Are you more likely to book an appointment with an Escort who posts in The Lounge?

[Imperius]

I'm generally interested in seeing a woman based on her pictures, stats, services offered, location, fee and personality/attitude (in no particular order).

I can see all of those from her ad except for attitude (usually), so her non-advertising posts on TERB, as well as reviews of her, help confirm a compatible personality or attitude and hopefully an enjoyable session. I do find that those who post on TERB generally seem to "like" their jobs... not to say that those that don't post don't enjoy their work, but it's just more of a crapshoot.

However I'm not looking to build a relationship or friendship outside of our session, so it only has so much impact.

 

[blaze69]

I was going to book an SP on Terb until I read a post from her and she came across like a man hater.

So, it actually backfired on her.

Same. I actually booked a particular sp even with the something odd posts, and she cancels. The following week she posts rants about customers. Then more posts that she's retiring. Weeks later, still advertising but silence on the retiring idea.

Not sure if posting has backfired on this sp, but life might have.

 

[Jennifer_]

not really a double edged sword ... more like a win / win ....If I offend someone by a post on terb we probably aren't a good match.






this works to benefit all of us

What you see is what you get when I post. I'd rather be hated for who I am that pretend to be something I'm not so you will like me. Posting in the lounge regularly ensures that terbites who don't like my attitude don't book me.

I have likely offended a lot of people the through my posts. I'm also very-much myself when I write...

I don't mean to- I've simply yet to find a forum similar to this... I like political chats... (And I'm very set in my opinions...). Those opinions are likely irritating to those on the opposite end if the political spectrum though.

I only post my schedule here because most of my clients come here. I don't use Terb to attract clients to see me ... (I'd be more politically correct if attracting new clientele was my main motivation )

 

[The Options Menu]

LOL. I didn't mean to vote, and I voted wrong...

I'm a SC guy. The only SPs and MPAs I've ever seriously considered seeing have been 'Lounge posters' here. If I ever need a 'sure bet hour of fun' it will be with a 'Lounge poster' here who seems reasonably cool and well balanced.

edit: @Jennifer_ above: I think you acquit yourself quite well. Even if a potential customer disagrees with you, THEY HAVE TO APPRECIATE that you are bright, articulate, and passionate. That's almost always sexy. Personally, most of your posts are preaching to the choir when it comes to me, but if a person is so partisan they can't appreciate bright, articulate, and passionate then they have the problem and you may be better off without them. Yes. I'm sucking up.

 

[Moviefan-2]

edit: @Jennifer_ above: I think you acquit yourself quite well. Even if a potential customer disagrees with you, THEY HAVE TO APPRECIATE that you are bright, articulate, and passionate. That's almost always sexy. Personally, most of your posts are preaching to the choir when it comes to me, but if a person is so partisan they can't appreciate bright, articulate, and passionate then they have the problem and you may be better off without them. Yes. I'm sucking up.

Building on that -- why would anyone take his politics so seriously that it affects who he books with?

I have strongly held views. But my opinion of others isn't based on whether or not they agree with me.

I've said before that I think the Lounge and other forums provide an opportunity for SPs to reveal a bit of their personalities. I believe it works in their favour, and some of my favourite SPs over the years were women I discovered on TERB.

 

[train]

(I'd be more politically correct if attracting new clientele was my main motivation )

Yes , politically you are usually incorrect but I still love you.

 

[The Options Menu]

Building on that -- why would anyone take his politics so seriously that it affects who he books with?

Even then, it could be role played as something of a turn on... If bitch says something lefty, just think of Rob Ford and carry on... Oh, wai...

 

[Davenash2]

I'm also very-much myself when I write...

So yes I do like reading post from MPA and SP in the form.

I tend to be attracted to a MPA or SP who is intelligent and knows how to talk with a man. Jen is that. There is more to a MPA or SP that just great sexual service. Sharing experiences and common interests, make this time with her, both mind and body fulfilling. I wish most women understood that!

 

[james t kirk]

What changed and why?

Nothing changed.

I'm just saying that I booked a certain girl about a year ago who regularly posts in the lounge because I liked her mind as well as what I read about her (and she knows who she is). Had a great time and would recommend and would repeat, but I have not seen her since the time we met because I have not seen an SP since the time we met. Nothing to do with her, just a choice on my part not to partake in full service for a multitude of reasons.

 

[Jennifer_]

Yes , politically you are usually incorrect but I still love you.

yayaya....

I disagree with almost everything you post about political stuff but you're a good person who I respect a lot.....

(and if you've ever been offended by my posts I'd give you the "whatever - deal with it" hand lol )

 

[mightymouse007]

So yes I do like reading post from MPA and SP in the form.

I tend to be attracted to a MPA or SP who is intelligent and knows how to talk with a man. Jen is that. There is more to a MPA or SP that just great sexual service. Sharing experiences and common interests, make this time with her, both mind and body fulfilling. I wish most women understood that!

Well, I'll be honest too! Jennifer writing here did make some impact on me at least
Fortunately, I dunno jack shit about politics, so there is no controversial dispute there.
I like a session where the MP/SP is controversial. I hate it when they just do their job and that's it.
But ya, I see Jennifer more for companionship than a session type. Can't speak for others.

