Advice on a review

[Vector222]

The OP's story highlights the risks associated with this Hobby! I am hoping he has thought of the multiplier effect of this STI. Think about the average number of clients an SP sees in a day, etc., etc., the longer that the community does not know who the provider is, the greater the risk.

 

[hofanatic]

I must say the difference in the public posts being asked to directly name the SP and the number of private message I have got, which there were a lot more of than posts on this topic, saying that my approach of contacting the SP first and giving them a chance to take action was the right choice.

The SP ad on LL has since been removed, so she has taken some action in the matter.

As for others wondering if they met with her, I think the following information would be enough to identify if you met with her.

Met with her at the CI Pickering
Name started with "J"
Number "4*****9114"


(I added the starting number as there are other SP's that have numbers that also end in the same last 4 digits)

 

[imaan2k]

Of course they buttered you up privately so they could get you to name her. You got all the attention you wanted she will be back on LL in no time.

 

[Wazn87]

This thread has turned into wheel of fortune

can we buy a vowel?

 

[kherg007]

I did go this route as she might not be having any symptoms and doesn't even know yet. I haven't got a reply yet.

I will hold of with the review for now as it would indicate who it was, even if I did leave that portion out, but if she does post a new ad I might change that decision.

Thank you to everyone for your advice.

Just to widen the issue if one of my tests came back positive I'd think through everyone I may have visited from last negative test (or near trsting, sometimes it takes a month to show a positive test) and reach out, let them know my status, not place any blame, but just urge them to get tested immediately, particularly for whatever may have been positive. As mentioned before, some wee beasties can find purchase in the backs of throats too which might not show in a urine test for gono or chlamydia.
The lady just needs to tell the attending that she does not do cbj a partner who she did cfs with came down w chlamydia to make sure they do a throat swab or simply prescribe the proper antibiotic that works best for that situation.

 

[Jenesis]

Just to widen the issue if one of my tests came back positive I'd think through everyone I may have visited from last negative test (or near trsting, sometimes it takes a month to show a positive test) and reach out, let them know my status, not place any blame, but just urge them to get tested immediately, particularly for whatever may have been positive. As mentioned before, some wee beasties can find purchase in the backs of throats too which might not show in a urine test for gono or chlamydia.
The lady just needs to tell the attending that she does not do cbj a partner who she did cfs with came down w chlamydia to make sure they do a throat swab or simply prescribe the proper antibiotic that works best for that situation.

You can go to the Durham Sexual Health clinic and ask for a throat swap. You don’t have to explain yourself. Just ask.

 

[kherg007]

You can go to the Durham Sexual Health clinic and ask for a throat swap. You don’t have to explain yourself. Just ask.

Perfect. So there ya go folks.

 

[bob.man]

I still have no clue who this Is..

 

[imaan2k]

I still have no clue who this Is..

That’s Op’s secret. An escort turned his penis into a dragon yet he still found forgiveness in his heart.

 

[ashlee.]

As an escort I agree you should name, via DM to anyone interested at the very least. It would be totally different if she got back a hold of you thanking you and acting how a responsible sex partner would. But she didn’t so the fact is that she’s probably not going to do her best to get a hold of her customers.

This is a question I’ve had before, but didn’t want to make a thread about it to make people think I had an STD or something because I definitely don’t. Given discretion and not cold texting clients how does one let people know that they have an STD? I’m assuming you also don’t want the provider to list your number for public health to call and leave a message at an indiscreet time.

Thank God it’s been more than a decade and a half since I’ve had to deal with this particular problem, but what is the protocol? I know for myself I would immediately contact anybody who I knew I could either via terb if I had their handle or through text if they were someone who has let me know I could text anytime. But what about everyone else?

 

[Jenesis]

As an escort I agree you should name, via DM to anyone interested at the very least. It would be totally different if she got back a hold of you thanking you and acting how a responsible sex partner would. But she didn’t so the fact is that she’s probably not going to do her best to get a hold of her customers.

This is a question I’ve had before, but didn’t want to make a thread about it to make people think I had an STD or something because I definitely don’t. Given discretion and not cold texting clients how does one let people know that they have an STD? I’m assuming you also don’t want the provider to list your number for public health to call and leave a message at an indiscreet time.

Thank God it’s been more than a decade and a half since I’ve had to deal with this particular problem, but what is the protocol? I know for myself I would immediately contact anybody who I knew I could either via terb if I had their handle or through text if they were someone who has let me know I could text anytime. But what about everyone else?

I have thought about this. I would make contact with a text app number that won't come up in a search and use a discrete semi- generic message without names to gain first contact and then once you know you have reached the client, then you can let them know.

Thankgully I have never had to put this thought to use but that is what I would try.

This is another reason I like booking through my form because I get an email address which is easier to message. Of course if I know their TERB handle, I would contact them here.

 

[Enterprising1]

The last two posts will likely be the only intelligible things to come out of this thread.
I have only ever seen two of Durham's finest in my travels, but I may have set my sights on a few more friends above!!!
All excellent suggestions from the two fine ladies.

Not to poke fun at the matter, however I suppose you could also supplement your suggestions with what the OP has done.
Create a new profile and send out a PSA in the form of a new thread.
If you have seen a woman named J..... at CI Pickering and her number contains ###, go get yourself tested!

 

[taker2ez]

imagine if the name is revealed tomorrow and someone saw her today