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.Did had quite a few adventures at different conventions. Dude your wife attends convention? Be wary haha
Why do you hobby?
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.Did had quite a few adventures at different conventions. Dude your wife attends convention? Be wary haha
For me, it's more of an occasional thing. I've identified a few factors that lead me to engage in this hobby, most of which are related to stress—whether from work or relationships.
Typically, I only dabble for about two months before stepping back until I feel the need for that kind of outlet again.
That said, there are times when I simply have the urge to experience something different or seek something my partner doesn't provide.
Typically, I only dabble for about two months before stepping back until I feel the need for that kind of outlet again.
That said, there are times when I simply have the urge to experience something different or seek something my partner doesn't provide.
Losing my virginity was on my bucket list. That's how I got in. Fast forward to today. I managed to not see someone in November but I already withdrew the cash for some action.
The main motivation to seeing an escort is because I don't meet enough women my age who I'm comfortable asking out. I love feeling a woman while she performs sexually. It's hot and a dopamine stimulator. I don't think it's worth waiting around for years and going mentally crazy from the lack of sexual satisfaction (assuming the person does not watch porn). When some people pay $1900 in rent, a few hundred dollars isn't setting me back financially.
What prevents me from seeing an escort? My car does not come in for another month or two, I don't live in a city center, I got addicted to porn again (been trying to quit but whenever I relapse I justify it by saying that the escort wasn't worth it). Hopefully the next escort I see makes quitting porn worth it.
The main motivation to seeing an escort is because I don't meet enough women my age who I'm comfortable asking out. I love feeling a woman while she performs sexually. It's hot and a dopamine stimulator. I don't think it's worth waiting around for years and going mentally crazy from the lack of sexual satisfaction (assuming the person does not watch porn). When some people pay $1900 in rent, a few hundred dollars isn't setting me back financially.
What prevents me from seeing an escort? My car does not come in for another month or two, I don't live in a city center, I got addicted to porn again (been trying to quit but whenever I relapse I justify it by saying that the escort wasn't worth it). Hopefully the next escort I see makes quitting porn worth it.
Very similar experience to mine - prior to relationship and marriage I hobbied because I didn't want to date and it was just easier, when we started dating the sex was fun but vanilla (not that I'm a freak, but the same routine of mish, doggy no oral either way etc. gets boring) after marriage it stopped for years, so I hobbied, but we still had fun, traveled etc. then she decided it was time for kids so we had just enough sex to get 2 then it stopped again for years, so I hobbied, now it's like maybe 3-4 times a year, not enough for me, so I hobby, infrequently i.e. only when I need it and it's not coming at home.For me it's complete lack of sex with my wife. I do not hate her, she is great company and we are good friends. First few years after getting married I tried a lot to initiate for sex but it felt so one-sided, feels like she is just forcing herself to do it so stopped completely. She has zero sex drive, zero. Man has need so started 8 yrs back and going on. If she ever genuinely comes forward for sex I will stop hobbying. I have never had emotional attachment with anyone else and not looking for it. I am willing to go old with my wife. However, I also don't want to deny myself with the pleasure of life.
LOL every time I rub one out to porn I feel like I saved $300 since I no longer need to see a MA/SP for a few days, rinse and repeat.
I see I’m not the only one !!! When it gets too complicated, I tell myself the same thing too thinking I’m suddenly the smartest person on the planet. But the week after I find myself being the same dumb a** doing it doggy style in a random hotel room
I was thinking why nowadays people treat regular routine sex as something really boring. Is it the influence of internet and all that porn content?!
Now guys want to get sucked like crazy, cim, lick girl's ass and everything else all together... I'm sure its coming from porn. Not like I've never done it myself but I don't think we are on a right track. You not going to get most likely all this in real life with wife and kids, and all this guys who are single and hobby a lot will not never get into relationship, make a family.
Personally, porn has no influnce on my desires. I can watch snowballing videos all day long, it's not going to make me want to do it. Most guys like all kinds of dirty things, it's normal.
Like I said I'm not into anything freaky, no butt licking or rough sex (no judgement) I just want to get my hands all over pretty women and get my rocks off without doing it myself, once in a while, trying to get it at home as often as id like is like pushing a rope, I cant MAKE her want it and I cant stand pity sex.
I personally started off 25yrs ago for the purpose of having someone different from time to time.
That over the years has lead to one hell of a hobby and used to see 1-2 girls a week. Leaving me with a very satisfying feeling.
Fast forward to now and I’m only seeing one lady 98% of the time and it’s bloomed into a friendship/relationship hybrid kinda thing . She is a total gem and has changed my outlook on so much.
So I guess now I do it for love!
That over the years has lead to one hell of a hobby and used to see 1-2 girls a week. Leaving me with a very satisfying feeling.
Fast forward to now and I’m only seeing one lady 98% of the time and it’s bloomed into a friendship/relationship hybrid kinda thing . She is a total gem and has changed my outlook on so much.
So I guess now I do it for love!
My point is that if you wouldn't see those dirty things somewhere in form of porn, it will not come on your mind most likely. Every 10 years there a new level of what is normal in terms of dirty things. If you read all this cbj vs bbbj topics, guys now expect not only oral as a must to turn on, but 9 out of 10 want bbbj or he is not going for it.
