Advancing an SP

Schon said:
Never lend money to a person who has drinking habbits, doing drugs, or a sex worker in adult indsutry, as these categories of people has no sense or responsibilities for financial management, & whatever they get in their hands goes off without any planning or is spent off in their bad habbits only, and just forget that you would get the same, some of them are really rip-off's
stay clear of such financial tranations, or you would loose their acquaintance even!
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it dont matter who they are or what they do.. dont lend money to anyone including friend and family. i recently lent money to friend not in this business and she still owe me $100. it not about the money but the principle. it about them taking advantage of you.
 
exactly right

st. francis said:
girls get upset because they honestly think they arent gonna rip you off
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This is the problem. They look very convincing because they honestly believe they will pay you back. But feelings change and your money will be lost.

It's the sexual equivalent of when a woman says she will have sex with you after you get married.
 
I have done it often before but I don't think I will do it again. They have not been disasters by any means but somehow the promises made by the SP while the money is still in your pocket never quite measure up to reality after the money is spent and the SP now feels for some reason she is working for free. It becomes an attitude thing, maybe human nature. Nobody likes people they owe money to.
 
Mrbig1949 said:
but somehow the promises made by the SP while the money is still in your pocket never quite measure up to reality after the money is spent
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Yup, once the money has been transferred from your pocket to her purse, you have lost all leverage except your charm and good looks:p .
 
Yes

Delta-Wye said:
Recently, my #1 girl asked if she could get an " advance " . I agreed , and was glad she felt comfortable enough with me to ask . It amounted to about two sessions worth and she was very grateful. Everything worked out fine and I was never concerned about the outcome . I have been wondering if anybody else has had a similar request ? Has it worked out okay? Did your mileage improve? Would you do it again?
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Many times, and many times I have offered without being asked. I cant say YMMV improved; it was already great or the advance idea would never have come up.

I have gone up to $40,000 with no problems. However I have been ripped off and had some bad luck with relatively smaller amounts. Would I do a few things differently? Yes, but generally no regrets.:cool:
 
Neither a borrower nor a lender be.

I will give money away on occassion, but I don't lend it. Any money lent to friends should be considered a gift or else problems arise down the road.
 
Delta-Wye said:
Recently, my #1 girl asked if she could get an " advance " . I agreed , and was glad she felt comfortable enough with me to ask . It amounted to about two sessions worth and she was very grateful. Everything worked out fine and I was never concerned about the outcome . I have been wondering if anybody else has had a similar request ? Has it worked out okay? Did your mileage improve? Would you do it again?
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I did so once, as she had a plight that I could understand. She invited me for an all-night stay at her place in return. The shoe tree of hooker boots at the doorway was an immediate intro into the life of a working girl.


I would decide on a case-by-case basis whether to do it again.
 
Let's flip the question around. Has a dancer, MPA or SP ever lent you money to get over a rough patch?

No, that never happened to me but my favourite dancer immediately reduced her price by 50% when I told her I was "between projects" last December.
 
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