Advice on a review

[Vector222]

The OP's story highlights the risks associated with this Hobby! I am hoping he has thought of the multiplier effect of this STI. Think about the average number of clients an SP sees in a day, etc., etc., the longer that the community does not know who the provider is, the greater the risk.

 

[hofanatic]

I must say the difference in the public posts being asked to directly name the SP and the number of private message I have got, which there were a lot more of than posts on this topic, saying that my approach of contacting the SP first and giving them a chance to take action was the right choice.

The SP ad on LL has since been removed, so she has taken some action in the matter.

As for others wondering if they met with her, I think the following information would be enough to identify if you met with her.

Met with her at the CI Pickering
Name started with "J"
Number "4*****9114"


(I added the starting number as there are other SP's that have numbers that also end in the same last 4 digits)

 

[imaan2k]

Of course they buttered you up privately so they could get you to name her. You got all the attention you wanted she will be back on LL in no time.

 

[Wazn87]

This thread has turned into wheel of fortune

can we buy a vowel?

 

[kherg007]

I did go this route as she might not be having any symptoms and doesn't even know yet. I haven't got a reply yet.

I will hold of with the review for now as it would indicate who it was, even if I did leave that portion out, but if she does post a new ad I might change that decision.

Thank you to everyone for your advice.

Just to widen the issue if one of my tests came back positive I'd think through everyone I may have visited from last negative test (or near trsting, sometimes it takes a month to show a positive test) and reach out, let them know my status, not place any blame, but just urge them to get tested immediately, particularly for whatever may have been positive. As mentioned before, some wee beasties can find purchase in the backs of throats too which might not show in a urine test for gono or chlamydia.
The lady just needs to tell the attending that she does not do cbj a partner who she did cfs with came down w chlamydia to make sure they do a throat swab or simply prescribe the proper antibiotic that works best for that situation.

 

[Jenesis]

Just to widen the issue if one of my tests came back positive I'd think through everyone I may have visited from last negative test (or near trsting, sometimes it takes a month to show a positive test) and reach out, let them know my status, not place any blame, but just urge them to get tested immediately, particularly for whatever may have been positive. As mentioned before, some wee beasties can find purchase in the backs of throats too which might not show in a urine test for gono or chlamydia.
The lady just needs to tell the attending that she does not do cbj a partner who she did cfs with came down w chlamydia to make sure they do a throat swab or simply prescribe the proper antibiotic that works best for that situation.

You can go to the Durham Sexual Health clinic and ask for a throat swap. You don’t have to explain yourself. Just ask.

 

[kherg007]

You can go to the Durham Sexual Health clinic and ask for a throat swap. You don’t have to explain yourself. Just ask.

Perfect. So there ya go folks.

 

[bob.man]

I still have no clue who this Is..

 

[imaan2k]

I still have no clue who this Is..

That’s Op’s secret. An escort turned his penis into a dragon yet he still found forgiveness in his heart.

 

[ashlee.]

As an escort I agree you should name, via DM to anyone interested at the very least. It would be totally different if she got back a hold of you thanking you and acting how a responsible sex partner would. But she didn’t so the fact is that she’s probably not going to do her best to get a hold of her customers.

This is a question I’ve had before, but didn’t want to make a thread about it to make people think I had an STD or something because I definitely don’t. Given discretion and not cold texting clients how does one let people know that they have an STD? I’m assuming you also don’t want the provider to list your number for public health to call and leave a message at an indiscreet time.

Thank God it’s been more than a decade and a half since I’ve had to deal with this particular problem, but what is the protocol? I know for myself I would immediately contact anybody who I knew I could either via terb if I had their handle or through text if they were someone who has let me know I could text anytime. But what about everyone else?

 

[Jenesis]

As an escort I agree you should name, via DM to anyone interested at the very least. It would be totally different if she got back a hold of you thanking you and acting how a responsible sex partner would. But she didn’t so the fact is that she’s probably not going to do her best to get a hold of her customers.

This is a question I’ve had before, but didn’t want to make a thread about it to make people think I had an STD or something because I definitely don’t. Given discretion and not cold texting clients how does one let people know that they have an STD? I’m assuming you also don’t want the provider to list your number for public health to call and leave a message at an indiscreet time.

