anonymous e-transfer

[Robert205]

For folks who prefer to remain anonymous, is there a way to pay the booking fee anonymously that would satisfy both provider and client needs? Doesn't seem to me that Interac e-transfers fit the bill.

 

[Inara]

Amazon gift cards work well.

 

[Theredmilf]

Some banks allow an alias for etransfer, PayPal, Amazon GC & Giftcards.ca which has Uber and others you can load to an account (the later can take up to 48 hours but you can screen print a receipt). Many providers also accept a good reference or your P411 ID if you have it. Great question!

 

[squeezer]

I've heard many bad stories about Johns paying for an escort that I don't think that it is a good idea. Cash is the best.
Always remember that there are a lot of fake pics and robbers and when you get at the place, you can always turn back if there is anything that you don't like. Among the wort reason I've heard:
- Not the girl in the picture
- The place stinks.
- Other people walking in the house.
- the girl has a bad hygiene

If you encounter any of these, good luck to have your money back you you've already prepaid with e-transfer!

Cash is king! Don't fall into the deposit trap.

 

[asuran]

Amazon gift cards has worked wonderfully for me.
$25-$50 deposits I have done. So far all successful sessions. But of course, all are reputable ladies.

 

[Robert205]

I am missing something. I thought the idea of the deposit was usually prior to first-time meetings. If you hand deliver an Amazon card (or whatever else), then you're already meeting face to face.

 

[asuran]

I am missing something. I thought the idea of the deposit was usually prior to first-time meetings. If you hand deliver an Amazon card (or whatever else), then you're already meeting face to face.

You send the Amazon card code.
There is also an e-giftcard option which goes to receivers email.
:gossip:

 

[Joe Blower]

I ask for PayPal

You can create a fake PayPal account and send money from your real account to your fake, then send to mine

I never thought of that! thanks!!

 

[Vera.Reis]

With e-transfers you don't give the password until you arrive at the incall and are inside so it doesn't work any differently than cash in the sense that you can still turn around and leave if something doesn't work for you.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I don't know which one of you this was, but its not appropriate to message us on our work phone and insult us for no reason. I was simply explaining how to etransfer so that the money is exchanged at the normal time of arrival and this is what I get first thing in my phone.

I meant logical reasoning in my text, was annoyed and typed fast lol

 

[blacklabdog]

what a loser quoting an LSAT score! ie you may as well come out and say I'm a kid with no real life experience

 

[Vera.Reis]

This is both rude and uncalled for. If your incapable of respecting another's opinions like you would for anybody's life experiences. Keep them to yourself this is an 18+ site and experience running your own escort business (while you may not perceive it as legit) is quite complicated and requires significant effort especially when you tour.

Ms. Paola,

Loser's are incapable of respecting the thoughts and opinions of others. Generally they are also ignorant and conduct themselves in distasteful manners. They refuse to listen because they're close minded individuals. For a great example see the person above.

It mustve sucked to be woken up by some jerk like that.

xo
Kay

Thank you! I really appreciate the kind words. This person wanted to be cruel and mean, I only posted part of the conversation (I tried to nicely explain I wasn't saying everyone should etransfer), so they messaged my work number to anonymously do it instead. Running a business is not easy! I do all my own marketing, website, scheduling, planning while also being a fulltime student. I only pointed to my LSAT score, that I'm proud of, because this person was questioning my ability to use logic when they themselves couldn't even understand that I was just providing clients with information to safely use etransfers if they decide to.

Now, I understand this person is the exception not the rule! I have lonely terb and merb clients (finally got my first reviews, it's on merb) but I thought I'd make an example here because he came into my work phone to be rude to me for no reason because he was too much of a coward to do it publically.

 

[tashaxo]

I'm curious to know how you accept etransfers without compromising your identity. Typically the confirmation email that is sent back to the client contains some sensitive information. Are you using a proxy or a business account?

If you're enrolled in auto-deposit, if someone sends you an e-transfer, as soon as its successfully deposited it will send a confirmation email to the sender that contains your real name (or whatever actual name) that you have with your bank.

But when you send an e-transfer to an email that isn't linked to a bank for auto-deposit, it will require a question/answer. The confirmation email sent to the sender will NOT include your real name, it will use whatever name the sender saved your contact as.

So I have my personal email linked to my bank for auto-deposit, I give that to friends and family for easy deposits. But I give my work email to clients for e-transfers, and when I receive it I just login to my bank app on my phone and fill out the question/answer and the confirmation email that is sent does not include my real name, it just says "Tasha" or whatever name they saved me as.

