A Truth I Can No Longer Ignore

[squeezer]

Girlfriends cost money, and while it's fun in the beginning, the drama will start—it always does. The hot girl you met will soon become a pain in the ass and this is visa versa. It applies both ways. The sex also becomes boring and routine, which will make the eye wander.

 

[Bucktee]

For most ladies, unless they meet a guy at a very young age and fall in love with him for the right reasons, after high school or university they are looking for the highest value man they can find, and that value includes being a great provider of financial and emotional security.

That's true. Our youngest selves are our truest selves. If you haven't met your match in your school years, it's all varying degrees of transactional thereafter.

As the saying goes, "men are in love, women are in business".

One cannot make a moral judgment on this asymmetric reality since each sex evolved different mating strategies. Women exhibit traits that allow for their own and their children's survival. This translates into protection and provision from a man. Love never enters the equation.

When all the men in the tribe/nation are killed at war, do women take up arms and fight the invading army to the death (out of love, devotion, and honour)? No, they sleep with the men that slaughtered their husbands, fathers, brothers, uncles, and sons.... and make new babies.

The OP needs to shake the idea of genuine love and passion in any future relationship. He should focus on a woman that demonstrates respect for him, loyalty, trustworthiness, kindness/thoughtfulness, support. Without that, the relationship is doomed.

Never give your whole heart to anyone, especially to a woman.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Girlfriends cost money, and while it's fun in the beginning, the drama will start—it always does. The hot girl you met will soon become a pain in the ass and this is visa versa. It applies both ways. The sex also becomes boring and routine, which will make the eye wander.

 

[Mandalorian]

I read your post and some of the replies. Too many to wade through but here’s my advice if you seek it. Just treat your experiences with SW as entertainment, much like watching porn or dancers. Don’t read more into it. Men have physical needs and these wonderful women fulfill them, that’s all.

If you need love, companionship, affirmation, take a break from the terb fantasy life and go out and meet people. Join some clubs, run, pickleball league whatever works! It’s not that hard, don’t read too much into it.

 

[Bucktee]

If age and weight are non-issues, check out your local Bingo Hall to pick up a wife.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

If age and weight are non-issues, check out your local Bingo Hall to pick up a wife.

Or Wal-Mate

 

[Climberx]

The last few years of my life, I’ve spent tens of thousands of dollars visiting escorts. Not for pleasure, not for thrill, but for something deeper I could never quite touch: connection. Love. Its to feel wanted, even if it is for an hour or so.

And for that hour, maybe I could pretend that her smile meant something, her touch wasn’t rehearsed. That I wasn’t just another name, another number, another transaction. But when the door closed behind me, so did the fantasy. And then I will be stuck in this endless cycle of standing in silence, emptier than before.

What breaks me most is knowing is that there are guys out there who get these things—love, touch, conversation, laughter, even just being seen—without paying a penny. They meet someone. They fall in love. They hold hands at no cost. They have someone who asks them how their day was, just because they care. They get affection without an expiry time.

I paid for what they get for free, and even then, I never really had it.

Many of the escorts when asked about their future plans, they mentioned saying they just need to collect some money for their higher education or for any other purpose and then they will leave the industry as they are not obsessed with it.I’ve seen some of the escorts I visited move on, leave the industry, heal, grow, fall in love for real. I’m happy for them, honestly. But I’m still here, stuck in the same patterns. Still clinging to memories that were only ever mine. Still hoping for something more in a space that doesn’t offer it.

Escorts don’t owe me love. That’s not what they’re selling. But I think part of me kept hoping—foolishly—that if I came back enough, paid enough, felt enough, maybe someone would stay. They never do.

This post isn’t about blame. It’s about pain. About the crushing realization that no matter how much money I spend, I cannot buy what I’m really looking for.

I don’t know what healing looks like yet. But I know it starts by finally admitting: I deserve real love. The kind that doesn’t come with a price tag. The kind I see others get without even trying.
And maybe, just maybe, I still have a chance to find it too.

