I think the bigger problem than Jews being conflicted is, and has always been, that Jews are a convenient location for racists from all directions to vent their hate. It seems, unfortunately that the Jews need to be reminded of this for them to remain vigilant and be aware of the existential threat to their survival. They must always be vocal when anti-Semitic rhetoric and behaviour are on display and not become complacent. Two words sum up that sentiment. "Never Forget."
The Jews are lucky that Israel follows this sentiment and their strong response to any threatening groups or countries protects Jews around the world, whether they realize it or not.