it is not always an SP that can cause an awkward moment
Years ago , in down town Oshawa , there was a bar called Fredericks, I first encountered it when I was given a ride to Oshawa from some patrons of a bar I worked at in Whitby, one guy said" your going to love this place", I had no idea what he meant , now I was in my 20's, and they were much older, I remember one guy was a fire fighter.
Anyways, unbeknownst to me, it was a bar where older women to go to meet younger men, and all I can say is that it was awesome place for a young man with raging hormones.
I can remember the bartender asking if I wanted another beer,I said no as I nursed the beer I was drinking, and that I had no money and was going to leave after this beer, he said someone was buying me a beer, since I knew no one in the bar, I had no idea who, as the night went on, I got to meet my benefactor- awesome night, first time with older woman in Oshawa
on another night, I anticipated hitting it again,looking for the same result I passed someone leaving as I went it, and the bar was dead
so I turned and walked out, since I was poor then, I started walking, and as I did , a car pulled up and a older lady , who I had passed on the way in, she introduced herself as Joan, she knew my name already,she offered me a ride, and some head in the same sentence-
now like most growing boys this was a new experience for me, I was more accustomed to "begging for sex" then having a woman offer me some, long story short, it was the start to a long 10 year discreet affair
years later, I was in home depot , of all places, with my sigificant other, and as I am heading towards the cash, walking towards me was "Joan" ,we are looking at each other eye to eye and I had to shake my head, lucky for me, no one else seemed to have noticed
I have no idea why Fredericks ever closed, maybe it was poor management, maybe it ws before its time, talking about it has brought back great memories