There's a reason you threw away so much money: you spent money on something that can't be bought. And so you will keep spending more and more because in your twisted mind you think, one day, you will find the answer by seeing more woman/having more sex. The industry prays on this exact mindset and is the reason it will never be completely outlawed. You are paying for sex plain and simple. No, it's not love, it's not companionship and it's not a caring relationship (although your mind might convince you it is). If an escort tells you differently, take a step back and realize the dynamic....she gets paid to perpetuate said ideas. If you are going to hire an escort, know that it's for short term pleasure, and short term pleasure only. It will NOT give you the long term satisfaction you seek.

 

[Normscot]

Or Wal-Mate

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Fuck sakes what a terrifying thoughtI won’t be able to go in there now for a month.

 

[Climberx]

Fuck sakes what a terrifying thoughtI won’t be able to go in there now for a month.

One man's trash is another man's treasure. I once opted to see a girl highly recommended in a PAWG thread. What I thought I would see and what I saw turned out to be quite different. Apparently, I should of just went to Walmart.

 

[southpaw]

you will find the answer by seeing more woman/having more sex.

Amen brother!

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Im sorry you fell into the trap but its a trap a lot of guys fall into and they'll never admit it.

some of our best customers see us every week for some level of connection wether they are willing to admit it or not.

Its my job to string people a long for as long as possible to get as much as possible and move on.

Its all based on the desire for connection and honestly there's nothing wrong with that and there's nothing wrong with you.

You're perfectly normal, but you were engaging in f*cked up cycle that was designed to keep you trapped in it. Men start to believe they are entitled to a gorgeous women with little to no effort. They think fast, cheap and easy is the better alternative to making an effort with a good woman.

Leave it behind and find a nice girl. Women are work. They take time and effort and you cant buy them.

You have to remember that you might not get the prettiest girl but a woman is more than a face and a body and a hole. You have to love someone for who they are imperfections and all. Woman are imperfect. We have hairy legs, our pussies dont smell like flowers, we fart, burp and swear. Its not a genuine representation to see an escort for an hour and then turn up your nose at a woman acting naturally lol

Just remember that. Dont settle but regular women arent overly concerned with looks and everything smelling perfect and looking perfect and telling you you're fantastic at sex. If youre bad at something theyre going to tell you and you have to take that and try and improve.

I always feel bad for men that only saw prostitutes for most of their lives or who saw A LOT of them because theyre terrible at sex. Theyre so bad, its not even worth correcting and i just tolerate it, but I know deep down that the guy will never get a woman to have sex with him more than once. Hes been lied to so much he thinks he's a stud but hes so bad at sex any normal woman would tell them to stop and "get out".

Just be grateful youre not that guy. Some guys are "lifers" their brains are so broken and theyre so stunted they couldnt get a woman if they tried and they learned every sex move they have from a woman that didnt want to have sex with them in the first place.

The last few years of my life, I’ve spent tens of thousands of dollars visiting escorts. Not for pleasure, not for thrill, but for something deeper I could never quite touch: connection. Love. Its to feel wanted, even if it is for an hour or so.

And for that hour, maybe I could pretend that her smile meant something, her touch wasn’t rehearsed. That I wasn’t just another name, another number, another transaction. But when the door closed behind me, so did the fantasy. And then I will be stuck in this endless cycle of standing in silence, emptier than before.

What breaks me most is knowing is that there are guys out there who get these things—love, touch, conversation, laughter, even just being seen—without paying a penny. They meet someone. They fall in love. They hold hands at no cost. They have someone who asks them how their day was, just because they care. They get affection without an expiry time.

I paid for what they get for free, and even then, I never really had it.

Many of the escorts when asked about their future plans, they mentioned saying they just need to collect some money for their higher education or for any other purpose and then they will leave the industry as they are not obsessed with it.I’ve seen some of the escorts I visited move on, leave the industry, heal, grow, fall in love for real. I’m happy for them, honestly. But I’m still here, stuck in the same patterns. Still clinging to memories that were only ever mine. Still hoping for something more in a space that doesn’t offer it.

