Interesting and thought-provoking.Conservative women are more likely to be married than liberal women, and they're happier than liberal women.
My personal experience/observation compliments this finding.
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Why So Blue: Liberal Women are Less Happy, More Lonely. But Why?
Less marriage and religion help explain liberal women’s unhappiness.ifstudies.org
I admit that most of my reading on the subject has been from women who left the church.
I do think it makes sense that women indoctrinated in a culture like the Baptists where they actually sing about the superiority of the male gender might be more interested in marriage and perceive herself as happy.
Of course hell hath no fury like the woman who gets out of all that after being in it.
And there are two obvious problems for the typical male on this board. Presumably the husband has to attend church regularly with her and listen to stories of Jonah being swallowed by the whale and Moses parting the sea. Not that would do much for the future happiness of most guys here, even one who believes greater happiness might occur as a result of marriage.
And religious folks often isolate themselves in groups and marry within those groups after getting to know each other for years. Sure you can show up on the doorstep like Borat and get invited in, but the full acceptance in a short period of time can be a bitch.
Most non religious people spend a lot of time doing critical thinking. It is possible that creates relatively more unhappiness in the short run since there are few solutions to the problems they think about. But I am not sure you can successfully suspend that critical thinking and do the whole religious thing and convince yourself that God will fix all the problems.
That doesn’t mean that the religious folks aren’t happy. I am just not sure you can achieve greater happiness by being Born Again into it after doing much thinking. Those happy people started with it very young and never gave much thought to the ridiculousness of much of it.