Seems to me the trend is the same with most of these sites. Men far outnumber the women and your patience can really be tested if you attempt to pursue this way of meeting women. I had quite a bit of success with Ashley Madison, but with most sites, it's all a numbers game and you have to be willing to send a lot emails to garner a few responses.ruck said:I met a woman through AFF but it turned out she was a sp. LOL
It was fun while it lasted.
My current girlfriend I met on Lavalife. I had some very scary moments from that site but I finally found a woman that I appreciate and enjoy. She's a gem. If you're looking, be serious and look hard, if not you'll never find.
Cheers.
Wow! Have I ever been mistaken. So many posts are about guy's who have fallen in love with SP's and are always looking for the girlfriend experience.Flash said:Ummm.....yeah......thanks for the pep talk. You DO realize though that almost no one here is looking for a wife or GF, right? We're just sluts looking for other sluts. We'll pay them if we gotta, but ya' can't beat a freebie...
What's up with the bashing of the users of online dating??Ref said:For all of you guys who are looking for a wife/steady GF on-line, save yourself a bunch of trouble and stop now.
Take some courses on building self confidence instead (or seek help from a professional). The fact that you are hiding behind a "Cyber-Name" is only reinforcing your insecurity. These web-based love-matcher sites are only cashing in on your loneliness. The guys who own these sites are laughing at you!
My advice - Grow some balls and become a man. If you see a woman you are interested in at a store, on the subway, at a party, walking down the street, etc., then approach her in a friendly manner. Self confidence and a strong sense of security speak volumes on your behalf. If she's not interested, she'll let you know in a nice way. Take it as a sincere "thanks but no thanks" and move on.
Hehehehehehehe. Ref doesn't see escorts. He only comes on here to make fun of guys like you.Scorpion King said:What's up with the bashing of the users of online dating??
Insecure?? Grow some balls??
Buddy... what if I told YOU that YOU are insecure for seeing an SP and that the only reason you do it is because you lack the 'balls' and confidence to approach a hottie on the street??
I'm only insecure when I approach hot looking guys at TERB parties.Scorpion King said:What's up with the bashing of the users of online dating??
Buddy... what if I told YOU that YOU are insecure for seeing an SP and that the only reason you do it is because you lack the 'balls' and confidence to approach a hottie on the street??
You dont have to like or agree with online dating - but it doesnt mean you have to insult those who do.
Not to cast aspersions at specific individuals on this board, but keep in mind re certain of those who flirt w/the cyber-dating or TERBite circle that their hopes are a little more pathological than "wife/steady GF". That's why the dangers of cyber-dating go both ways; that is, not only poor schlubs getting scammed, but women in danger of getting Phil Spectorred by said poor schlubs. And to tell that sort of individual to "grow some balls and become a man" is playing with fire, to say the least...Ref said:My advice - Grow some balls and become a man. If you see a woman you are interested in at a store, on the subway, at a party, walking down the street, etc., then approach her in a friendly manner. Self confidence and a strong sense of security speak volumes on your behalf. If she's not interested, she'll let you know in a nice way. Take it as a sincere "thanks but no thanks" and move on.
Weak reply. For someone who's been a member here for so long I'm surprised by your immaturity. Are you THAT opposed to meeting women online that you feel a need to throw your limp jabs at The King?Ref said:I'm only insecure when I approach hot looking guys at TERB parties.
Fortunately I haven't run into that problem yet.
I also enjoy bashing users of on-line dating services. The only time they show any kind of back-bone or hint of self confidence is when they respond to my jabs.
Scorpion King said:Are you THAT opposed to meeting women online that you feel a need to throw your limp jabs at The King?