So my friend and his sugar baby are going on a trip. He looks young and she looks close to 30 but age difference is about 30 years. Interaction with some American and Canadian tourists is expected. Should they have a story prepared about how they met? Whether they are an item? Or should he just enjoy the dirty looks and take it as a compliment? Any thoughts are appreciated!
Age difference - dirty old men problems
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I have seen this often in the 20 travel down south i took with my ex, the kids and my parent.
our remark were always like…
My ex: Look at the pedo pervert…
My mother: This is unacceptable…
My father: Must be successful rich men…
Me: One day i want to be him!!!
So you see remarks, looks and what other people think will be so varied that it’s better to just ignore it all.
P.S. You are really asking for a friend right
our remark were always like…
My ex: Look at the pedo pervert…
My mother: This is unacceptable…
My father: Must be successful rich men…
Me: One day i want to be him!!!
So you see remarks, looks and what other people think will be so varied that it’s better to just ignore it all.
P.S. You are really asking for a friend right
Take the dirty looks as a compliment.
Why would they pretend to not be an item?
They don't really have to mention it if these people aren't going to interact with them more than once.
They can admit they are an item or not.
They can have a story for how they met if they feel it is going to come up a bunch.
This really doesn't sound like much of a problem unless they are expect to be seeing the same group of tourists again and again like they are on some cruise ship or planned event tour or something.
Why would they pretend to not be an item?
They don't really have to mention it if these people aren't going to interact with them more than once.
They can admit they are an item or not.
They can have a story for how they met if they feel it is going to come up a bunch.
This really doesn't sound like much of a problem unless they are expect to be seeing the same group of tourists again and again like they are on some cruise ship or planned event tour or something.
I think they’d be better off if they plan a trip where there is less interaction with other tourists. I would not want to deal with the stress of remembering a cover story or being honest and worrying about stares and dirty looks from strangers.
I took my very hot SB on a trip to Nassau in August. We must have been conspicuous as hell. 45 years difference.
We stayed at a very upscale resort so people were very polite and nobody asked anything. I walked around proudly and didn't give a fuck what anybody thought.
We stayed at a very upscale resort so people were very polite and nobody asked anything. I walked around proudly and didn't give a fuck what anybody thought.
It's none of anyone's business go and enjoy
This can't be the typical response from a father or a married
man unless he is with his 30 years younger SB. The lucky old
man would more likely be called a dirty old thing behind his
back by jealous guys.
Me: One day i want to be him!!!
So you see remarks, looks and what other people think will be so varied that it’s better to just ignore it all.
P.S. You are really asking for a friend right
You don't know my father. He's now 82 but still such a bad ass
He did said exactly that.And he's married to my mother for 60 years now....But, like us in the family, she's immune to all the idiocy's of my father. And anyhow she knows he listen to anything she says anyhow
To be honest i do not know many men that would be offended to see an old guy with a younger girl. Women on the other hand tend to take offence. But all this is changing with the new generations who seems to view ages as just a number. Amen!
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Yeah I don't know any that would do anything but smile.
As for cover stories.....Here's one.
I'm rich. She's not. We're living the best life we can in this moment....
You're way too concerned. I mean, you're already pretending that it's about your "friend" when it's about you.
And nobody at 60 looks young.
Wear it with pride. You're enjoying what most men want but can't have.
And nobody at 60 looks young.
Wear it with pride. You're enjoying what most men want but can't have.
I took a 30-year-old with me to Florida just before the pandemic (I was 55 back then). If anyone had any opinions about us, we didn't hear them. Not at the ball game, the hockey game, restaurants, or even the nudist resort.
Just the way it should be.
Just the way it should be.
Don't worry and have fun! No one cares. If they do, that's their problem not yours.
I took my SB to Vegas (she's 22 and I am 58).
Only one person asked where we met. We just said online and left it at that. No mention of the Sugar website.
We had a great time together.
I took my SB to Vegas (she's 22 and I am 58).
Only one person asked where we met. We just said online and left it at that. No mention of the Sugar website.
We had a great time together.
All good suggestions above.