 

[krayjee]

I love reading jennifer's posts. She is always straight forward and very much herself when she writes. The only ladies I do not like are those who jumped in here at every opportunity to get exposure without any substance. LR and RD. They have toned down a lot now and one was blasted pretty harsh in here last yr causing her to leave the forum altogether.

 

[james t kirk]

^^^ Yes, I've noticed that some girls come to the lounge and start a "dummy thread" for the increased exposure. Anyone is free to post in the Lounge about a topic not related to marketing of oneself. That is to say that any woman could start any thread at any time in the Lounge about a random topic so long as she was not using it to market her services. In order to market her services, she has to be "blue subscriber" and then she has to post in the the correct hobby related sections.

So sometimes I've noticed in the lounge that girls will start a thread simply by posting a new thread, and copying a link. No comment from the girl, no follow up, no nothing. Just get the boys talking and hopefully they click on her link to her website. Usually it's really obvious when the girls are doing this - they never reappear to comment again on their very own thread, just a thread title and a link to whatever news media or two sentences asking some dumb question to start a thread debate. (So really, how important could it have been for them to learn about our desires as to their makeup selection, or a new thread on taxes in Canada.)

The lounge has a lot more traffic than the Independent Escort Advertising section.

But there are huge exceptions of course to this. Jennifer never does this. She is an active participant in the Lounge on many levels and I always enjoy reading her posts. Ditto Sweet Petite Jessica always fully participates in the thread.

 

[Lustology]

I have avoided certain sp's because of their posts in the lounge, plenty of fish in the sea mates.


p.s. the top sp's don't even post in the lounge, do you know why, they're too busy fucking their clients.

 

[wigglee]

yayaya....

I disagree with almost everything you post about political stuff but you're a good person who I respect a lot.....

(and if you've ever been offended by my posts I'd give you the "whatever - deal with it" hand lol )

and it might be fun for Jennifer to play Olivia Chow to my John Diefenbaker

 

[james t kirk]

and it might be fun for Jennifer to play Olivia Chow to my John Diefenbaker

Now there's a couple.

 

[Don]

I voted that it can be a positive, but it really depends on what they post. If I get a positive vibe, then sure. For example, I get a positive vibe from say Jessica. An example of someone I would avoid because of their posts would be the infamous Lisa (is she even still around?).

 

[Jennifer_]

thanks for the positive mention glad I'm not driving you batty lol


I don't even know what a "top sp" is ... but if you referring to more expensive ladies they aren't fucking clients all day that's for sure. I'm not one of them as my rates are at par and even I don't see more than 3 clients in a day ... sometimes fewer if the appointments are multi hour. I'm sitting in a hotel room, I've already worked out and there's nothing on tv ... I've got plenty of time to participate in lounge discussions

... exactly - a "top SP" is seeing barely any clients. That's a positive from all sides obviously.

When I post (in the lounge or Politics section) - It's because when I found this site, I was intrigued by what i could learn and I enjoy talking about my headspace and learning about others' (both from the clients' perspective and other girls'). The psychological chats have helped me do what I do.... I think we all (providers and clients) struggle sometimes understanding all this - and there is a lot we can all learn here.

Lotsa girls don't like looking at Terb (to preserve their sanity...).
I don't look at anything here other than the Lounge or Politics Section (to preserve my sanity... lol)

But I don't think that girls who actively post here are better or less-better than anyone else.

I think those who post here are simply more interested in being part of a community - or perhaps they (or we) want to be understood a bit better....

I started posting here using "lynn" back when I worked at a spa where posting on Terb was discouraged. My bosses tolerated my posting because my intentions were to talk - not to get guys to see me. I used an anonymous name....

I've learned a lot from you guys and ladies.... Everyone is different.... but some of us are probably better for our participation (or interest) in the chats we have read or participated in on this board....

 

[Jennifer_]

thanks for the positive mention glad I'm not driving you batty lol


I don't even know what a "top sp" is ... but if you referring to more expensive ladies they aren't fucking clients all day that's for sure. I'm not one of them as my rates are at par and even I don't see more than 3 clients in a day ... sometimes fewer if the appointments are multi hour. I'm sitting in a hotel room, I've already worked out and there's nothing on tv ... I've got plenty of time to participate in lounge discussions

... exactly - a "top SP" is seeing barely any clients. That's a positive from all sides obviously.

When I post (in the lounge or Politics section) - It's because when I found this site, I was intrigued by what i could learn and I enjoy talking about my headspace and learning about others' (both from the clients' perspective and other girls'). The psychological chats have helped me do what I do.... I think we all (providers and clients) struggle sometimes understanding all this - and there is a lot we can all learn here.

Lotsa girls don't like looking at Terb (to preserve their sanity...).
I don't look at anything here other than the Lounge or Politics Section (to preserve my sanity... lol)

But I don't think that girls who actively post here are better or less-better than anyone else.

I think those who post here are simply more interested in being part of a community - or perhaps they (or we) want to be understood a bit better....

I started posting here using "lynn" back when I worked at a spa where posting on Terb was discouraged. My bosses tolerated my posting because my intentions were to talk - not to get guys to see me. I used an anonymous name....

I've learned a lot from you guys and ladies.... Everyone is different.... but some of us are probably better for our participation (or interest) in the chats we have read or participated in on this board....