Is it an extra to get a date with you in your babysitter costume?
Jenesis BNG review
- Thread starter WiggleStickz
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We’ve had a whole thing about it, she hates the city I’m in and won’t come.
Can’t deny the truth in that LOL but I don’t tour anywhere anymore so ……. Lots of guys feeling your pain now.
Well I’ll survive…with the exception of an outstanding time you would entertain me with I can’t think of a reason I’d need to come to Whitby for.
No! But I don't charge 5$ an hour like in the 90's lol
Thank you i agree. I mean I predicted getting attacked like I said. I mean getting told stupid things like don't do a bng if you can't cum seems like you're just finding a way to attack me, I literally said this has only happened once in over atleast 50 times. Honestly I'm glad someone neutral came in and said this theirs no reason for me to even read any posts after this. I never said she's terrible I literally wrote an honest review, if you want to attack me because you can't handle it then whatever, but everything you said makes sense like saying I should've communicated more. But also stating it makes no sense to gang up on me, but I knew other sp and her regulars wouldSo, to truly play devil's advocate:
One thing that most people here need to wrap their head around is that not everybody is going to click with every provider, even the well-reviewed ones. That's okay! It happens. Why do we always have to find blame on one side or the other? Why do we always have to attack a reviewer for not having a good session with a well-reviewed SP? Build a bridge and get over yourselves. I bet you all that there are plenty more men who aren't part of this board who haven't clicked with our well-reviewed, star-studded providers that we dont know about. It is quite literally near-impossible for providers to have a 100% success rate.
OP & Jenesis didn't click. That's his experience. It's nothing necessarily against her. Having seen her myself, she does give a great bbj. It just didn't work for him and it happens. Neither the OP or Jenesis should feel the need to defend themselves. It is what it is. If they need to go back and forth about details of the experience, they can do it on the post or privately and sort it out between the two of them, they don't need the rest of us chiming in. They're both adults, they can figure it out.
Y'all wonder why we don't have more people posting reviews on here, smdh. Y'all can't be complaining about not having enough reviewers here and then turn around and attack every reviewer who doesn't feed into the echo chamber.
As for my best suggestion, @WiggleStickz, I also tend to not always finish from a bng even if the provider is amazing at it. What I tend to do in most cases is book a hh even if I only want a bbj+finish. The reason for this is to account for possibly not finishing (either because of nerves, lack of connection, etc.) in the normal bng time, or if I decide to switch to fs mid-bj (either because the BJ isn't working for me, or the bj is so great that I want to have sex with them too, etc.). I know you have your 3-day system you mentioned but maybe this is something to consider when seeing a provider you've never seen before for a bng. And I do agree with Jenesis that if something whoever you're with is doing things that aren't working for you, try to communicate it to them as respectfully as possible. Just my two-cents.
Also, @Jenesis, you're great at what you do. You know it, we know it.I still vividly think about my bng experience with you and plan to come back for more.
Actually tbh I bet others wanted to say this but didn't want to get involved lol
Oh you were talking about babysitting…I was thinking something else…and c’mon, you probably had a babysitter in the 90s.Babysitting?! Yes lol longer that I wanted to.
It was a pivotal decade. I had one and then became one.
Suggesting you book more time if you are concerned about finishing in a 15 minB&G (you actually said “I hate the pressure of BNG because I know you only have so much time”) is not an attack, it’s just friendly advice and common sense. If you have finished 50times with B&G sessions, and didn’t this time, then by all means, continue your strategy. It sounds like it was working out for you and you had a one off where things didn’t work. It goes without saying tho, that in a 15 min session, there is not a lot of time if things don’t proceed exactly as you hope, and there is no chance to recover if something throws you off your game, that’s the chance you take. If I were in this situation I might have asked if we could extend, and salvaged the session for an extra $50, the cost of a few trips to Timmys or Starbucks. Like I said in my previous comment, if I even get the hint I’m being rushed, or I’m running out of time, it will immediately be hard for be to finish. So I almost never book a 15 min session. But that’s just me. If someone reminded me that we were almost out of time, odds are it’s probably a courtesy to let you know not to hold back, but for me psychologically my brain (and my cock)feel the pressure and it will be counterproductive.
The thing about 15 min sessions is that you will find that SPs will almost always be very strict on time. So if you are at 15 min, but just 5 min more will get you over the top, you aren’t going to cum. Part of the reason for this is that many guys cheap out, book a 15 min B&G, and then hold off on finishing to try to weasel it into a half hour, at a 15 min rate. So understandably, with the base rate, they will have a hard stop at 15 min with little flexibility. It’s like the airlines, you book the cheapest rate, you don’t get any food, drink, luggage or carryon bag.
