Can’t do it with my wife ….

Alison_xox said:

I am curious ….

A lot of my clients admitted being more open and comfortable to ask for things they like during our sessions , but won’t with their wives because they think they’ll be judge or she won’t be open to it.
Some of them like Hentai , but will watch regular porn with their wife. Some like prostate play or pegging , but would never even think of bringing up the kink at home.
Same for foot fetish or domination.

I find it interesting to see how reserved some gentlemen are about their fantasy & sexual desires.

What’s the thing you would never try with your wife , but you do with your provider ?

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Alison_xox said:

but won’t with their wives because they think they’ll be judge or she won’t be open to it.

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kherg007 said:

Based on my own plus mates experiences, we felt wives were often super judgmental, and a wrong suggestion = weeks of cold shoulder. For some of us, once they're the mother of your children they gain this holy honored status that made me feel additionally bad to push boundaries.

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Alison_xox said:

I am curious ….

A lot of my clients admitted being more open and comfortable to ask for things they like during our sessions , but won’t with their wives because they think they’ll be judge or she won’t be open to it.
Some of them like Hentai , but will watch regular porn with their wife. Some like prostate play or pegging , but would never even think of bringing up the kink at home.
Same for foot fetish or domination.

I find it interesting to see how reserved some gentlemen are about their fantasy & sexual desires.

What’s the thing you would never try with your wife , but you do with your provider ?

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xyphy said:

hmmm, all I can think of is the following...
missionary, doggy, CG, RCG, anal, bj, cbj, bbbj, hj.
I think that about covers it

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Robert205 said:

I'm 70 years old and I have known only 1 or 2 guys who said that they were happy with their married sex lives. Almost everyone I've known said how inhibited their wives were and how puzzling that is. Sex is free, fun and should lead to relationship intimacy, so what's the problem exactly. Our culture sure does a number on us.

Now I admit that this is one-sided, as we're not hearing what women say about this. Maybe lots of guys are repulsive slobs, how would I know. But my first wife would not let me eat her or give her massages, by far my favourite things to do. I did eat her once, about 8 years into our relationship, and she said that she really enjoyed it and I could tell that was true, but she never let me do it again. Why the f**k not, I wondered. Once I've been turned down a few times, I stop trying, how many blows to my ego am I supposed to take. How many damn dragons am I supposed to slay? Other partners reported having a good time with me, so I'm pretty sure I was at least ok at it.

This whole area is one of the biggest mysteries of my life. Pretty much all the long-term attached guys I've known just sit there and shake their heads, don't understand. But it's not pleasant watching the best years of your life fly past knowing you're not having your share of fun. LIfe isn't about paying off a damn mortgage and mowing the lawn.

One pf my best friends, now deceased, was married to a lady who claimed to be asexual. She was quite forthright about it, she simply did not care about sex. Funny how that only came to the surface a few years after they were married. The thing is, if she really did not care about sex, then it should not matter to her if her husband sought solace elsewhere. But she insisted that since she didn't want sex, then he would simply have to go along. She would reluctantly agree to it every year or two, and the sessions were literally, "Are you done yet?". They had a young daughter so he didn't want to end things. Needless to say, he had an endless string of affairs. And I cheered him on.

I am so sick and tired of all the sanctimonious laws on the books that make sex between consenting adults illegal because a few bucks change hands. And the recent rise of the Christian Taliban in the US and in many places in Canada make me seethe with rage. Who the f**k are these assholes to tell me how to live?

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Robert205 said:

... the recent rise of the Christian Taliban in the US and in many places in Canada make me seethe with rage. Who the f**k are these assholes to tell me how to live?

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