How would you have handled this situation?

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I went on an outcall. I chatted with the guy for a while. Grabbed the money on the table.
We went to the room.I gave him massage.
I gave him a nice long, hard massage and when he flipped over everything seemed fine until when I got up closer, his little black mole... Was surrounded by a lot of growths that were all different shapes and sizes and were climbing up the shaft of his penis.

I ended the session because I can't take the risk that his self diagnosed "skin tags" arent genital warts. There have been quite a few people in this area with genital warts try to get a session out of me. Three in total, but one understands that his condition is very contagious and does not touch me whatsoever. I put on a live show. I play with myself. He handles himself. I don't touch him and he doesn't touch me.

What possesses a man with genital warts?To try and book an appointment with an escort? That is f****** crazy to me.

This is the third time now and only in that specific geographic area, so clearly there's a problem there. The warts are specifically where a vagina would come into contact with the body if they were having sex with someone with warts. There are no warts where a condom would cover the penis, but there are warts where a vagina would rub up against the skin.

Are people actually seeing these men? Is that why they think it's okay to try and hire an escort while they have an STD?

Like realistically, if they were skin tags, you would think a person would have them removed so that they didn't have this type of embarrassment.

Anyway I left. I was really nervous about leaving. Because that's the most dangerous time for women. Especially escorts is when they're leaving. When they reject a client.

I offered to give him all of his money back.That's how fed up I was and I did not want to touch him. Those were not skin tags.

He told me to keep it all, but I felt really bad. It's my job to provide a service and I couldn't provide that service, so eventually we agreed on half. He wanted me to take all of it, and I left half of the money on the table. I'm still out the time and the effort in the gas to get to the location i was still there for about half of the time, and unfortunately I have to take something to recuperate my costs.

I'm just blown away by the fact that people with s t d 's really think they can play like the rest of us. It's wild to me even that they would request something like bbj. I have had people with very clear issues, demand something like bbj.

How do you let a client down gently that you arenr comfortable with their health status?

I don't think they should never have sex but he should definitely disclose and allow for people to have informed consent before they even arrive, but he clearly has genital warts and was trying to convince me he didn't have genital warts. RealisticallyIt wouldn't be an issue for him to have sex with someone who also has genital warts.

My pussy is a prize.I do not abuse that thing. I don't put diseased cocks in there. My pussy is how I make money. Why would he think that I would risk getting all kinds of disgusting bumps on my pussy for a little bit of money?! Wtf

Someone help me make this make sense.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

When in doubt, throw it out. That is what I do when it comes to food and making investments. When it comes to food, why take a chance and make yourself sick. When it comes to investments any doubt I have on a stock I just move on to the next one. It only takes me a few minutes to sleuth one out.

Pic of genital warts. Was he white or dark skinned?

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

He had one big circular, one that was about that color and he had smaller pinkish ones. They were all different colors, and they were all different sizes. It was all isolated to his genital area and only the area that wouldn't be covered by a condom.

I have gone ahead and seen people who had skin tags in that area, but it was because they had skin tags all over the body. They just had a condition where they had a lot of skin tags. I wasn't bothered by that, but there was clearly something going on, because all of his "skin tags" we're only in his genital area.

I'm always a little suspicious of things in that area... But this was over the top. If that man had gone and seen a doctor about it and it was just skin tags.I'm sure the doctor would have offered to take them off because of the problems it would cause in his sexual life.

they were also way more clustered.It was a very congested area with these warts. Like I wouldn't have been able to push my finger down on his skin without touching several of them with just the tip of my finger. It was really gross, and as much as I feel bad for the guy, I have very clean sexual practices. I'm vaccinated against some types of genital warts, but not all of them.

It's just wild to me that that guy really expected me to show up and have sex with him, where if the tables were turned and a man had to show up to an incall and their prostitute's pussy was all clustered with genital warts... People wouldn't walk, they would run away (thats pretty much what i did. He made a comment about how I couldn't get out of there fast enough) and i'm sure someone would call the health department on that lady with a warty pussy... But guys are just going around, trying to have sex with women all the time with disgusting dicks it's unreal. I'm glad i'm out of there.And i'm glad I got home safe, and I guess all I can do now is laugh about it.

