While I have jot had an SB, my understanding is the the difference is in the relationship. With SPs you pay per meet up but SBs you make a financial arrangement that works for you both and you coordinate your "dates" as schedules fit. At least that is how I understand it
2025 Bucket List
- Thread starter NadiaLovechanko
- Start date
Thanks. My SB whom I have been seeing for the last 7 years, is non-committal. So, while working on her, I'd like to see if any potential taker out there.
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That is no short amount of time. Never dawned on me that the SB dynamic could go on so long. Fascinating
I think we get along well with each other, and after so many years, we are comfortable and familiar with each other's personality and wants.
Plus a SB i would think would be more costly over time as the dates tend to be longer. But never done it. Especially now being retired, I prefer ladies over 30yrs old now. MILFs or GILFs
All my SBs have been 30+ Majority late thirties, give or take a couple of years. I'm early 50s so they're still young to me and I get a mature woman that likes to fuck and I don't have to deal with the immaturity of a 20 year old (or feel like I'm fucking someones child..ick).
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Good to know
Yes, MILFs & GILFs can be extremely horny if you find their sweet spots & take the time to warm up her engine
The SB scene was FANTASTIC for the last decade up until 2022. Only Fans became popular during COVID and has killed that scene/dynamic. Now the majority on the sugar sites are filled with older, average to less than average women. It’s horrible selection now.
Maturity has nothing to do with your age ! Maybe the 20 s doesn’t want you so you stick with the Milfs . There are so many immature men in their 40s, 50s,60s . They lack manners, class , have trashy behaviors etc . Age is a number . There so many old men who are assholes . It doesn’t mean I should put all the old men in the same category. Same like young girls.
There are some older girls who are struggling to make ends meet and have their shit together. No life goals, etc .
So I think
we must learn to have intelligent , critical thinking about some subjects..Jordan LaCherie is on my 2025 Buckle List
Having often travelled for work, many times I thought wouldn’t it be great, after touching down at the Ottawa airport, to postpone my arrival at home and spend an evening with Jordan L as her in-call is within the airport vicinity.
A steamy session with her would be the icing on the cake after a long week.
Having often travelled for work, many times I thought wouldn’t it be great, after touching down at the Ottawa airport, to postpone my arrival at home and spend an evening with Jordan L as her in-call is within the airport vicinity.
A steamy session with her would be the icing on the cake after a long week.
Same as me...man that milf is soo hot
I started 2025 bucket list off with @Pamela-SP. Simply Wow!I figured it could be fun to start a thread about bucket list sessions or people you want to connect with
Similar to the auction that maybe if a lady is intersted in your dream session she could DM?
Also so providers can throw some hints at their dream sessions and hopefully make them happen
Now I hope to see Alex G, Fanny, RubyLust, Nala Moore
I get so many texts and pm asking if I would be interested to be a SB , but it’s all bs when it’s time to actually financially commit to something.
I feel it’s really just to have endless conversations for free so I don’t even entertain those requests anymore.
I think the best way to approach a provider and see if she’s interested, would be to book a session with her and talk about it during your session.
You need to know what are your expectations and what is the budget attached to those expectations. It needs to be clear and to be agreed upon, before the SB relationship starts ..
Just my two cents
Kisses
Ali
A session with Alison_xox now that she is seeing new clients
Hi all! Very new in this world, and have been a reader for a while. Love this idea, as well as the reverse auction which I missed out on. First time posting. I have a few Ottawa dreams I'd love meet:
- Lucie Laflamme
- Sadie May
- Jackie Gilcrest
- and others
I get so many texts and pm asking if I would be interested to be a SB , but it’s all bs when it’s time to actually financially commit to something.
I feel it’s really just to have endless conversations for free so I don’t even entertain those requests anymore.
I think the best way to approach a provider and see if she’s interested, would be to book a session with her and talk about it during your session.
You need to know what are your expectations and what is the budget attached to those expectations. It needs to be clear and to be agreed upon, before the SB relationship starts ..
Just my two cents
Kisses
Ali
Thanks for sharing the perspective Alison. I never thought that I would ask this of a provider as it feels almost like negotiating rates or their boundaries and this is something that I don't do. It is too risky to ruin a good relationship. Right now I see a lady rather regularly and would love that relationship to evolve into a SB/SD thing but if I brought it up and they were not interested, or even worse saw it as an attempt to negotiate, it could ruin a situation that is quite good. Not worth the risk IMO. Now if she were to see that we have a good connection and she thought a SB/SD would be mutually beneficial, then that would certainly not affect the relationship as nothing would change. Very unlikely to happen i would imagine. This is why I tried SB and Seeking but unfortunately they seem too much about getting you to buy more and more credits by having bots consume the site. There are likely some genuine SB gems out there but very difficult to find. I am likely looking in the wrong places given the experiences that others have shared.
I get what you are saying. It’s a sensitive topic.
I would suggest that what you are offering to her is more advantageous financially than what you have at the moment.
Let’s say you see her 1h/week for 300$ (all fictive numbers)
If you offer one date/week where you both can spend more time together , but she gets more $ and get spoiled , it could be a great deal for the both of you.
But if you see her 1/week and offer less $$ for more time , then it would be negotiating her donation in your favour. That would be less welcomed …
In my opinion, SB is like a promotion.
It means , great work , let’s jump to the next level , make you more $$ and spoil you rotten.
It’s rarely not welcomed with open arms.
Kisses
Ali
