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Jenesis BNG review

WiggleStickz

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I saw jenesis the other day because I only saw good reviews of her.

Once I got there she asked how I heard of her, was it leolist? I said yes because I hate telling SP's that I heard from them from here, I don't want it to seem like I should get better treatment.

Had me go on the bed, she started bbbj. I thought it was ok, and thats not bad because I've seen all the popular bng on here(except amber) and I don't think I've ever really said anyones was amazing.
After 8 to 10 minutes she said are you going to cum soon because your time is running out, you don't want to cum?? Once she said that I knew it wasn't going to happen because I hate the pressure of BNG because I know you only have so much time and

I find if you are close and she doesn't finish you it can be harder after that. I was close at one point and i did the right moans to let her know so she would try harder or go faster to complete the finish but she stayed the same pace. 2 minutes after that she gave up and said I guess he doesn't want to take off or something like that.
Now I know she has nothing but good reviews so I might get attacked here but this is my honest review of what happened. I know I can be hard to finish with a bj so I usually build up for 3 days without doing anything like I did this time as well and I've never been to a BNG and not been finished and I've done this for years so I was
pretty surprised and disappointed. Actually I did see a bad SP once that said her jaw got tired after 2 minutes so I guess this is the second time I didnt finish lol
 

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Thank you for your review. I will only say that you stayed 20 mins for a 15min BNG and I went to town the whole time. It was not 8-10 mins. The rest is true through. You couldn't cum and you admit you have a hard time cumming with a blow job. I'm sorry it didn't work but I can only do what I can do in the time frame you book for when there are already issues that make it difficult. I wish you would have communicated that with me before hand. Communication helps and I would have checked to ensure I knew what was feeling good. Some simple moaning is not enough to fully communicate your needs when they are what they are for you personally.

I hope no one attacks you either. This is why I am clarifying that you had an appointment and you didn’t cum. Again, your times are off but maybe it felt like only 10 mins when it was actually longer.

I wish you better luck next time with the next girl.
 
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Thank you for your review. I will only say that you stayed 20 mins for a 15min BNG and I went to town the whole time. It was not 8-10 mins. The rest is true through. You couldn't cum and you admit you have a hard time cumming with a blow job. I'm sorry it didn't work but I can only do what I can do in the time frame you book for when there are already issues that make it difficult. I wish you would have communicated that with me before hand. Communication helps and I would have checked to ensure I knew what was feeling good. Some simple moaning is not enough to fully communicate your needs when they are what they are for you personally.

I hope no one attacks you either. This is why I am clarifying that you had an appointment and you didn’t cum. Again, your times are off but maybe it felt like only 10 mins when it was actually longer.

I wish you better luck next time with the next girl.
Classy response to an honest and classy review. Having had the Jenesis bbbjcimsw I’m pretty surprised you didn’t cum because she’s really good at it. Like really good at it. I found it impossible not to cum just because how she really worships a cock, she delivers tons of tongue in all the right spots, and then to top it off a throat pie finish. It’s crazy hot to watch and for me nothing short of toe curling. Sounds like you need a more aggressive and faster PSE style experience. And for sure if you are a slow cummer you need to book half hours man. The pressure to cum is no bueno on both you and the provider.
 
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I saw jenesis the other day because I only saw good reviews of her.

Once I got there she asked how I heard of her, was it leolist? I said yes because I hate telling SP's that I heard from them from here, I don't want it to seem like I should get better treatment.

Had me go on the bed, she started bbbj. I thought it was ok, and thats not bad because I've seen all the popular bng on here(except amber) and I don't think I've ever really said anyones was amazing.
After 8 to 10 minutes she said are you going to cum soon because your time is running out, you don't want to cum?? Once she said that I knew it wasn't going to happen because I hate the pressure of BNG because I know you only have so much time and

I find if you are close and she doesn't finish you it can be harder after that. I was close at one point and i did the right moans to let her know so she would try harder or go faster to complete the finish but she stayed the same pace. 2 minutes after that she gave up and said I guess he doesn't want to take off or something like that.
Now I know she has nothing but good reviews so I might get attacked here but this is my honest review of what happened. I know I can be hard to finish with a bj so I usually build up for 3 days without doing anything like I did this time as well and I've never been to a BNG and not been finished and I've done this for years so I was
pretty surprised and disappointed. Actually I did see a bad SP once that said her jaw got tired after 2 minutes so I guess this is the second time I didnt finish lol
Man, sucks to get close and not finish. But if you know your body and that the time pressure of a short session can keep you from finishing (I’m the same, the only thing that will prevent me from cumming, is the pressure to cum) maybe a 15 min b&g is asking for trouble, and you might be better off to save your pennies for a 30 min session where you can relax a bit more and not stress about time.
 

