well....me and the wife are thinking of having some. and well...I love my niece and nephew like crazy, i have a great time when I'm with them...but....I come from a background where most, if not all the trouble I've had in my life came from a terrible upbringing (divorce, substance abuse, incest...etc)
I myself am stable now after alot of fighting to get where I am have a good job, no drugs, etc...
I just can't look past what happened. I've never really been around a "normal" family, if they exist and I guess I'll always be a little apprehensive about having children because of my history.
I guess, I'm not even sure what I'm trying to say...but, has anybody here had children here? and maybe you could post what your experience has been..
thanx
I myself am stable now after alot of fighting to get where I am have a good job, no drugs, etc...
I just can't look past what happened. I've never really been around a "normal" family, if they exist and I guess I'll always be a little apprehensive about having children because of my history.
I guess, I'm not even sure what I'm trying to say...but, has anybody here had children here? and maybe you could post what your experience has been..
thanx