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digi_7e

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Hey guys, i need your advice. I am married and I am hooked on the hobby but I am looking for something more long-term with a side chick.
I think this is safer (health, legal) ....

What do you guys think? I m mid-30's guy. Do you think flirting with women (I prefer older) would get me somewhere ?
My plan is to tell the side chick from day 1 about my situation (being married and all) and that I just need her for "me time"

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Long-term with a side chick will cause you more headache than its worth mate. Long term will get you emotionally involved that won't end well. Think short-term and variation.
 
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Sailorz said:
My advice? Get your shit together bro? What's wrong with the lady you have at home? And what makes you think having a long-term side chick is any more legal than having short-term side chicks? Go to the doctor to make sure your head is screwed on right!
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I AM going to therapy indeed but not much of help
 
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digi_7e

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Sailorz said:
Then pursuing what you are considering right now will fuck you over long term. Swallow the pill and, as they say (in a new york accent), "check yo self before you wreck yo self"
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Isnt better than getting into the hobby though?
 
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digi_7e said:
Isnt better than getting into the hobby though?
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The hobby is safer. A side chick can find out things about you. And women can catch feelings. Or when you decide to end it be vindictive. The whole point is to keep it "professional"

Oh and side chicks say no, get "headaches", will start fights, and also have other partners. At the rate you said? In Toronto? As well can text/call at the wrong time, decide they need "help" financially.....

In other words, turn into girlfriends.

You pay em to leave.
 
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How`s your financials? Got 500+ grand stashed away to pay the wife off? Prepared to lose, if applicable, your house? Want to get clipped for a large percentage of work pensions? Say goodbye to your car(s) and kids, pay alimony, child support and a massive lawyer`s fee? Wake up and fucking smarten up, you`re wandering into a minefield.
 
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Butler1000 said:
The hobby is safer. A side chick can find out things about you. And women can catch feelings. Or when you decide to end it be vindictive. The whole point is to keep it "professional"

Oh and side chicks say no, get "headaches", will start fights, and also have other partners. At the rate you said? In Toronto? As well can text/call at the wrong time, decide they need "help" financially.....

In other words, turn into girlfriends.

You pay em to leave.
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I know a guy in the States who`s son, about your age, had a side chick. He was in his truck with soon to be ex-wife, young daughter and her mom. Side chick sends him a text, quite explicit, which appears on the trucks big screen for all to see. He is now looking at many years of monthly payments etc. and the loss of the family home to her and the ex gets custody too. The guy I know says his stupid kid is hit for way north of a Million bucks. Still wanna` play?
 
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Any logical men with common sense who wants a side chick or SB know better not to ask questions here at all because they already know the answer to life.
You could get caught or not.

Asking the Question is asking someone to validate their ego to say - you will never get caught, - is a pipe dream.

As stated here in many posts over the years before, if you are married and want to hobby no matter which way - you must have a separate cell line not attached or linked to anything at all. See post 19 for example.
No person can control Side chick or SB.
I wish posts on Terb can be categorized by genre like books are in the library but the threads not moved around but like a footprint for the search engine to find these types of posts.


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digi_7e said:
Looks is "Prince if Persia" or Aladdin
Body: dadbod loooool

money, maybe $700 a month as a budget for this
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You want a long term side chick - a sugar baby - but not an SP for $700/month? Good luck on that especially in TO. Possible, maybe but...
You're safer with seeing SPs since you see them and then they leave while the SB & you will eventually get an emotional attachment. And if & when that goes bad, crap will hit the fan and that will cost you a lot. And it's been mentioned before that when your wife finds out, it will cost you more than it's worth.
Just see SPs since the long term obligations are only money.

But live by RULE #1: Take care of all necessary home expenses and obligations first - mortgage, car payments, utilities, RRSPs, TFSAs, etc - before spending anything to see an SP. Seeing an SP is a "luxury expense" but not if it compromises your home or personal financial security.

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digi_7e said:
Hey guys, i need your advice. I am married and I am hooked on the hobby but I am looking for something more long-term with a side chick.
I think this is safer (health, legal) ....
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A well-to-do married man in Europe very frequently has a mistress. Just get her her own apartment so she can host you whenever it is convenient for you.
 
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