Anniversary today

[shack]

29 years since my heart attack. TBH, I thought I'd be gone by now. It is like living on borrowed time. I've had zero events but my cardiologist is checking out a number things. I had a 4th test today with a very cute and slim Oriental girl who got close to the crown jewels a couple of times. And one more test in March. And I am going to Herzig for some cataract surgery. At some point the matter of quality of life enters the equation as well.

My concern is that my retirement plan was predicated on having died already so that I could have left some useful money to my two wonderful sons. It's not a fortune but could help make downpayments on a couple of houses. Neither of them is a big earner and could use the same kind of help that my father gave me and my two sisters when he passed.

The longer I live, the more of their money will be spent on poontang, and they know it. Not just that but a world economic crisis and/or some kind of long term disability (I have no extended insurance) eating up the nest egg very quickly are not long shot possibilities that could severely deplete the resources.

Thinking of the anniversary got my mind wandering.

 

[luvyeah]

On that note, which $2000/h provider will you be seeing next?

 

[kherg007]

29 years since my heart attack. TBH, I thought I'd be gone by now. It is like living on borrowed time. I've had zero events but my cardiologist is checking out a number things. I had a 4th test today with a very cute and slim Oriental girl who got close to the crown jewels a couple of times. And one more test in March. And I am going to Herzig for some cataract surgery. At some point the matter of quality of life enters the equation as well.

My concern is that my retirement plan was predicated on having died already so that I could have left some useful money to my two wonderful sons. It's not a fortune but could help make downpayments on a couple of houses. Neither of them is a big earner and could use the same kind of help that my father gave me and my two sisters when he passed.

The longer I live, the more of their money will be spent on poontang, and they know it. Not just that but a world economic crisis and/or some kind of long term disability (I have no extended insurance) eating up the nest egg very quickly are not long shot possibilities that could severely deplete the resources.

Thinking of the anniversary got my mind wandering.

Quite the conundrum shack. First, congrats. Borrowed time is awesome. You seem to have given yourself a reward for that, enjoying life, a bon vivant, if you will. I personally never expect anything from parents, I've always felt they earned their money they can do what they want. What you might consider is giving the kids some of it now...let them know you hope they set it aside for the down payment, and you didnt count on living so long, so you're trying to ensure they get something. Then you got some for fun, and if God forbid shack you called for the maker meeting...they get what you envisioned. But if the meeting is 10 years down the line...well if they invest your money they may still have what you initially envisioned. Anyhow, good onya either way.

 

[blueray]

First, congrats on the anniversary. I have enjoyed your posts/reviews and even your company on a few occasions and I did not know you had a HA 29 years ago.

You should have waited to have your eye surgery during your birthday month then all the SP's you've supported over the years could have donated to cover the cost. :biggrin-new:

Thats nice you are thinking about your boys. It is interesting listening to my close friends talk about inheritance. Some, like you, are hoping to leave as much as they can for their kids, others and hoping to spend their every last dime.

Not sure how old you were in 67 when the leafs won the Stanley Cup, but me thinks you will still be around when they win another...in 2032 :biggrin: And of course you will have enjoyed two or three more Jays World Series wins by then as well. I think it's the women that is keeping the ticker going!

 

[malata]

does that mean you'll be cutting back on keg steak . whatever you do, your kids will remember you on what you've done and how you've lived your life

 

[shack]

Quite the conundrum shack. First, congrats. Borrowed time is awesome. You seem to have given yourself a reward for that, enjoying life, a bon vivant, if you will. I personally never expect anything from parents, I've always felt they earned their money they can do what they want. What you might consider is giving the kids some of it now...let them know you hope they set it aside for the down payment, and you didnt count on living so long, so you're trying to ensure they get something. Then you got some for fun, and if God forbid shack you called for the maker meeting...they get what you envisioned. But if the meeting is 10 years down the line...well if they invest your money they may still have what you initially envisioned. Anyhow, good onya either way.

They split my estate equally and I pay more attention to the investing than they would. I did let them take over the premiums for 1 life insurance policy I retained. I used to have 4 but they start getting more expensive each year. They will get their money at some point. I believe that there is some decent money on their mother's side as well. In case of any emergencies, I also have some money invested in their names that they can dig into.

 

[shack]

First, congrats on the anniversary. I have enjoyed your posts/reviews and even your company on a few occasions and I did not know you had a HA 29 years ago.

You should have waited to have your eye surgery during your birthday month then all the SP's you've supported over the years could have donated to cover the cost. :biggrin-new:

I have my initial consult on Monday. I've heard that if I have it done in the hospital, it is covered by OHIP, but it is a longer wait. I will get the details.