Exactly. I’m not going over time off the clock on a BNG. I mean I have with some chatting and I clearly clicked with them better but for the actual BBBJ portion, no. Your time is your time and it is not “rushing” to hold you to your time.The thing about 15 min sessions is that you will find that SPs will almost always be very strict on time. So if you are at 15 min, but just 5 min more will get you over the top, you aren’t going to cum. Part of the reason for this is that many guys cheap out, book a 15 min B&G, and then hold off on finishing to try to weasel it into a half hour, at a 15 min rate. So understandably, with the base rate, they will have a hard stop at 15 min with little flexibility. It’s like the airlines, you book the cheapest rate, you don’t get any food, drink, luggage or carryon bag.
He admits he should have communicated better, he admits (based on his accounting of the time) that he got his proper time, there is nothing I could have done.
He won’t even respond to my questions of what he expected me to do in this situation. He replied to others, but not me. He says he won’t read any other posts but says we are all ganging up on him when people are just giving advice. Advice he partly admits he should have done.
So I don’t know what I could have done in the session and I don’t know what more advice could have been given or how much better it could have been said so he didn’t feel ganged up on. I think he believes any posts that is not saying he is right, he feels is an attack and that just not the reality. Some people will just always feel hard done by no matter what the reality is or what they could have or should have done to ensure their own success.
He also admitted that he has difficulty to finish with a bj. So why booking 15 mins??? OP makes no sense
For me, a 30 min session is a rush session and consider them as BnG. My sweet spot is 45 mins as I tend to find 1 hour a little too long.
For me, a 30 min session is a rush session and consider them as BnG. My sweet spot is 45 mins as I tend to find 1 hour a little too long.
This is TERB. Social Media. Men with egos the size of bounders and brains the size of pebbles and grit smaller than sand.
bounders? But I get what you’re saying. We’re not all that though. Just my personal opinion 
I don’t think he meant “all” TERB guys. Just the guys with egos. Which, we deal with Lounge and Political Forums guys on the board as well, not just Durham and there are a lot of ego driven men in those forums. So we are kinda use to that type more then you guys.
I find 90% of Durham guys to be chill and relaxed. Totally different crowd to be honest. Which is funny having both types because it is all the same board.
Dont take offence please. He means well. LOL.
I’m sorry this has happened to you @WiggleStickz. But, like you said you knew you would get attacked for writing this. Just because an SP has great reviews doesn’t mean that every client will have a great experience. I just wish SP’s and their supporters wouldn’t get their shorts in a knot every time a not so stellar review comes out.
When I want to purchase a service or product I read reviews. I want to read the 5 and 1 star reviews equally before making a decision on the purchase. In this case the SP has plenty of 5 star reviews and this 1 star review. Now, I cum quickly so, the 1 star review doesn’t pertain to me and I would not have any issues booking this SP. This is the purpose of a review board, to see the good and the bad. Terb members will see this review and decide whether it is an issue for them. Some might avoid seeing this SP because of the review but, like myself it is not an issue. For the SP, if a potential client won’t see you for a bng because they take a long time to cum then you don’t need that client. No SP can please everyone and not everyone will feel the same way about an SP. Everything is so decisive now a days. Let’s all try to leave that out of our board.
Sadly a SP is some time like baby sitting our egos or expectations
I’m sorry but why should I get a “bad” review because of a clients issue? That is the point here. I didn’t do anything wrong. I did my job. He has the issue with cumming, he failed to communicate. All things he admits so why do I deserve the 1 star review as you put it. I didn’t actually give 1 star service.
And how is telling him to communicate and book longer now being called "attacks"? Members are giving advice on how to ensure better, more successful sessions. How is that “attacking”?
I have a right to defend myself when I'm not the one who was wrong. I did my job. By his own admission, I did my job and he failed in his as a client. Clients have some responsibilities to ensure their own successful sessions.
I don’t care about the clients who won’t see me because of this review. It is not about that. It is the principle behind why reviews should be written, which is on the SP, the service being good or bad. As advertised or not. I gave what I was suppose to give. And he was in and out the door in 20 mins exactly, so I gave more then the allotted time. Despite what he says. I will say he is right about one thing, this was an honest review thankfully because it shows his failing to cum had nothing to do with my services and everything to do with him.
So I'm sorry but please explain why I should be given a negative review for this at all and how he was attacked?
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Is this a subtle hint he should see a transgender next time????
IT WAS JOKE, just a joke, sorry, carry on!!!
Wiggle, I'm like you. If I know I'm close to the end of my one-hour appt and haven't popped, I won't pop because of the pressure. If I want to pop with the girl I will usually extend by half hour to complete the mission, if I don't care I just chalk it up to having fun playing with a young hot lady and save it for the spank bank. I definitely could not imagine doing 15 minutes.
Yup, and also you will be banging away, civvie or pro and then something is said or something pops into your head and you deflate. Now with a civvie you know you have time to get it back but with a pro and the clock is ticking, she's looking at you like, wtf, and it won't go up, you look at it, limp, noodle like and it won't budge. OH what a terrible feeling and the pressure man the pressure. LOL
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