Its all about good communication and respect.
i am attending an event this coming sunday, but its on the south shore of Montreal. The girl asked for fit and well equipped dude. I wrote to the organizer i would like to attend but warned him i am im my 50's and only like 6.5 inches (on a good day) but i am not fat.... he accepted me. The thing is i know the girl.she's a knockout. But i left to the organizer to accept me or not.