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Playing Devil's advocate here, you go back and look at OP'S post history it's mostly complaining, this is par for the course
I agree, I do complain, how many people don't on here? Isnt that the point? My last review wasnt a complaint i also give good reviews. See how often I complain about well reviewed Sp then come back.

I think if I've been to 50 bng from mostly well reviewed and only couldn't cum once(aside from the woman that gave up after 2 minutes) so I'm not going to do the half hr. If it happens it happens

Massage or bng i always look at the time right before getting inside and once leaving. Since it was 16 minutes and it takes time to dress and undress I don't think my estimate is off.

This was my honest review and I knew I'd get attacked because I never write bad reviews for well reviewed sp but i don't regret it I'm here to contribute like everyone else
 
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I find if you are close and she doesn't finish you it can be harder after that. I was close at one point and i did the right moans to let her know so she would try harder or go faster to complete the finish but she stayed the same pace. 2 minutes after that she gave up and said I guess he doesn't want to take off or something like that.
Now I know she has nothing but good reviews so I might get attacked here but this is my honest review of what happened. I know I can be hard to finish with a bj so I usually build up for 3 days without doing anything like I did this time as well and I've never been to a BNG and not been finished and I've done this for years so I was
pretty surprised and disappointed. Actually I did see a bad SP once that said her jaw got tired after 2 minutes so I guess this is the second time I didnt finish lol
You were expecting than by a moan, she would suddenly pick up that she needs to go harder and quicker?

Everyone is different. If you have expectations but you don't say anything how could she know?

Thing is we do not own a penis, we do not know you and we never received a blowjob. Next time if you want the girl to.use more hand, less pressure or more ect., say it.

I don't think that make Jen a bad provider I think she just doesn't possess divination talent. 🧘‍♀️
 

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Massage or bng i always look at the time right before getting inside and once leaving. Since it was 16 minutes and it takes time to dress and undress I don't think my estimate is off.
I'm not going to go back and forth with you on arguing about 4 mins but even if we go by your own word, you paid for 15 mins and left at 16 mins. It is a 15 mins BNG. So you got your time. I don't understand the issue? Time is calculated the way you calculated it. From the moment you step in the door to the moment you step out of the door

I’m sorry but I don't get the issue here. Are you upset that I only gave you the time you paid for? Was I suppose to go over time off the clock because you hadn't cum yet? Please explain.
 

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Thank you for your review. I will only say that you stayed 20 mins for a 15min BNG and I went to town the whole time. It was not 8-10 mins. The rest is true through. You couldn't cum and you admit you have a hard time cumming with a blow job. I'm sorry it didn't work but I can only do what I can do in the time frame you book for when there are already issues that make it difficult. I wish you would have communicated that with me before hand. Communication helps and I would have checked to ensure I knew what was feeling good. Some simple moaning is not enough to fully communicate your needs when they are what they are for you personally.

I hope no one attacks you either. This is why I am clarifying that you had an appointment and you didn’t cum. Again, your times are off but maybe it felt like only 10 mins when it was actually longer.

I wish you better luck next time with the next girl.
I’m sure you are awesome and well worth seeing. I wish you were closer to me.
 

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You were expecting than by a moan, she would suddenly pick up that she needs to go harder and quicker?

Everyone is different. If you have expectations but you don't say anything how could she know?

Thing is we do not own a penis, we do not know you and we never received a blowjob. Next time if you want the girl to.use more hand, less pressure or more ect., say it.

I don't think that make Jen a bad provider I think she just doesn't possess divination talent. 🧘‍♀️
I literally just made a post about this topic in 411 section because I thought that not communicating was on him.
Also does anyone know how to remove sig pic from a post? Not trying to advertise here just don't know how to get rid of it!
 

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@Josephine & @ashlee. Thank you both for commenting because that is how I feel. When you moan, I’m going to think you are enjoying what I am doing and I am going to keep doing exactly that. If you need it harder or faster, you either have to say something or move your hips or hands or something to indicate that you want something different.

And Ashlee you can't remove the signature in individual posts anymore. Don't worry about it sweetie. I appreciate what you are trying to do.
 

