was Genintoronto who offered the explanation, sooo perhaps rebutt her!
You just don't get it CB... Your problem ISN'T with your stature... (or rather supposed lack there of). It is the fact that you are letting that issue be your hang up. You have gone on and on about it for months! Gen and the rest of us in this thread are only poking fun at your height because we know it bugs you, because you have convinced yourself that, that is the only reason you aren't more successful in your quest for a meaningful relationship. Many on this board have tried to tell you many times that although height "may" be an issue, you can't let it consume you.
You (like the rest of us) have to rise above whatever short comings may be present (seriously no pun intended this time), in order to be successful in your quest for a mate. Then, and only then, I suspect that things will turn around for you.
As always... Just my nickels worth.
You (like the rest of us) have to rise above whatever short comings may be present (seriously no pun intended this time), in order to be successful in your quest for a mate.
Then, and only then, I suspect that things will turn around for you.As always... Just my nickels worth.
CB.
Did my post teach you nothing?
I been there.
Dude I'm tall & fat but I do still get dates.
Beause I am me and there isn't another mofo like me anywhere.
There may be taller or shorter, thinner & thicker. But there's only one ME.
Be proud of who you are. accept your limitations and build your character and confidence.
Did my post teach you nothing?
I been there.
Dude I'm tall & fat but I do still get dates.
Beause I am me and there isn't another mofo like me anywhere.
There may be taller or shorter, thinner & thicker. But there's only one ME.
Be proud of who you are. accept your limitations and build your character and confidence.
Yeah, Gen was teasing you a bit. It is, after all, the Internet. And man, did you ever take the bait. LOLcute-bald said:It WAS Genintoronto that offered the explanation to the lack of dates off P.O.F to my shortness ..... NOT me. I just agreed that anyone who lives in North America & is not clueless knows women equate tallness to sexyness & manlyness. Ya' don't even need to read the reaserch out of the sociology dept. of Universities to relise the fixation that women have about height of men. Pathetic but all too true. Don't look at it as my opinion but that of the reaserchers & if you don't agree....... have some balls & publish your own rebuttle if you believe their reaserch is flawed ! Not here to change any opinions or to offer my own or to claim I conducted an formal research....... after all it was Genintoronto who offered the explanation, sooo perhaps rebutt her!
Rebuttle? Manlyness? Reaserch? (once is a typo, twice is an error). Women man not like short guys but I bet they hate illiterate ones!
I will do my best to explain this logically one final time, then consider 'open season' on.cute-bald said:It WAS Genintoronto that offered the explanation to the lack of dates off P.O.F to my shortness ..... NOT me. I just agreed that anyone who lives in North America & is not clueless knows women equate tallness to sexyness & manlyness. Ya' don't even need to read the reaserch out of the sociology dept. of Universities to relise the fixation that women have about height of men. Pathetic but all too true. Don't look at it as my opinion but that of the reaserchers & if you don't agree....... have some balls & publish your own rebuttle if you believe their reaserch is flawed ! Not here to change any opinions or to offer my own or to claim I conducted an formal research....... after all it was Genintoronto who offered the explanation, sooo perhaps rebutt her!
You are right, being short can be difficult, and I am pretty sure that no one is disagreeing with you about this fact. There are challenges and stigmas that short men must overcome, and yes, the cards may be stacked against men of shorter stature.
but...
The world is also stacked against the obese, people with bad teeth, body odor, ethnic minorities, people with low incomes, lazy eye, people who are shy, have acne, are balding, and a whole bunch of other things that are often above a persons ability to correct or change. What can be changed is the self pity you have for yourself, and the hate it appears you have for everybody who is not a 'short lover'. You think you have challenges? Think for a second how hard it mist have been for Sylvester Stallone or Tom Cruise to break into Hollywood. Let alone become action stars.
When I see you post, I do not see a short man. I see a man who has a low self esteem, a person who makes excuses, and a person who finds it easier to blame others than to focus on all that is positive in your life. Look man, I have a good sized belly, yes I could get rid of it but I don't. It is a part of me and who I am. Because of this, I KNOW that there are many women who would not consider me 'dating material' based on physical appearance alone. And don't think being a large man is not a disability for one second, I can assure you that it is. I though could not give a rats ass how anyone else sees me. If there is a woman I find attractive, I go and speak to her, and I can guarantee in 20 minutes my belly is 75% less important than it was to her when we first met. No, I'm trying not to blow my own horn here, and I certainly don't want to sound vain. I am just an average guy who has learned to deal with MY personal disability.
The way in which I deal with my shortcomings is that I have a large self esteem. I don't mean an overly inflated ego, but an esteem where I know that I am as good as any man out there. I don't care if they are doctors, lawyers, movie actors or athletes. I also feel that there is not one single woman in the world who is out of my league. Having said that, I also realize that my stature, looks, personality, and net worth might not be what a woman is looking for. No biggie. That is the way the world works, always has and always will. I just don't feel the need to place blame on anyone or anything if things do not work out for me.
When someone comments about my belly, (and it has happened many times over the years), it tells me more about them than it does about me. It lets me know off the start that I have an advantage over them, that they have an insecurity and have the need to try to put down someone else to raise their own lacking esteem. This is when I usually go for the kill and teach them a lesson. I will not be picked on, I will not take their bullshit.
You see cute bald, attitude is more important than anything else. Either prove the world wrong or keep blaming everyone else. This is the choice you have to make. Personality and your outlook is everything. It really is that simple.
Ok, you have female friends, you are obviously not completely repulsive. So, what are you going to do turn there female friends into dating material? Have you asked any of them out? If not, why not? Have you asked any of them to set you up with one of their lady friends? If not, why not?cute-bald said:you are completely right & that is why I have had & have female friends. BTW I am probably the worlds worst speller despite my University education....... & heck .... that is just ME !!
And if one of those lady friends tells you that you are too short, just say something back like, "you are right, what was I thinking, I just thought you might need a date because you'd probably have trouble meeting people with tits that are so small". Really, what is the worst that could happen?
So cute bald... Are you done with this short shit, or am I going to have to tease you until you need therapy? And don't think I'm not serious either.
