How much initiative?
I was with an SP from an agency the other day where I literally had to tell the girl each step what I wanted, even just to get started and remove her clothes. She kept telling me she was new, this was a real turnoff, I was ready to send her home after 20 minutes - now that would be a problem if I had to do that for a week.
I'm normally shy & reserved, by the same token since if I know the girls are there for my pleasure, I would not have as much hesitation taking the initiative, so long as I would not have to specify to them every step, as that would feel like coercion to me. If it was just a matter of saying okay lets go and have **** now that would be okay as long as they could proceed from that point.alexisz said:Thanks everybody for the advice, I promise you I will follow most of your recommendations.
Now, I have almost 80 girls working off and on.
They will absolutely do what you ask (within reason) BUT they do not take the initiative, the client has to do that, for half of my clients that are shy and reserved is not good, I am always trying to train them with some success but for you guys in this forum, how do you feel? is a good thing to take the initiative rather than waiting for the girl that does not know how? I just need opinions only from you, that have been around.
Alexis
I was with an SP from an agency the other day where I literally had to tell the girl each step what I wanted, even just to get started and remove her clothes. She kept telling me she was new, this was a real turnoff, I was ready to send her home after 20 minutes - now that would be a problem if I had to do that for a week.