a question for all the guys on here..

[piano8950]

Every client is different, but I think there would be some constants.

1) Have a clean incall. Yeah, there are some that wouldn't mind a messy place, but given the choice, they'd prefer a cleaner place.
2) Remember this is a luxury expense. Meaning that the small details matter. I had a great time with a lady once, but before I left, I wanted to take a shower. She pointed me to a bunched up towel that was damp.
3) Have a good attitude. I'm not talking about complimenting or praising the client (you have both sides of the argument above), but it feels awesome just to feel my business is valued. A smile goes a long way.

 

[Nate1]

Hot Towels.

 

[rt-24]

sensuality. soft silky skin. impeccable hygiene. someone that shows a genuine interest in the client's happiness.

 

[spankingman]

I'll second this one.

Me too and don't be a clock watcher either.

 

[IM469]

I want her to ... play the part of my wife, ..... I want her to stay in the role.

The SP will show up with her mother, you will sleep alone on the couch waking up to find your favorite stuff thrown out, your wallet & bank account empty with the furniture gone. Each month you you will send twice the original amount and instead of sex in return, you will get a phone call telling you what jerk you are.

I'd recommend forgetting the wife role personally. :ballchain:

 

[GGGDickson]

The SP will show up with her mother, you will sleep alone on the couch waking up to find your favorite stuff thrown out, your wallet & bank account empty with the furniture gone. Each month you you will send twice the original amount and instead of sex in return, you will get a phone call telling you what jerk you are.

I'd recommend forgetting the wife role personally. :ballchain:

LOL Yea I guess that is why I never got married but I like the feeling of the good stuff with a wife but not the bad stuff. In the long run having one play the part is more cost effective than having one.

 

[pablice]

Try to be yourself and don't hate or resent your job or your life...lol. Service providers who hate their jobs or what they do are such a BIG turn off that just just just do it for the money because they need it. Fuck that, I'm not touching that even if I was desperate. IMO if you wanna be good you need to show something special that makes you unique and separates you from the other girls. The great ones actually like doing this and get off making the client feel good. Then there is the legends that blow your mind to billion pieces, have a life lasting affect and change you forever, however these types are extremely rare!

 

[mmn]

Good attitude (i.e. friendly, but firm) is the most important thing to being a good SP.

Oh - and classy heels!

 

[trod]

While I haven't been a regular hobbyist, I'd say the following would go a long way in having a great session.

Be yourself and don't fake anything too much. Have a clean place, good hygiene, mutual respect and make an effort to connect. After all, this is an event that both of us should enjoy.

 

[dogpile]

hi guys. i was wondering what, in your opinion, makes a great sp? other than providing pleasure, what do you want your sp to do while you are together? i know the answers will be individual to each person and that is what interests me. thanx

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Veronika

Three things:

#1 - 30 minutes is 30 minutes. 60 minutes is 60 minutes. I'm talking the official US National Bureau of Standards atomic clock time...not Einsteins "Time is relative" theory
which most SP's seem to prescribe the latter. If a client pays for 30 minutes, the escort will accept that she is to give him 30 minutes of her time.

Escorts are the only animals I've ever seen, who claim that 5 minutes is 30 minutes...and my 'time is up'.
Maybe all that dick made them are experts in the time-dilation theory.

#2 - When you tell a client who calls/says He's 'downstairs' that you need to 'take a shower first'...physically enter the shower stall, turn on both or single faucets to achieve
whatever median temperature you prefer...and use whatever soaps/shampoos to lather/rinse/clean.

If that's too much work you can simply tell the truth: You double booked your client and you want the stupid bastard who showed up on time to wait outside
for another 30 minutes.

#3 - Spend the few seconds to actually read the crap you post online, besides the usual typos...if you claim to want to give your 'undivided attention'
maybe you should mention what you will give your undivided attention to. My fave are the escorts who check their phones a few dozen times as I'm trying to get off.

 

[DanJ]

#1 - 30 minutes is 30 minutes. 60 minutes is 60 minutes. I'm talking the official US National Bureau of Standards atomic clock time...not Einsteins "Time is relative" theory
which most SP's seem to prescribe the latter. If a client pays for 30 minutes, the escort will accept that she is to give him 30 minutes of her time.

And if you've gotten off 15 minutes in, what should you do then? It's rare that you see SP's agree to msog in half hour appts. Do you want to play "get to know you" with the remainder of the time?

#2 - When you tell a client who calls/says He's 'downstairs' that you need to 'take a shower first'...physically enter the shower stall, turn on both or single faucets to achieve
whatever median temperature you prefer...and use whatever soaps/shampoos to lather/rinse/clean.

If that's too much work you can simply tell the truth: You double booked your client and you want the stupid bastard who showed up on time to wait outside
for another 30 minutes.

I thought the standard story when they double book was "I need to get some supper"

Anyway, will you really feel better knowing she is fucking some dude's brains out right now while you sit in the car and think about it, or would you just up and leave, either story she gives you?

 

[hot.scorpio71]

A great sp is a lady who lives what she does, and does not treat her date like just another guy. A great sp is someone who does not give attitude and has a heart. Some people work hard for there money and they do not discrete to be treated like crap

 

[Mable]

The good sp will be able to dectect what that particular client wants, especially if he tells her, and provide it. This is why there are almost no good sp's out there. They are in it for some cash and do not give a hoot about the client. So to answer your question, be receptive to his needs, but of course most of you do not give a damn. Got to wonder why you are asking?

 

[bolt.upright]

The good sp will be able to dectect what that particular client wants, especially if he tells her, and provide it. This is why there are almost no good sp's out there. They are in it for some cash and do not give a hoot about the client. So to answer your question, be receptive to his needs, but of course most of you do not give a damn. Got to wonder why you are asking?

There ARE many good ones out there, even in a smaller area like Durham. Thanks to reviews on these online communities I've met two excellent SP's and repeat as frequently as I can afford. Do your homework is the best advice to the guys out there. If the ladies are not getting any business they will improve their game, or go into another line of work.

 

[GGGDickson]

Most casrs you get what you give!

 

[bolt.upright]

Most cases you get what you give!

Sure. As Paul McCartney once said, "And in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make."

 

[FearlessFreep]

Really, I am no prize, but if she can make me feel sexy and desirable, that's the most important thing to me.

I agree with BU. Without the fantasy I can't get off, and a happy ending is a must if I'm ever to see her again.

 

[Titalian]

hi guys. i was wondering what, in your opinion, makes a great sp? other than providing pleasure, what do you want your sp to do while you are together? i know the answers will be individual to each person and that is what interests me. thanx

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Veronika

I wonder if you are the famous escort Called Kitty Kat. Probably not???

To answer your question though, for me it would be to give me a sense of reality, during the session.
It has happened a few times and its quite the experience!!!

 

[thumper18474]

I really don't think she cares, she asked that question back in February and never came back post again........

Maybe not...but a lot of ladies on here should take note of what is being said
We're telling you ladies.. if you want us to be a good reliable repeat customer...THESE are the attributes we look for in an SP..
Take stock in what we are saying....or dont, its your decision , just as it will be our decision to repeat with the Lady or move on.

 

[Ridgeman08]

I really don't think she cares, she asked that question back in February and never came back post again........

While this is true, it is still relevant to other SP's that may be reading... Terb is a wealth of information for inquiring minds, on both sides of the Hobby spectrum.

IMHO, a good SP is genuine, sincere, offers good (if not great) services, is punctual and considerate, and who considers the client's time is as valuable to her as her own.

One of my biggest pet peeves is an SP that doesn't communicate properly and sincerely.