Are you doing it without condom?

[daKoolGuy]

Whatever may be the rates, it's a matter of time before something catches up with you. Tests or no tests , there is absolutely no guarantees. You do it if you have a death wish.

 

[goalie000]

What I have found is, that yes there is a sensitivity problem with using a condom, but I have also found that the size of the condom makes a difference too. Regular size condoms are too tight and cause a definate problem with me. I've started to take a Larger size with me and it does make a difference in the sensitivity department IMHO.

 

[great bear]

Forgive me for using sp in two different senses - of the 4 relationships I've been in, 1 was a stripper; another was an mpa. None were SP's in the sense of escort. That's all I meant.

As for the rest, you can believe what you want, but it's obvious there's a much bigger world out there than you realize. Do you know there's escort services in both New York City, LA and Las Vegas that tests girls for each client because at the price being paid ain't nobody going to be using a condom?

Again, I'm not talking about one time interactions here. I've got nothing against being paid by the hour; but there's a whole different level that this game can be played at.

The bottom line is this: many men strongly desire and prefer sex without a condom. Physically, it feels much better. Psychologically, it has much greater appeal. As such, these men are willing to pay for it - pay extra for it.

Yes - these men will want to minimize the risks. That's part of the cost of the transaction. But the fact is, for most condomless sex is better.

I'm not trying to convince you to engage in the activity. I'm merely explaining why men naturally want it and how to get it. My advice is sound.

Your position is nothing but rhetoric.

Interesting solution: Test the girl but not the client?

 

[TQM]

great bear,

I've been tested, when requested. It ain't difficult. I know what I have (and haven't) got. So I don't mind getting tested. If that's all that separating me from paradise......

 

[Bud Plug]

Whatever may be the rates, it's a matter of time before something catches up with you. Tests or no tests , there is absolutely no guarantees. You do it if you have a death wish.

Sex must be nerve-wracking for you, thinking that any tear in the latex could be your swan song! I don't know how you find the courage to even try it!

Honestly, the dangers of sex are oversold by the condom and public health industries. This ain't Africa. In North America, there are many STDs you can catch, but the incidence of catching a fatal one, particularly if you are not engaged in unprotected anal sex with a gay male needle-sharing drug user, is extremely low. Almost all the non-fatal STDs are easily treated.

There are common sense situations where there is no reason to take any chances at all (i.e. SPs, one night stands), but most people shouldn't worry so much about STDs that they think the only acceptable way to have sex is with a condom.

 

[Vancouver Femme Fatale]

Depends on if they have taken the STD advice to heart. I have and won't have sex without a condom with an SP. It is really important to practice safe sex especially if you are in a relationship. Believe it or not it also shows respect to the sex worker. It says you take her safety seriously.

EU

I totally agree.

 

[daKoolGuy]

Sex must be nerve-wracking for you, thinking that any tear in the latex could be your swan song! I don't know how you find the courage to even try it!

Honestly, the dangers of sex are oversold by the condom and public health industries. This ain't Africa. In North America, there are many STDs you can catch, but the incidence of catching a fatal one, particularly if you are not engaged in unprotected anal sex with a gay male needle-sharing drug user, is extremely low. Almost all the non-fatal STDs are easily treated.

There are common sense situations where there is no reason to take any chances at all (i.e. SPs, one night stands), but most people shouldn't worry so much about STDs that they think the only acceptable way to have sex is with a condom.

I was talking of BBFS, if that was something you did not understand.
I luv women and sex, nuff said.
Agree with you on the heightened paranoia created through repeated brainwashing by some agencies. Ultimately, it's your judgement.

 

[Shaunhorny]

Why don't we use the same tests that porn actors do? Have results in 2-3 days:

http://aim-med.org

If it was required by the SP and the client, all the better.

Yeah, there is a way bigger world out there and I mean that in many ways. I've been to Amsterdam's Redlight District. It's very nice, clean, mainstream window shopping for women. I wish other cities would catch up, namely Toronto.

 

[Shaunhorny]

Note that the standard test is the ELISA test, but the one porn actors take (shown on that link above) is the PCR/DNA test. Not only is it faster but it's much better.

 

[pokerdude]

Look if there was no such things as HIV and STDs and 100% effective birth control, condoms would be obsolete. I know for a fact that there are SPs out there having BBFS and BBGreek with some regular clients. This is not for me and when I know that an SP I am seeing or would like to see is engaging in this type of activity I stay the %#&* away.