I would say:
"It is a Karma thing between us that we must complete according to several priest, psychics and Zen masters. We met on the internet."
I would say:
"It is a Karma thing between us that we must complete according to several priest, psychics and Zen masters. We met on the internet."
I met her at the airport and can’t get rid of her now. LOL.
Usually something funny like will break the ice and distract from more of those types of questions. If they continue - we met online. He told me he was 25! More rounds of laughs and conversation is moving on.
Joke - deflect - move on.
Usually something funny like will break the ice and distract from more of those types of questions. If they continue - we met online. He told me he was 25! More rounds of laughs and conversation is moving on.
Joke - deflect - move on.
I'm in open non-monogamous relationships with three lovely ladies.
One is 10 years older than me.
One is 10 years younger than me.
One is 30 years younger than me.
I've never noticed even a sideways glance from anyone when I'm out socially with any of them. If asked, each is introduced as my girlfriend.
I admit it is sort of humorous to go to a restaurant I frequent within a couple of days with first the older then the younger partner, but that's probably me projecting. Nobody has questioned or even raised an eyebrow. But frankly, I have no interest in whether any stranger (or any acquaintance, friend, or family member for that matter) disapproves or not.
One is 10 years older than me.
One is 10 years younger than me.
One is 30 years younger than me.
I've never noticed even a sideways glance from anyone when I'm out socially with any of them. If asked, each is introduced as my girlfriend.
I admit it is sort of humorous to go to a restaurant I frequent within a couple of days with first the older then the younger partner, but that's probably me projecting. Nobody has questioned or even raised an eyebrow. But frankly, I have no interest in whether any stranger (or any acquaintance, friend, or family member for that matter) disapproves or not.
I've seen it from both sides. When I first started work there was stunning movie star type mid 20's woman going out with a mid 50's manager. I was jealous but I did realize that I would feel very uncomfortable being with her in real life. I was just starting out and she just seemed out of my league. The manager was a great guy and very confident - it actually seemed a natural fit.
Zoom ahead and I have had a few girlfriends younger than myself. I found the comments came from the women more than the men. I remember a middle aged sales woman who was very friendly towards me until my girlfriend joined me at checkout. 'So it's like that, is it ?' and her demeanor turned ice cold.
If I may suggest a few responses for 'Where did you meet ?'
1. I use to babysit her.
2. We met at a penis reduction clinic that she worked at.
3. I won her from her father in a poker game.
4. I am a hypnotist and she is a subject.
5. She was born February 29 and only ages one year to our four. She is actually 102.
Zoom ahead and I have had a few girlfriends younger than myself. I found the comments came from the women more than the men. I remember a middle aged sales woman who was very friendly towards me until my girlfriend joined me at checkout. 'So it's like that, is it ?' and her demeanor turned ice cold.
If I may suggest a few responses for 'Where did you meet ?'
1. I use to babysit her.
2. We met at a penis reduction clinic that she worked at.
3. I won her from her father in a poker game.
4. I am a hypnotist and she is a subject.
5. She was born February 29 and only ages one year to our four. She is actually 102.
I'd say the only looks or comments you're going to get are from women, other than some admiring, jealous looks from the guys who wish they were in your position.
I'm in my late 50's I was meeting a SB at a restaurant one night, but she was suck in traffic and running late. I got a table and a very attractive, friendly server. I'm 100% certain she was flirting with me even though I told her I was meeting a date. She came by the table way too often always with a smile and some flirty convo. 20 min later my date shows up and its like ice water has been poured over the server. The judgement in her eyes and every look was palpable. My SB was 25, and the server couldn't have been more than 30.
Just a little bit of hypocrisy.
I'm in my late 50's I was meeting a SB at a restaurant one night, but she was suck in traffic and running late. I got a table and a very attractive, friendly server. I'm 100% certain she was flirting with me even though I told her I was meeting a date. She came by the table way too often always with a smile and some flirty convo. 20 min later my date shows up and its like ice water has been poured over the server. The judgement in her eyes and every look was palpable. My SB was 25, and the server couldn't have been more than 30.
Just a little bit of hypocrisy.