Maybe I can start a Go Fuck Me Fund.

Thats nice you are thinking about your boys. It is interesting listening to my close friends talk about inheritance. Some, like you, are hoping to leave as much as they can for their kids, others and hoping to spend their every last dime.

I just want them to be comfortable and have a decent place for if and when they raise families. Neither one is a big spender. Both pretty responsible.

Not sure how old you were in 67 when the leafs won the Stanley Cup, but me thinks you will still be around when they win another...in 2032 :biggrin: And of course you will have enjoyed two or three more Jays World Series wins by then as well. I think it's the women that is keeping the ticker going!

2032 is way past my goalposts. GM Dubarts needs to figure something out quicker.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Invest in Tesla. That should take care of it. Congratulations on the 29 years.

 

[Insidious Von]

Sincerimente saluti shack!

I have to ask, were stents put in and what sort of diet did you go on?

I'd already owned a home when my father passed away, I didn't use the sum to pay off my mortgage, that's not how I wanted my father's legacy to go. It prompted me to give up the verdura and focus on a long term plan. I didn't want the bank to eat into it with service charges.

 

[Tony2000]

It's great that you want to share your money with your sons. However, I would approach this with caution. You might end up having to spend several years in a retirement home and this could be quite expensive.

 

[SchlongConery]

Congratulations Shack! Not just for surviving the MI, but for thriving!

Look after yourself and preserve your resources while you need them. Your son's inherited your character and will be fine, with or without more or less of a financial inheritance.

 

[shack]

Sincerimente saluti shack!

I have to ask, were stents put in and what sort of diet did you go on?

I'd already owned a home when my father passed away, I didn't use the sum to pay off my mortgage, that's not how I wanted my father's legacy to go. It prompted me to give up the verdura and focus on a long term plan. I didn't want the bank to eat into it with service charges.

No stents. This was 1991 and it was not a major event. A buddy of mine had a heart attack 3 weeks ago and he had stents the next day.

Diet focussed on low fat. Old habits die hard, though. In the last 8 years, some very minor changes have got me down about 60LBS, very gradually. 30 more should do it. Gotta look good in the coffin.LOL/

 

[shack]

It's great that you want to share your money with your sons. However, I would approach this with caution. You might end up having to spend several years in a retirement home and this could be quite expensive.

My 2 big fears are a major economic hit to my retirement portfolio or a long-term money eating disability. I will hold it until I go. Then it's there for them.

 

[great bear]

Shack, what the hell was the cardiologist assistant doing near your family jewels? Was she checking out if your penis is still ticking?

 

[shack]

Shack, what the hell was the cardiologist assistant doing near your family jewels? Was she checking out if your penis is still ticking?

It was just me and her (she was the imaging technician--not FOB) in the room. I had an ultrasound checking the vascular flow in my legs, so she had to start from the very, I mean VERY, top and worked her way down. So it was very close.

Now I don't want to brag, but in reality, I think she really wanted me and was very tempted to go for it. But I think she was intimidated by my rugged good looks and world class style and was worried about being rejected. It happens to me a lot.

 

[SchlongConery]

Dear Penthouse Forum

It was just me and her (she was the imaging technician--not FOB) in the room. I had an ultrasound checking the vascular flow in my legs, so she had to start from the very, I mean VERY, top and worked her way down. So it was very close.

Now I don't want to brag, but in reality, I think she really wanted me and was very tempted to go for it. But I think she was intimidated by my rugged good looks and world class style and was worried about being rejected. It happens to me a lot.

You forget the first line!

 

[John Henry]

Well congrats on your anniversary . I kinda know how you feel . 20 years ago I was in hospital for a Cancer operation . I didn't think that I was going to make it . I said my goodbyes to everyone and said that I will come home . Inside I didn't believe that . A young man going for a Colon Cancer operation . Talk about bad luck . Well here I am here today , 20 years later and going strong . I get tested every few years . I hate drinking that stuff .

Do I sweat the small stuff anymore . No . Do I care what anyone says or thinks about me . No . I'm a Cancer survivor .

Hope that nobody gets a call from the doctors office and they ask you to come in right away .

 

[superstar_88]

downpayments on a couple of houses is a mini fortune

 

[shack]

downpayments on a couple of houses is a mini fortune

I believe that I said "help" with the downpayments not "make" the downpayments.

 

[art van dele]

Congrats Shack on your anniversary I wish you have many more to come. You’re a thoughtful man and obviously a great dad (no pun intended).
I always enjoy your subtle humour.