Josephine

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I literally just made a post about this topic in 411 section because I thought that not communicating was on him.
Also does anyone know how to remove sig pic from a post? Not trying to advertise here just don't know how to get rid of it!
Right?! Poor Jen only mistake was to keep the same pace 🤕
 

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So, to truly play devil's advocate:

One thing that most people here need to wrap their head around is that not everybody is going to click with every provider, even the well-reviewed ones. That's okay! It happens. Why do we always have to find blame on one side or the other? Why do we always have to attack a reviewer for not having a good session with a well-reviewed SP? Build a bridge and get over yourselves. I bet you all that there are plenty more men who aren't part of this board who haven't clicked with our well-reviewed, star-studded providers that we dont know about. It is quite literally near-impossible for providers to have a 100% success rate.

OP & Jenesis didn't click. That's his experience. It's nothing necessarily against her. Having seen her myself, she does give a great bbj. It just didn't work for him and it happens. Neither the OP or Jenesis should feel the need to defend themselves. It is what it is. If they need to go back and forth about details of the experience, they can do it on the post or privately and sort it out between the two of them, they don't need the rest of us chiming in. They're both adults, they can figure it out.

Y'all wonder why we don't have more people posting reviews on here, smdh. Y'all can't be complaining about not having enough reviewers here and then turn around and attack every reviewer who doesn't feed into the echo chamber.

As for my best suggestion, @WiggleStickz, I also tend to not always finish from a bng even if the provider is amazing at it. What I tend to do in most cases is book a hh even if I only want a bbj+finish. The reason for this is to account for possibly not finishing (either because of nerves, lack of connection, etc.) in the normal bng time, or if I decide to switch to fs mid-bj (either because the BJ isn't working for me, or the bj is so great that I want to have sex with them too, etc.). I know you have your 3-day system you mentioned but maybe this is something to consider when seeing a provider you've never seen before for a bng. And I do agree with Jenesis that if something whoever you're with is doing things that aren't working for you, try to communicate it to them as respectfully as possible. Just my two-cents.

Also, @Jenesis, you're great at what you do. You know it, we know it. 😘❤ I still vividly think about my bng experience with you and plan to come back for more.
 
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So, to truly play devil's advocate:

One thing that most people here need to wrap their head around is that not everybody is going to click with every provider, even the well-reviewed ones. That's okay! It happens. Why do we always have to find blame on one side or the other? Why do we always have to attack a reviewer for not having a good session with a well-reviewed SP? Build a bridge and get over yourselves. I bet you all that there are plenty more men who aren't part of this board who haven't clicked with our well-reviewed, star-studded providers that we dont know about. It is quite literally near-impossible for providers to have a 100% success rate.

OP & Jenesis didn't click. That's his experience. It's nothing necessarily against her. Having seen her myself, she does give a great bbj. It just didn't work for him and it happens. Neither the OP or Jenesis should feel the need to defend themselves. It is what it is. If they need to go back and forth about details of the experience, they can do it on the post or privately and sort it out between the two of them, they don't need the rest of us chiming in. They're both adults, they can figure it out.

Y'all wonder why we don't have more people posting reviews on here, smdh. Y'all can't be complaining about not having enough reviewers here and then turn around and attack every reviewer who doesn't feed into the echo chamber.

As for my best suggestion, @WiggleStickz, I also tend to not always finish from a bng even if the provider is amazing at it. What I tend to do in most cases is book a hh even if I only want a bbj+finish. The reason for this is to account for possibly not finishing (either because of nerves, lack of connection, etc.) in the normal bng time, or if I decide to switch to fs mid-bj (either because the BJ isn't working for me, or the bj is so great that I want to have sex with them too, etc.). I know you have your 3-day system you mentioned but maybe this is something to consider when seeing a provider you've never seen before for a bng. And I do agree with Jenesis that if something whoever you're with is doing things that aren't working for you, try to communicate it to them as respectfully as possible. Just my two-cents.

Also, @Jenesis, you're great at what you do. You know it, we know it. 😘❤ I still vividly think about my bng experience with you and plan to come back for more.
Do we have to make you cum and babysit your ego too? OP has to tough up. There are hundreds of bad reviews written daily. Very few are challenged. They generally are challenged when the was no ground to write a bad reviews. This is one of them.
 

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So, to truly play devil's advocate:

One thing that most people here need to wrap their head around is that not everybody is going to click with every provider, even the well-reviewed ones. That's okay! It happens. Why do we always have to find blame on one side or the other? Why do we always have to attack a reviewer for not having a good session with a well-reviewed SP? Build a bridge and get over yourselves. I bet you all that there are plenty more men who aren't part of this board who haven't clicked with our well-reviewed, star-studded providers that we dont know about. It is quite literally near-impossible for providers to have a 100% success rate.