Thank God it’s been more than a decade and a half since I’ve had to deal with this particular problem, but what is the protocol? I know for myself I would immediately contact anybody who I knew I could either via terb if I had their handle or through text if they were someone who has let me know I could text anytime. But what about everyone else?

I have thought about this. I would make contact with a text app number that won't come up in a search and use a discrete semi- generic message without names to gain first contact and then once you know you have reached the client, then you can let them know.

Thankgully I have never had to put this thought to use but that is what I would try.

This is another reason I like booking through my form because I get an email address which is easier to message. Of course if I know their TERB handle, I would contact them here.

 

[Enterprising1]

The last two posts will likely be the only intelligible things to come out of this thread.
I have only ever seen two of Durham's finest in my travels, but I may have set my sights on a few more friends above!!!
All excellent suggestions from the two fine ladies.

Not to poke fun at the matter, however I suppose you could also supplement your suggestions with what the OP has done.
Create a new profile and send out a PSA in the form of a new thread.
If you have seen a woman named J..... at CI Pickering and her number contains ###, go get yourself tested!

 

[taker2ez]

imagine if the name is revealed tomorrow and someone saw her today

 

[ashlee.]

I have thought about this. I would make contact with a text app number that won't come up in a search and use a discrete semi- generic message without names to gain first contact and then once you know you have reached the client, then you can let them know.

Thankgully I have never had to put this thought to use but that is what I would try.

This is another reason I like booking through my form because I get an email address which is easier to message. Of course if I know their TERB handle, I would contact them here.

This makes sense!

 

[walleyejack]

imagine if the name is revealed tomorrow and someone saw her today

am guessing he did nothing. and lads are probably still seeing this woman.. he hasn t posted anything positive.
would be interesting who this is.. maybe he contracted it elsewhere and only popped up after seeing this girl.
lots of possibilities here.

 

[hofanatic]

.... maybe he contracted it elsewhere and only popped up after seeing this girl. .....

As mentioned. The STI would have come from her unless, I miraculously got it from a toilet seat or doorknob within the same timeframe as it was a very very very long time with physical contact with anyone else, but based on the now reply I got from her it would be the case.

As an escort I agree you should name, via DM to anyone interested at the very least. It would be totally different if she got back a hold of you thanking you and acting how a responsible sex partner would. But she didn’t so the fact is that she’s probably not going to do her best to get a hold of her customers.

This is a question I’ve had before, but didn’t want to make a thread about it to make people think I had an STD or something because I definitely don’t. Given discretion and not cold texting clients how does one let people know that they have an STD? I’m assuming you also don’t want the provider to list your number for public health to call and leave a message at an indiscreet time.

Thank God it’s been more than a decade and a half since I’ve had to deal with this particular problem, but what is the protocol? I know for myself I would immediately contact anybody who I knew I could either via terb if I had their handle or through text if they were someone who has let me know I could text anytime. But what about everyone else?

So as a continued update on this. Her ad is offline and she has reached back out to me regarding this, she waited to see the results of her tests. She was apologetic. So I see that she is acting as a responsible SP. Now if she is getting ahold of any of her other customers, that I do not know.

The information I gave is more than enough for someone to determine if they reached out or met with her.

So putting out the name now, wouldn't that just be seen as a smear campaign? What if it happened to one of the other SP in this thread that have been responding and there name got listed right away, wouldn't they rather want the proper time to be tested and respond accordingly?

 

[LP191]

After getting out of long term a relationship and soloing for a while I decided that it was time to go out and meet a SP the other week.

Well it wasn't the best experience at the time and even more now. I haven't wrote a review yet on the SP yet and wasn't initially planning on it but now I was thinking about adding one and the best way to approach it before I do, and the account I would use to do so.

It turns out that I got chlamydia from the meet up making it an even worst experience. I had a BBBJ, did not partake in BBFS, which was offered and should have been my sign to walk away.

Should I include that in the review? What are everyone's thoughts?

As I see she is still actively advertising services since I meet up.

Stay safe boys!

Do the review and if it gets deleted then so be it

It’s just the clap, who cares lol