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Appropriate age difference between client and SP??

fictionfactor

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i don't think age has anything to do with it if you look good. some guys over 50 have a Hot 20 something give them money back. That says something to the experience. I won't tell you who the guy is but you might guess ;o)
 

onomatopoeia

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Once I was walking on Carlton Street near Jarvis fairly late at night, and I saw a teenage Street Walker on the other side of the street. A group of young guys in a convertible drove by her, and one of them adressed her by her real name. She said "No, I'm not me!".
 

Mr Deeds

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I'm in 50s as well & don't book with anyone under 35 & almost never anyone under 30, the creepy factor is just too much for me...
Im the same I wouldn't feel right booking a woman under 30,it's not to say I'm not tempted by some of these hot young things but I think ( at least for me) it's creepy
 

Leimonis

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In fact i have had a lot of 20 something sp's tell me that they actually prefer older more mature clients in there 60's and 70's because they are generally more respectful and less childish then the young guys.
and cum faster and cannot go for a second shot within an hour. What's not to like? :)
 

jalimon

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In fact i have had a lot of 20 something sp's tell me that they actually prefer older more mature clients in there 60's and 70's because they are generally more respectful and less childish then the young guys.
Exactly!

Me I tell the girl up front that having sex with me will either lead to an orgasm, a cramp or a heart attack :ROFLMAO: Never had the later so we should be good!
 

Valcazar

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If it is bothering you, then it is not appropriate for you.

There isn't a right or wrong way to do this. If what you want out of the encounter will be screwed up by a given age difference, then avoid that age difference.
Don't let other people tell you you're doing it wrong - you have the option to look for an SP that is going to provide the type of encounter you want/need.
Go do that and don't worry what other people are saying about it. They aren't you.
 

tagpro

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I don't care about age gap; between the client (ie. me) and the provider (i.e. her), as long as I can afford her rates and she has no restrictions on who she sees, fair game. The concept of consent, the agreement and the age of, are truly wonderful thing.

Tis the reason consent is the sexiest thing in a woman/partner/provider.
 

stinkynuts

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I would say age doesn't matter. In terms of physical attractiveness, though, yes it does. If you are extremely obese, or extremely gross and ugly, then anyone would would not feel comfortable. A guy in his seventies who takes great care of himself is obviously more attractive than a 20 year old drug addict with rotten teeth and bad skin.
 

poker

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1 year is the only appropriate age difference. But you have to be careful, as they to mislead you in their ads. That is why I always demand to see 2 pieces of picture ID at the door, and match it with the ad. If they only have one piece, I ask for references… maybe a parent, or close friend who can confirm the SP’s age over the phone.
 

Ryan4life

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Does it bother you because certain segments of society have deemed it as creepy and are quick to vilify anyone that doesn't follow what they see as socially acceptable or because you personally see it as creepy? Just remember those same people see men paying for sex as gross and creepy and also remember at one time our society saw men having sex with other men as gross and creepy and that interracial dating was a no no as well. Wanting to have sex with younger women is just a preference and perfectly natural, just like women preferring to date tall men. Moral of the story ...don't let others define your happiness.
 
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NotADcotor

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Holy crap man, an over the top response to a reasonable question on age separation.
Uncalled for & IMHO just rude.
It was a perfectly reasonable answer to your question. Anyone in the business is banging dudes who gross them out, even ignoring the age question. If they couldn't handle it they wouldn't be in the business. It's reality.
If nobody but hot attractive studs were paying to fuck the business would collapse, this is also reality. It would look a lot more like the gigolo market.
There are straight dudes who fuck dudes for cash. This is also reality. I am sure they are grossed out by their clients even if they say no homo after every session.
As for the last part, it was a bit of sarcasm over some of the over the top marketing that some girls do here. That is also a reality.

That you consider any of this rude or uncalled for says more about you than it does me.


You can be an older man, without being a gross older man.

Middle aged guys are a huge part of the demographic that sees escorts, of all ages. If an escort cut out the 40-60 age range, they’d likely lose half of their clients.

One of the most consistent things I’ve learned here is that the majority of escorts value guys who respect their rates, boundaries and the agreed upon time, along with kindness and hygiene, far above youth, looks or fitness. I’ve heard more complaints about bad behaviour of younger guys here rather than older.
This guy gets it.
 
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Josephine Grey

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It was a perfectly reasonable answer to your question. Anyone in the business is banging dudes who gross them out, even ignoring the age question. If they couldn't handle it they wouldn't be in the business. It's reality.
If nobody but hot attractive studs were paying to fuck the business would collapse, this is also reality. It would look a lot more like the gigolo market.
There are straight dudes who fuck dudes for cash. This is also reality. I am sure they are grossed out by their clients even if they say no homo after every session.
As for the last part, it was a bit of sarcasm over some of the over the top marketing that some girls do here. That is also a reality.

That you consider any of this rude or uncalled for says more about you than it does me.




This guy gets it.
By describing us as ''cum hungry slut" you enable this type of language toward us. Its extremely disrespectful and uncalled for. I don't care how you justify it sarcasm or not.

Sometimes apologize and edit are better than just fighting back. What you said was not okay.
 

fall

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If you want SP for conversation or for sex, then older (late 20s - early 30s) are fine. If you like DATY - I prefer younger ones (under 25, preferably under 22) as IMHO the taste and esthetics of the Y deteriorates very fast with the age and the use. No matter how women care for her skin, a skin of 35 y.o. is not comparable with a skin of 20 y.o. (unless that 20 y.o. is a veteran). 35+ are too old for SPs and they cater only for some specific clientele (older dudes who are uncomfortable with young girls or who want a long-term relationship with an SP). Maybe in 20 years when I will turn 70, I will be OK with 35 y.o. SPs, but now I only shop in "under 25" section.
 
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fall

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By describing us as ''cum hungry slut" you enable this type of language toward us. Its extremely disrespectful and uncalled for. I don't care how you justify it sarcasm or not.

Sometimes apologize and edit are better than just fighting back. What you said was not okay.
Good Lord, it seems all this PC shit made some folks unable to recognize a joke. I would expect people in an escort forum would be more liberal in accepting some rough humor. You want to cater for older gentlemen - you are expected to lough at sexist/racist jokes.
 
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