That sucks and doesn’t sound like any duo I’ve ever had!!
Not blaming you but too many guys pick with the wrong head if you know what I mean. It’s important to do investigations for things like professionalism, reliability, honesty & services. Sometimes you guys zone in on pics alone or that plus lower-prices but all the real heat is generated by chemistry which is based more on personality, completely independent of looks and generally costs more to find. Up your standards for connection and increase your budget a bit and I bet you’ll have the interactive duo of your dreams.