I don't think it is fair or accurate to call all men who think that way an incel.
The video makes some obvious points which are often cited on this board but there are other reasons why this strategy may work for some guys.
I agree that it's a sad way to look at things as a young man and none of us did as we all wanted a normal happy life with wife and kids.
But as we get older and go through 1 or 2 gut wrenching and heartbreaking divorces that cost us great amounts of money and anguish, this strategy starts not only looking good but can seem like a no brainer. Keep in mind many older woman choose not to enter into relationships after they divorce or widowed.
Just comes down to how much companionship one needs and if they can get it in other ways like good friends, family, etc.
I have no problem with a guy paying for. I already said that, but this guys belief is that the ONLY purpose to a relationship is obtaining sex. That is it. There is no other reason for a relationship. That is one of the most idiotic thought processes in my opinion. Incels believe they have a right to sex. Regular men don’t.
If you believe the only reason for a relationship is obtaining sex and no other reason, then you may want to look at your incel tendencies and stop being an idiot.
The heartbreak and divorces have nothing to do with the cost investment of sex. You most likely had other reasons for getting married. If not, if you thought it was all about free sex, then you‘re pretty idiotic yourself.
If you got married for other reasons and they didn’t work out and now all you want is sex so paying for it is better, you are not this guy or like these guys that think this way. Your needs have change and you don’t need a relationship as you don’t need the things a relationship involves.
So I didn’t call all men incels. I called men who think this way as incels. Meaning, as I said in my first post, men who believe the ONLY thing you need a relationship for is sex. Not all men think that way so clearly I can’t label all men with same brush.