When in doubt, throw it out. That is what I do when it comes to food and making investments. When it comes to food, why take a chance and make yourself sick. When it comes to investments any doubt I have on a stock I just move on to the next one. It only takes me a few minutes to sleuth one out.

Pic of genital warts. Was he white or dark skinned?

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

He had one big circular, one that was about that color and he had smaller pinkish ones.

Could be wart or molluscum.
If it was blisters it could be HSV.
A large sore surrounded by a rash could be syphillis.
Wait 3 weeks and get tested and as some of these can spread on touch.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Also I love your comparison to food and I love sayings.

"When in doubt throw it out" is perfect. I will remember this forever.

i will remember to throw the whole man
away next time lol

When in doubt, throw it out. That is what I do when it comes to food and making investments. When it comes to food, why take a chance and make yourself sick. When it comes to investments any doubt I have on a stock I just move on to the next one. It only takes me a few minutes to sleuth one out.

Pic of genital warts. Was he white or dark skinned?

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Could be wart or molluscum.
If it was blisters it could be HSV.
A large sore surrounded by a rash could be syphillis.
Wait 3 weeks and get tested and as some of these can spread on touch.

He could have been telling the truth, and they were just skin tags, but I doubt it. I would hate to think of the poor soul that's gonna show up there after me and believe his b******* for a second. That girl is gonna end up with a face full of warts.

I washed my hands really well afterwards and sanitized everything, but i'm not really concerned that it's anything other than warts

I am concerned about the warts, but I didn't touch them so i'm not overly worried about it.
He's not the first person I've come into contact that has an S. T. D, unfortunately it happens often, probably more often than I even think, because you can't see it most of the time
That's why i'm so confused why people ask for bbj because if they knew how many people with s t ds still try to see prostitutes i don't think they would want to stick their cock in there. I only give c b j's and i'm f****** grossed out by some people and I won't even give them a c b j .

I'm just worried he's gonna call someone else in the area and try to convince them to do it. I'm out of there.I'm back home, but i'm sure he's still texting every hooker in the area

 

[Ceiling Cat]

We live in Canada, all citizens have universal medical care. After one, two or three refusals most people would get an appointment to have the warts lasered off.

He could have been telling the truth, and they were just skin tags, but I doubt it. I would hate to think of the poor soul that's gonna show up there after me and believe his b******* for a second. That girl is gonna end up with a face full of warts.

The treatment for genital warts are electrical burning, chemical treatment, laser or freezing. I am sure there may be a week or two before the skin heals, but it is a small price to pay for not being refused in the future.

 

[Smallguy]

I guess I'm leaps & bounds, when it comes to me visiting a lady.

 

[The Options Menu]

I'd say you did the right thing, and about all you can do. It's not worth the risk, though I get walking out the door is also risky. I have a skin condition. I disclose it every time in advance, and I make sure a booker ask a girl first. Springing some questionable shit on any provider should be an automatic "GTFO!", and if you have an agency and they don't disclose that, or they don't have your back, then you should consider moving on.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I'm independent but I hate when people do this. I'm all about informed consent and usually people are honest. They don't disclose anything before I get there, but they usually do when I arrive. I treat everyone like they could potentially have something so ultimately it doesn't matter what they say but this guy was clearly lying.

I've had to leave quite a few appointments and I'm wondering if they got this from a provider and that's why they think it's okay to hire someone while they have these issues.

It bothers me a bit this person would try to have sex with anyone when they have this going on. I wouldn't do that to another human being, I can't believe someone else would.

I'd say you did the right thing, and about all you can do. It's not worth the risk, though I get walking out the door is also risky. I have a skin condition. I disclose it every time in advance, and I make sure a booker ask a girl first. Springing some questionable shit on any provider should be an automatic "GTFO!", and if you have an agency and they don't disclose that, or they don't have your back, then you should consider moving on.