 

[Vera.Reis]

If you're enrolled in auto-deposit, if someone sends you an e-transfer, as soon as its successfully deposited it will send a confirmation email to the sender that contains your real name (or whatever actual name) that you have with your bank.

But when you send an e-transfer to an email that isn't linked to a bank for auto-deposit, it will require a question/answer. The confirmation email sent to the sender will NOT include your real name, it will use whatever name the sender saved your contact as.

So I have my personal email linked to my bank for auto-deposit, I give that to friends and family for easy deposits. But I give my work email to clients for e-transfers, and when I receive it I just login to my bank app on my phone and fill out the question/answer and the confirmation email that is sent does not include my real name, it just says "Tasha" or whatever name they saved me as.

This, except I did change the name that shows up on my etransfer through my settings, just in case

 

[canabiz]

If you're enrolled in auto-deposit, if someone sends you an e-transfer, as soon as its successfully deposited it will send a confirmation email to the sender that contains your real name (or whatever actual name) that you have with your bank.

But when you send an e-transfer to an email that isn't linked to a bank for auto-deposit, it will require a question/answer. The confirmation email sent to the sender will NOT include your real name, it will use whatever name the sender saved your contact as.

So I have my personal email linked to my bank for auto-deposit, I give that to friends and family for easy deposits. But I give my work email to clients for e-transfers, and when I receive it I just login to my bank app on my phone and fill out the question/answer and the confirmation email that is sent does not include my real name, it just says "Tasha" or whatever name they saved me as.

Are you able to link 2 separate emails (1 work and 1 personal) to 1 bank account or do you have a separate bank account for work and another one for personal?

I have heard stories about people canceling e-transfer if they have not been deposited by the recipients into their bank account in a timely fashion so it's something to keep in mind as well (if you are not using auto-deposit for work).

 

[boca2020]

I used to accept E transfers, then a client reported it and canceled the payment AFTER our session.
My account was locked and investigated. I have switched bank providers now but i lost alot of money and my account was frozen for MONTHS.
The reason I only accept PayPal now

That is just awful. Thank you for sharing.

E-transfers can be so convenient, but between situations like that, and the possibility of being hacked (probably only a concern for large e-transfer amounts) I can definitely see why some would avoid using e-transfer. I like PayPal also since you can link multiple CCs & bank accounts to it.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I never heard about that with etransfer only paypal! If a client did that to me (reported the payment as fraud) I would definitely report it to the police because falsifying fraud is a crime. I would never screw over a client, any client who is this bad of person deserves what they get legally.

 

[tashaxo]

Are you able to link 2 separate emails (1 work and 1 personal) to 1 bank account or do you have a separate bank account for work and another one for personal?

I have heard stories about people canceling e-transfer if they have not been deposited by the recipients into their bank account in a timely fashion so it's something to keep in mind as well (if you are not using auto-deposit for work).

Not all banks have the same features. I know some ladies mention they're able to change the name that's given for etransfer confirmations. I'm unable to, so if I give a client an email that is set up for auto-deposit with my bank, it will send them a confirmation email when it's been deposited that includes my real name that's registered with my bank.

Again, cant speak for all banks, but I'm able to link multiple emails for auto-deposit. So I could have, for example, one email auto-deposit $ into my chequing account, and a separate email that auto-deposit into my savings.
So yes, I can link separate emails for auto-deposit to my bank account. But again, I personally just give them my work email that isn't linked to my bank at all, so that way I can just get the email, deposit the $ accordingly, and the confirmation email to the sender says "Tasha accepted your etransfer" or whatever name they saved me as a contact.

And yes, I've had my a few incidents like that. I've never had a client claim fraud on an etransfer..after reading horror stories of these things happening to other girls, I rarely accept etransfer anymore. My biggest frustration was clients not telling me until they arrive they didnt have cash and expect me to take etransfer. So I'd do it to make things easy, but then some e-transfers take up to 30+ minutes to send. So that's time I dont appreciate wasting, and the one time I went on with the session and said I'd just confirm i recieved it before the client left, I got caught up in the session, enjoyed our time and said goodbye completely forgetting about confirming I recieved the email. He of course cancelled it before I ever recieved it.

So yeah..yikes. cash only please!!

 

[tashaxo]

I would never screw over a client, any client who is this bad of person deserves what they get legally.

Yes! I just genuinely dont understand why/how someone could do that kinda thing. Like, it's one thing to falsify fraud and freeze our bank, but the thing I find most unsettling afterwards is the feeling like I've been violated. I provide a service expecting to be compensated. My consent is the money. I wouldn't have provided those services without being compensated. It's all just really disturbing..