OP & Jenesis didn't click. That's his experience. It's nothing necessarily against her. Having seen her myself, she does give a great bbj. It just didn't work for him and it happens. Neither the OP or Jenesis should feel the need to defend themselves. It is what it is. If they need to go back and forth about details of the experience, they can do it on the post or privately and sort it out between the two of them, they don't need the rest of us chiming in. They're both adults, they can figure it out.

Y'all wonder why we don't have more people posting reviews on here, smdh. Y'all can't be complaining about not having enough reviewers here and then turn around and attack every reviewer who doesn't feed into the echo chamber.

As for my best suggestion, @WiggleStickz, I also tend to not always finish from a bng even if the provider is amazing at it. What I tend to do in most cases is book a hh even if I only want a bbj+finish. The reason for this is to account for possibly not finishing (either because of nerves, lack of connection, etc.) in the normal bng time, or if I decide to switch to fs mid-bj (either because the BJ isn't working for me, or the bj is so great that I want to have sex with them too, etc.). I know you have your 3-day system you mentioned but maybe this is something to consider when seeing a provider you've never seen before for a bng. And I do agree with Jenesis that if something whoever you're with is doing things that aren't working for you, try to communicate it to them as respectfully as possible. Just my two-cents.

Also, @Jenesis, you're great at what you do. You know it, we know it. 😘❤ I still vividly think about my bng experience with you and plan to come back for more.
Oh I agree we didn’t click. 100%. And that is fine. It happens. That is all good.

And I’m not worried about this review. I gave the best I could and it didn’t happen for him.

My issue is the blaming me for giving him the time he paid for, by his own admission and acting like I rushed him. And then complaining I didn’t get the finish in when there was no communication that he wanted it differently then what I was doing. Again, if you moan - I'm going to keep the same pace because moaning means you like it. LOL.

So I’m not taking this as a “fault” against me as I don’t see that I did anything wrong. I did what I was paid for. This is an attempt at a negative review out of frustration but is actually proving the opposite. So I feel no fault here. I felt bad after the session and was even going to post a general discussion in the lounge about clients not cumming in sessions but got busy and just didn’t bother. After reading about his issues with cumming from a BJ, the way he feels pressure to cum in the timeline he booked for and the lack of communication on his part, I don't feel bad anymore.

I also don’t think he is being “attacked”. I think mostly everyone is giving him suggestions for ensuring this doesn’t happen again with other providers. Communicating more and maybe booking longer appointments if he has the troubles he admits to having. That seems to be the overall theme. One of helping, not attacking.
 

RebelinBed

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Do we have to make you cum and babysit your ego too? OP has to tough up. There are hundreds of bad reviews written daily. Very few are challenged. They generally are challenged when the was no ground to write a bad reviews. This is one of them.
I didn't read this as a bad review of @Jenesis. I simply read it as they didn't click. Maybe his perception of time was off but who am I to comment on that? I wasn't there. Only the two of them were, which is why I edited my post and said that they can sort it out between themselves. The only person who should be challenging him on what he said is Jenesis.

I also agree with you, Jenesis, and Ashlee that he should have communicated to her better about what he needed to finish and I said as much in my reply.l to him.

Most of the unchallenged reviews on here aren't challenged by the provider because they don't have an account on herez which I think more providers should. Which is why when I post reviews, I always send the link of my review, good, bad, or average, to the provider I saw even if they don't have an account here. So they have the choice to make one and reply if they want.

Jenesis didn't do anything wrong. And all OP did wrong was not communicate and maybe have a poor perception of time.

However, if you look at what I said in my reply to him, I provided him with constructive criticism about communicating and a suggestion on how to prevent this experience from happening again. This approach is productive and positive for both parties involved in the event that they agree to see each other again in the future. I didn't attack him or his choices, nor did I attack Jenesis in any way. Not everything has to be an argument.

Edit: To add onto that, the former half of my initial reply was saying to everyone (mostly our fellow reviewers) that we should not be attacking each other on here when everyone complains about not having enough reviewers.
 
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Everybody is different. I compare this to DATY. Every woman is different and I always have the thought that I may not be performing to her liking. A moan is not a great way to communicate. Just stop me, smile and tell me what you like. I’ll make the adjustment because it’s just as satisfying to please as it is to be pleased. It works both ways. I also don’t understand why a person that openly admits having an issue climaxing would go for a “bng”. I could pop out two in 15 minutes!😊👍
 
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