Escorts don’t owe me love. That’s not what they’re selling. But I think part of me kept hoping—foolishly—that if I came back enough, paid enough, felt enough, maybe someone would stay. They never do.

This post isn’t about blame. It’s about pain. About the crushing realization that no matter how much money I spend, I cannot buy what I’m really looking for.

I don’t know what healing looks like yet. But I know it starts by finally admitting: I deserve real love. The kind that doesn’t come with a price tag. The kind I see others get without even trying.
And maybe, just maybe, I still have a chance to find it too.

 

[xix]

Was having a conversations with a Spiritual Leader today. It seems this whole week men have been speaking to him about women.

I asked him that to me it seems on the spiritual level of the soul, the Spiritual DNA of women is it to be Vindictive, Not loving and Not Accountable (can't let go). He agreed, plus more and the other men agreed. Hence why most men in his church don't come with women at all.

 

[LP191]

I have my girlfriend for the love and all the warm feelings and I have escorts for all the other fun stuff

life = figured it out

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I have my girlfriend for the love and all the warm feelings and I have escorts for all the other fun stuff

life = figured it out

Dont catch anyting.

 

[kherg007]

I have my girlfriend for the love and all the warm feelings and I have escorts for all the other fun stuff

life = figured it out

I'd go one more step to hit "figured it out" - a bisexual gf who eagerly picks out ladies to visit with you lol.

 

[Mr Deeds]

"What breaks me most is knowing is that there are guys out there who get these things—love, touch, conversation, laughter, even just being seen—without paying a penny."

The payments could be indirect.

You may think you're getting a free ride but your not, civilians cost money too, sometimes even more than pay for play. I'm finding that dating just reaffirms that I'm better when I'm on my own. I get all I need from an hour or two with a woman on my terms. And variety is the spice of life. Learn to be comfortable with your own company and you'll never be disappointed

 

[LP191]

And by the way.. weddings, houses, kids, paying to do things to keep their interest peaked in you.. all costs way more than a hooker lol

 

[Sonic Temple]

Im sorry you fell into the trap but its a trap a lot of guys fall into and they'll never admit it.

some of our best customers see us every week for some level of connection wether they are willing to admit it or not.

Its my job to string people a long for as long as possible to get as much as possible and move on.

Its all based on the desire for connection and honestly there's nothing wrong with that and there's nothing wrong with you.

You're perfectly normal, but you were engaging in f*cked up cycle that was designed to keep you trapped in it. Men start to believe they are entitled to a gorgeous women with little to no effort. They think fast, cheap and easy is the better alternative to making an effort with a good woman.

Leave it behind and find a nice girl. Women are work. They take time and effort and you cant buy them.

You have to remember that you might not get the prettiest girl but a woman is more than a face and a body and a hole. You have to love someone for who they are imperfections and all. Woman are imperfect. We have hairy legs, our pussies dont smell like flowers, we fart, burp and swear. Its not a genuine representation to see an escort for an hour and then turn up your nose at a woman acting naturally lol

Just remember that. Dont settle but regular women arent overly concerned with looks and everything smelling perfect and looking perfect and telling you you're fantastic at sex. If youre bad at something theyre going to tell you and you have to take that and try and improve.

I always feel bad for men that only saw prostitutes for most of their lives or who saw A LOT of them because theyre terrible at sex. Theyre so bad, its not even worth correcting and i just tolerate it, but I know deep down that the guy will never get a woman to have sex with him more than once. Hes been lied to so much he thinks he's a stud but hes so bad at sex any normal woman would tell them to stop and "get out".

Just be grateful youre not that guy. Some guys are "lifers" their brains are so broken and theyre so stunted they couldnt get a woman if they tried and they learned every sex move they have from a woman that didnt want to have sex with them in the first place.

