Anyone else over 40 getting bored with life?
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Might I suggest you look into and study psylocybin (Magic Mushrooms) to reset your mind. Seriously. I did and it worked. I am still somewhat bored with life as I really have already experienced and accomplished pretty much all the things I wanted to do (within reason ieno trips to the Space Station or owning an F1 team!) and I started getting bored about 5 years ag.
Long story short, I went into the 'shroom trip(s) with a sense of purpose of what do I want out of life. It worked.
Long story short, I went into the 'shroom trip(s) with a sense of purpose of what do I want out of life. It worked.
"Oh Yeah life goes on...long after the thrill of livin is gone"
I went through this and even wrote a similar thread. I can't remember how I got out of it to be honest. I think I got the trailer and started fishing again. That helped a lot. I also started escorting a bit more which gives the opportunity to meet new people which can be exciting.
I think we just get use to things and it becomes routine and boring. Just taste from the buffet of life until some sticks. Who knows, pottery could be your thing. LOL. I mean I don't think so but you get the point. Keep trying until you make it happen for yourself.
I think we just get use to things and it becomes routine and boring. Just taste from the buffet of life until some sticks. Who knows, pottery could be your thing. LOL. I mean I don't think so but you get the point. Keep trying until you make it happen for yourself.
Fuck more escorts. Set up a few threesomes - it’s impossible to be bored with two pretty girls slobbering over your cock.
Also yeah - read books, golf, take up piano, and take shrooms.
I mean you have to recover between sessions somehow.
Also yeah - read books, golf, take up piano, and take shrooms.
I mean you have to recover between sessions somehow.
Threesomes are tricky to set though and often turn out to be shitty. Especially if a girl which you already know brings her friend. My last couple of threesomes were a disaster.
I am in my late 60's and know exactly what you are talking about. In my case it was a realization that my life going forward was going to be the same as the last 5 years of my life. It was not a mid life crisis as such it was, I think like you, the thought that, that is all there is. A huge benefit for me was working out. Especially in the morning a workout gave me more energy and helped me focused on my tasks. I eventually took a lot of pride in my work and things became more focused in due course. Good luck going forward.
What you might be experiencing is a bit of depression. Life isn't boring even in in the middle of no where. How do you fix what you're feeling, you may not feel you can fix it at all and that just the depression talkin. Sex, Booze and fast cars won't fix it, what may help is learning something new - like art, painting, a new instrument and if you can do it with others so theres some support / competition - yoga, dance, sculpture. If you aren't working out, definitely start, get that blood moving, make sure you're fuelled up with vitamins and minerals and force yourself into a routine. You'll get out of the funk, just start doing thoughtfully
I know right? ...and people think it's about the sex
Seems like the overall collective diagnosis is not enough sex so start booking more?
But seriously, depression is real, hope you get better. Shrooms and similar might be worth a try.
so start booking more?But seriously, depression is real, hope you get better. Shrooms and similar might be worth a try.
For me it's not 'not about the sex', but honestly I started seeing escorts during a difficult period of my life, with no opportunity for romantic contact, and few opportunities for fun or even good social contacts. Starting to see escorts was sanity and baseline happiness preserving lifeline. Even now with my life starting to get back to 'normal' seeing escorts is a big quality of life improvement. As some point I'll end up dating again and vanishing from the escort scene, but absolutely zero regrets on seeing escorts.I know right? ...and people think it's about the sex
Explore various types of sex life. Watch some videos and decide what you’d like to try in a 3some - two guys and one girl, shemale, CD, etc.
Try ti find a reliable guy for a 3some. That way, you will be sure in at least two thirds of a 3some.
That's just depression kicking in from you getting stuck in your routine, I don't think all recommendations in here are necessarily wrong or right, just that the general advice would be to try new things or what gives you the thrills, this might be a lot of different things, and starting can honestly be the hardest part, but you'll get there
You could get killed in fencing.
I meant finding a reliable guy for 3some with a babe, nothing else.Bored… yeah… even got bored with hobbying for a stretch.
Agree with the suggestions on here AND the other comments about depression and such.
I’ve done countless hours of therapy, medicated, self-medicated, rode motorcycles, worked out, played a musical instrument, shot guns, Seadoos and snowmobiles… and everything in between.
Still get bored… but that’s ok!! I keep looking and experimenting with other hobbies. Not everyone is designed to be a master of all things… as the saying goes “Jack of all trades, master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one”.
Suggestion… make a bucket list. Some “easier” items, some challenging, and some more complex… sprinkle in a couple “crazy” ones and you’re set! Accomplishments help drive your life forward and failures end up pushing you harder.
Can do the same thing with this hobby and sex in general.
My sex bucket:
Oasis and actually participating with strangers (still body conscious and intimidated by horse cocks flopping around)
Orgy (same struggle as above)
MFM 3some
Prostate massage orgasm (I hear they are insane)
Sex in some fun public places
Mile high club
Agree with the suggestions on here AND the other comments about depression and such.
I’ve done countless hours of therapy, medicated, self-medicated, rode motorcycles, worked out, played a musical instrument, shot guns, Seadoos and snowmobiles… and everything in between.
Still get bored… but that’s ok!! I keep looking and experimenting with other hobbies. Not everyone is designed to be a master of all things… as the saying goes “Jack of all trades, master of none, but oftentimes better than a master of one”.
Suggestion… make a bucket list. Some “easier” items, some challenging, and some more complex… sprinkle in a couple “crazy” ones and you’re set! Accomplishments help drive your life forward and failures end up pushing you harder.
Can do the same thing with this hobby and sex in general.
My sex bucket:
Oasis and actually participating with strangers (still body conscious and intimidated by horse cocks flopping around)
Orgy (same struggle as above)
MFM 3some
Prostate massage orgasm (I hear they are insane)
Sex in some fun public places
Mile high club
^^^ That is good advice too. Make a list
Then you can take your time and check off items as time/money permits.
Then you can take your time and check off items as time/money permits.
I like the point that accomplishments make you feel like you are moving forward. That feeling helped me a lot.
