Approaching a Potential SP

[mark_fender05]

I'm wondering if you guys have seen someone at a hotel and wonders if she's an SP or not. You have a feeling that she is, but not sure whether you should ask or not.

Like a couple of times this happens to me after a business meeting at some function room in a hotel, seeing some gorgeous girls at the hotel lounge. Have you guys ever approach any of these girls and ask? how about in some other places that's not in a hotel?

Ladies, have you ever been approached by a guy and wonders if you're working? What was your reaction? What did you end up doing? and is there a best way to ask?

 

[Ladyraven]

I'm wondering if you guys have seen someone at a hotel and wonders if she's an SP or not. You have a feeling that she is, but not sure whether you should ask or not.

Like a couple of times this happens to me after a business meeting at some function room in a hotel, seeing some gorgeous girls at the hotel lounge. Have you guys ever approach any of these girls and ask? how about in some other places that's not in a hotel?

Ladies, have you ever been approached by a guy and wonders if you're working? What was your reaction? What did you end up doing? and is there a best way to ask?

I would think that it would not be a good idea to approach and ask a woman you see just minding her buiness if she is a sp.. could get you a drink in the face or worse. just IMO

 

[genintoronto]

You're not serious, are you?

First, solliciation in public is illegal in Canada, and it's one of the laws around prostitution that is actually enforced.

Second, while I wouldn't take it as an offense to be perceived as a hooker, I bet you that most women would. So whether or not she is an SP, she will most likely not be happy to hear that you think she looks like one.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

I was told by a guy that use to work hotel security in a high end hotel that security is not allowed to ask anyone if they are SP or not. They observe for a long time until that are very certain that it is an SP, then if they deciede to shoo her out the only thing they can do is stand very close to her so that she gets no business. There have been a few times that they have mistaken guest as SPs and they are affraid of getting lawsuits.

 

[Stokley]

I'm wondering if you guys have seen someone at a hotel and wonders if she's ....

ROFLMAO, once again a tip of the hat to the fine ladies of this industry that regularly have to deal with the brain trust that are clients.

Mark, when you try this, remember to have a friend standing discretely off to one side with a camcorder. I'm sure that capturing the moment of resulting hilarity and posting it on youtube will bring a smile to thousands of people.

This should be a poll, does she;
A] slap his face
B] call for the bartender/bouncer/manager
C] call for husband/boyfriend/girlfriend
D] points and laughs
E] shows her badge and asks you to assume the position
F] takes you up on your charming offer and leaves you naked and handcuffed

 

[trm]

Mark, my friend, this is not a good idea. You are just asking for trouble. Odds are you will be escorted out by security or punched out by her boyfriend.

 

[GDLLover]

How about approaching her as if shes a civilian.

Say hi, compliment her on her good looks and even suggest she has a coffee or drink with you. The reaction will be:

a) No, my boyfriend is on his way
b) Yes, good you got a date with a civilian (could work out)
c) If she is an SP, she will suggest yes but will let you know shes on the clock.

Good luck.

 

[Toke]

and is there a best way to ask?

The 'best' way is to mind your business (and let her mind hers), come to TERB, ask questions, possibly get contact information, and do it the 'right way'.

 

[rama putri]

Have you guys ever approach any of these girls and ask? how about in some other places that's not in a hotel?

Are you serious? You are serious aren't you. OMFG Just stay at home and don't ever leave again.

 

[smylee52]

I'm wondering if you guys have seen someone at a hotel and wonders if she's an SP or not. You have a feeling that she is, but not sure whether you should ask or not.

Like a couple of times this happens to me after a business meeting at some function room in a hotel, seeing some gorgeous girls at the hotel lounge. Have you guys ever approach any of these girls and ask? how about in some other places that's not in a hotel?

Ladies, have you ever been approached by a guy and wonders if you're working? What was your reaction? What did you end up doing? and is there a best way to ask?

If its an SP "working" the hotel then just make eye contact and she will approach you . I would strongly suggest not going up to a woman you don't know and asking her if she fucks for money .

Remember here on Terb you are in fantasy land and the ladies can joke about being hookers but in the real world you can seriously offend a lady by insinuating she looks like a hooker

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[james t kirk]

How about approaching her as if shes a civilian.

Say hi, compliment her on her good looks and even suggest she has a coffee or drink with you. The reaction will be:

a) No, my boyfriend is on his way
b) Yes, good you got a date with a civilian (could work out)
c) If she is an SP, she will suggest yes but will let you know shes on the clock.

Good luck.

This makes the most sense...

 

[doggee_01]

sounds like a great way to get arrested to me!!!

 

[antaeus]

hey mark_fender05 are you phishing for the inside scoop on what hotels are actually bordello's?