Well said, this hobby is not for those looking for love - OP has to understand that - this hobby is to get your rocks off - plain and simple. Fantasy to be filled and return to daily activities. If you are looking for love here - please move on as there is no emotional gains in this area of our universe.

 

[Bobtubby]

The last few years of my life, I’ve spent tens of thousands of dollars visiting escorts. Not for pleasure, not for thrill, but for something deeper I could never quite touch: connection. Love. Its to feel wanted, even if it is for an hour or so.

And for that hour, maybe I could pretend that her smile meant something, her touch wasn’t rehearsed. That I wasn’t just another name, another number, another transaction. But when the door closed behind me, so did the fantasy. And then I will be stuck in this endless cycle of standing in silence, emptier than before.

What breaks me most is knowing is that there are guys out there who get these things—love, touch, conversation, laughter, even just being seen—without paying a penny. They meet someone. They fall in love. They hold hands at no cost. They have someone who asks them how their day was, just because they care. They get affection without an expiry time.

I paid for what they get for free, and even then, I never really had it.

Many of the escorts when asked about their future plans, they mentioned saying they just need to collect some money for their higher education or for any other purpose and then they will leave the industry as they are not obsessed with it.I’ve seen some of the escorts I visited move on, leave the industry, heal, grow, fall in love for real. I’m happy for them, honestly. But I’m still here, stuck in the same patterns. Still clinging to memories that were only ever mine. Still hoping for something more in a space that doesn’t offer it.

Escorts don’t owe me love. That’s not what they’re selling. But I think part of me kept hoping—foolishly—that if I came back enough, paid enough, felt enough, maybe someone would stay. They never do.

This post isn’t about blame. It’s about pain. About the crushing realization that no matter how much money I spend, I cannot buy what I’m really looking for.

I don’t know what healing looks like yet. But I know it starts by finally admitting: I deserve real love. The kind that doesn’t come with a price tag. The kind I see others get without even trying.
And maybe, just maybe, I still have a chance to find it too.

Ummm so what i did was tell every agency in the gta to permanantly block me. I can never see another escort again. Its a process but fuck i got money in the bank.

 

[Bobtubby]

The last few years of my life, I’ve spent tens of thousands of dollars visiting escorts. Not for pleasure, not for thrill, but for something deeper I could never quite touch: connection. Love. Its to feel wanted, even if it is for an hour or so.

And for that hour, maybe I could pretend that her smile meant something, her touch wasn’t rehearsed. That I wasn’t just another name, another number, another transaction. But when the door closed behind me, so did the fantasy. And then I will be stuck in this endless cycle of standing in silence, emptier than before.

What breaks me most is knowing is that there are guys out there who get these things—love, touch, conversation, laughter, even just being seen—without paying a penny. They meet someone. They fall in love. They hold hands at no cost. They have someone who asks them how their day was, just because they care. They get affection without an expiry time.

I paid for what they get for free, and even then, I never really had it.

Many of the escorts when asked about their future plans, they mentioned saying they just need to collect some money for their higher education or for any other purpose and then they will leave the industry as they are not obsessed with it.I’ve seen some of the escorts I visited move on, leave the industry, heal, grow, fall in love for real. I’m happy for them, honestly. But I’m still here, stuck in the same patterns. Still clinging to memories that were only ever mine. Still hoping for something more in a space that doesn’t offer it.

Escorts don’t owe me love. That’s not what they’re selling. But I think part of me kept hoping—foolishly—that if I came back enough, paid enough, felt enough, maybe someone would stay. They never do.

This post isn’t about blame. It’s about pain. About the crushing realization that no matter how much money I spend, I cannot buy what I’m really looking for.

I don’t know what healing looks like yet. But I know it starts by finally admitting: I deserve real love. The kind that doesn’t come with a price tag. The kind I see others get without even trying.
And maybe, just maybe, I still have a chance to find it too.

Ummm so what i did was tell every agency in the gta to permanantly block me. I can never see another escort again. Its a process but fuck i got money in the bank.

And fyi i did some pornstar worth stuff that im not proud of.