 

[The Options Menu]

I wouldn't do that to another human being, I can't believe someone else would.

Ditto.

On a purely cynical level, I don't know how a person that springs something like that on someone else expects to have a decent session. Even if a provider is desperate / scared enough to go ahead I can't imagine that they'd give good service.

As was mentioned, we're in a country where everyone has health insurance. That kind of issue is beyond cosmetic, and would have serious quality of life impacts even if benign. In the off chance a doctor refused treatment because it was 'cosmetic' I'd try a different doctor saying it was causing irritation during sex which should clearly qualify it for removal. In fact I'd probably say it was causing irritation in the first place. (Not to suggest people do anything too unethical, but that shit would have to go.)

 

[SchlongConery]

We live in Canada, all citizens have universal medical care. After one, two or three refusals most people would get an appointment to have the warts lasered off.



The treatment for genital warts are electrical burning, chemical treatment, laser or freezing. I am sure there may be a week or two before the skin heals, but it is a small price to pay for not being refused in the future.

I wonder if the underlying virus of genital warts would still persist even after being removed? I know that herpes can still possibly be transmitted through 'viral shedding' if someone has herpes but not with visible sores.

When I was in my teens I developed hard white bumps on my ballsack. Freaked me out and figured my life was over... might have to skin my balls or something! But Dr said they were harmless sebaceous, cholesterol pimples and not to worry. Yeah... easy for HIM to say!!! But sure enough... they went away about the same time my mild teenage acne period ended,

I just looked it up and see they are called for Fordyce spots.

Fordyce spots - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

This is what my bag looked like, just not as many!!!

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Lots of weird stuff is totally normal. I had a recurrent cysts down there. Just a hard lump that would eventually reach a head, but during that time I wasnt available for services. I knew what it was. My doctor told me what it was, told me it wasn't an issue but I didn't need people thinking I had some horrible issue.

I deal with people that think i should go live in a hut in the bush when im on my period and i shouldnt even be talking to them if im on my period. People that have no idea what a real pussy even smells like. Can you imagine the reaction if I saw people with a suspicious looking lump?

I have to check peoples hands too. They want to rub and touch all over and they have cuts and warts on their hand. Unbelievable.

I wonder if the underlying virus of genital warts would still persist even after being removed? I know that herpes can still possibly be transmitted through 'viral shedding' if someone has herpes but not with visible sores.

When I was in my teens I developed hard white bumps on my ballsack. Freaked me out and figured my life was over... might have to skin my balls or something! But Dr said they were harmless sebaceous, cholesterol pimples and not to worry. Yeah... easy for HIM to say!!! But sure enough... they went away about the same time my mild teenage acne period ended,

I just looked it up and see they are called for Fordyce spots.

Fordyce spots - Wikipedia

en.wikipedia.org

This is what my bag looked like, just not as many!!!

 

[Robert Mugabe]

How would you have handled this situation?

 

[Sweetface09]

Well you taught him a lesson....he might actually go get that issue looked after and he will probably disclose that ahead of time when booking.

 

[onomatopoeia]

This is like a 'Grace' thread, but real.

 

[michaelpv92]

Damn I really could've went my whole day without seeing these pics

When in doubt, throw it out. That is what I do when it comes to food and making investments. When it comes to food, why take a chance and make yourself sick. When it comes to investments any doubt I have on a stock I just move on to the next one. It only takes me a few minutes to sleuth one out.

Pic of genital warts. Was he white or dark skinned?

 

[richaceg]

You did everything right...offered to return the money and willing to lose to avoid risk...this hobby is not for the faint of heart...protect yourself at all times...

 

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[green man]

It’s kinda wild how some people just brush off their health issues instead of actually dealing with them, especially when it affects other people so personally. You absolutely did the right thing too, and it should even be routine to check for that I feel like