Imagine it's you mark_fender05 after a business meeting at some function room in a hotel, and a guy comes up and asks you, mark_fender05, a very good loking guy, if you'd go with him to his room for some cock sucking ass pounding homo man love? Come on mark_fender05, you're just lounging looking all hot with a nice package.

Quite the complement isn't it mark_fender05?

 

[hairyfucker]

Not all gorgeous girls are SPs

No?

Damn!

 

[Nofah Kingway]

Like a couple of times this happens to me after a business meeting at some function room in a hotel, seeing some gorgeous girls at the hotel lounge. Have you guys ever approach any of these girls and ask? how about in some other places that's not in a hotel?

Prior to joining this hobby, I often ask "why are there so many hotels around the city, who the hell is going to need to stay?" Now my question is, "do we have enough hotels to serve all the agencies and SPs?"

When you see some hot girl roaming around in a hotel by herself in the middle of the day, the probability of her being an SP is likely to be higher than the probability of her spending the night with you without any financial interaction.

I once met an SP who told me that while staying downtown, she would hang out at the bar/lounge/lobby area and pick up men for business, sometimes during business hours.

 

[mark_fender05]

Prior to joining this hobby, I often ask "why are there so many hotels around the city, who the hell is going to need to stay?" Now my question is, "do we have enough hotels to serve all the agencies and SPs?"

When you see some hot girl roaming around in a hotel by herself in the middle of the day, the probability of her being an SP is likely to be higher than the probability of her spending the night with you without any financial interaction.

I once met an SP who told me that while staying downtown, she would hang out at the bar/lounge/lobby area and pick up men for business, sometimes during business hours.

Ok...I didn't write my first post in a good way. There's no way I'm gonna go ask a random girl if she's an SP, because yes that's illegal and asking a girl if she's an SP straight up is also stupid. But, like Nofah Kingway said, "when u see some hot girls roaming around in a hotel (especially the airport hotels) by herself (dressing suggestively) in the middle of the day" don't you ever question whether she could possibly a SP? If that day you're feeling spontaneous and wanna blow off some steam before you go back to work...by the looking at the countless TRZ, agencies, CL ads, etc, you know there are a lot of working girls near the airport hotel.

So how do I approach these SPs who "would hang out at the bar/lounge/lobby area and pick up men for business, sometimes during business hours?"

 

[freestuff]

Ok...I didn't write my first post in a good way. There's no way I'm gonna go ask a random girl if she's an SP, because yes that's illegal and asking a girl if she's an SP straight up is also stupid. But, like Nofah Kingway said, "when u see some hot girls roaming around in a hotel (especially the airport hotels) by herself (dressing suggestively) in the middle of the day" don't you ever question whether she could possibly a SP? If that day you're feeling spontaneous and wanna blow off some steam before you go back to work...by the looking at the countless TRZ, agencies, CL ads, etc, you know there are a lot of working girls near the airport hotel.

So how do I approach these SPs who "would hang out at the bar/lounge/lobby area and pick up men for business, sometimes during business hours?"

Didn't you read any of the posts? If she's a SP, she'll come to you -- just make eye contact and leave it at that.

 

[mark_fender05]

Didn't you read any of the posts? If she's a SP, she'll come to you -- just make eye contact and leave it at that.

Is this common though?

Thanks, freestuff.

 

[Nofah Kingway]

I'm wondering if you guys have seen someone at a hotel and wonders if she's an SP or not. You have a feeling that she is, but not sure whether you should ask or not.

Like a couple of times this happens to me after a business meeting at some function room in a hotel, seeing some gorgeous girls at the hotel lounge. Have you guys ever approach any of these girls and ask? how about in some other places that's not in a hotel?

Ladies, have you ever been approached by a guy and wonders if you're working? What was your reaction? What did you end up doing? and is there a best way to ask?

Didn't you read any of the posts? If she's a SP, she'll come to you -- just make eye contact and leave it at that.

Dress like a businessman, suit, shirt and tie, and nice and clean shoes.

Make eye contact, 3 potential possibilities:

1. She ignores you or gives you the fuck off look. You fuck off.
2. She comes over and says "Hi, I am an adult entertainer, are you looking for company today?" with the exchange of money after.
3. She comes over and says "Hi, I am so and so, you are so handsome, wanna come up to my room and play?" WITHOUT the exchange of money.

3, 2, 1 being the order of preference. Good luck.

 

[mark_fender05]

Dress like a businessman, suit, shirt and tie, and nice and clean shoes.

Make eye contact, 3 potential possibilities:

1. She ignores you or gives you the fuck off look. You fuck off.
2. She comes over and says "Hi, I am an adult entertainer, are you looking for company today?" with the exchange of money after.
3. She comes over and says "Hi, I am so and so, you are so handsome, wanna come up to my room and play?" WITHOUT the exchange of money.

3, 2, 1 being the order of preference. Good luck.

Nice, thanks so much. That's definitely the type of answer I'm looking for