No black gents turn off

[Biggsqueeze]

lmaooooooooo eveeytime I see this topic come up the comment section its the exact same.
Starts with someone making their opinion about how it annoys/bothers them and someone else coming in and telling them to suck it up and how their feelings about the topic bother them.

“It’s their choice” or “they want to avoid the worst kind of people” vs “it disgusts me” or “auto turn off”

2 sides of the same triggered coin. Lmaooooo

 

[maxers]

lmaooooooooo eveeytime I see this topic come up the comment section its the exact same.
Starts with someone making their opinion about how it annoys/bothers them and someone else coming in and telling them to suck it up and how their feelings about the topic bother them.

“It’s their choice” or “they want to avoid the worst kind of people” vs “it disgusts me” or “auto turn off”

2 sides of the same triggered coin. Lmaooooo

i know it's nuts im a black gent and idgaf about no black gents like... there are other women who say all ethnicities welcome. there have been times where i've seen a girl with no blacks in ad and it was fantastic and ive seen girls with everyone welcome and it was horrible. don't focus on it imo

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

Yes it is off putting.
I avoid as well.

 

[Cromwell69427]

Yes it is off putting.
I avoid as well.

Like any SP gives a damn what puts you off. lol the entire notion has narcissistic traits imo.

 

[Shaquille Oatmeal]

Like any SP gives a damn what puts you off. lol the entire notion has narcissistic traits imo.

Yes.
Just like I don't give a damn about what your opinion is.

 

[rex_baner]

You don't know why they say it, but try to keep an open mind its not always due to hate.
Some say it because they are red flags where they are known to scam you or rip you off. Yes this is a reality. Others actually have personal reasons that may be due to negative experiences. I don't think that is the case for the majority, but it holds weight for many. Some its regional. I recall 1 lady who says it when she travels to Hamilton, but not when shes hosting in Toronto. Some cases its the pimp because they say no black guys. Just keep an open mind that not all are for ill reasons.

 

[canada-man]

put them on your block and ignore lists. i have been doing that since august 2023

 

[William St]

I find it such a turn off when a ad says no black gents. I’m not black or anything or have anything against black people as my own daughter is mixed. But I just find it’s such a turn off when I see no black gents and I just skip over that person and don’t consider seeing them at all. Most of my bad experiences have been with woman whose ad says no black gents, any problem or scam that’s been pulled on me has been from those ads. Is anyone else like this as well?

This subject's been done to death in other thread(s) and it always gets contentious for absolutely no good reason. Let's move on!

 

[TigerFlex5]

put them on your block and ignore lists. i have been doing that since august 2023

This ... I do that all the time and move on to the next.
It makes my life easier.

 

[Jeremia]

I have a question here, I see as many black SP with the same "No black" so, why ?

 

[DesRicardo]

I have a question here, I see as many black SP with the same "No black" so, why ?

Many are Pimped and instructed to put that in.

Some are scam artist and that don't want to come across the wrong black guy.

 

[Slobus]

I have a question here, I see as many black SP with the same "No black" so, why ?

Many are Pimped and instructed to put that in.

Some are scam artist and that don't want to come across the wrong black guy.

And some providers have a preference for particular partners; just like clients do.

Move along now, nothing to see here.

 

[TigerFlex5]

I have a question here, I see as many black SP with the same "No black" so, why ?

A lot don't want to run into someone they know, someone close to their family...
Just like some of us don't see a lot of black SPs, to not run into the little sister of our buddies, or something like that!

It's funny to read so much comments assuming it's because themselves don't like black clients.

 

[Loxfox]

Unless you’re in a service providers shoes you have no idea what it can be like for them. They have their reasons, many have told me what they are and I understand completely. Each person has the right to choose who they sleep with. I am not radish at all, and I’m not attracted to black chicks, so? It’s my choice. I don’t go see BBW as I am not attracted, again, my choice. Just because they provide this service doesn’t mean they owe any given race anything. Don’t quite understand how someone else’s personal preference would turn you off, it’s really none of your business. 90% of the women I see have “no black gents” I’ve never been ripped off by any of them. Your statement is nonsense. No different than saying “all black people steal” not all women who don’t want to have sex with a black dude are scammers. Give it a rest.

I imagine the same way you write this diatribe defending the right to say no blacks is the same way folks who see that can be turned off and say, ok not you.

After all, at the end of the day, no one can force anyone to be intimate with anyone.

 

[speakercontrols]

put them on your block and ignore lists. i have been doing that since august 2023

Why since August 2023?

 

[canada-man]

Why since August 2023?

they are popping up constantly

 

[speakercontrols]

they are popping up constantly

Ah, I thought something significant happened then. It was just a decision point.

 

[Alison_xox]

Hey everyone,
Just a little note here.
I have worked with some providers mentioning “no black gents” in their ads and since I find it odd , I asked why….
Well , the answer was quite simple and far away from racist.
They explained how black people have a sens of community and often meet eachother and it’s a very tight community so they often know eachother.
They write no black gents because they’re afraid to meet someone their family knows. It would be awkward to pic-nic with your client’s family on Sunday.
I thing sometimes , looking beyond the words and not jumping to a judgement or a conclusion could be beneficial. I thought it was racist , therefore I asked and they made me understand the reason behind the words.

I hope it brings some light to the concerns.

Kisses
Ali

 

[DonJ]

Hey everyone,
Just a little note here.
I have worked with some providers mentioning “no black gents” in their ads and since I find it odd , I asked why….
Well , the answer was quite simple and far away from racist.
They explained how black people have a sens of community and often meet eachother and it’s a very tight community so they often know eachother.
They write no black gents because they’re afraid to meet someone their family knows. It would be awkward to pic-nic with your client’s family on Sunday.
I thing sometimes , looking beyond the words and not jumping to a judgement or a conclusion could be beneficial. I thought it was racist , therefore I asked and they made me understand the reason behind the words.

I hope it brings some light to the concerns.

Kisses
Ali

Makes sense

 

[robertthegreat]

To me there is a difference between not wanting to be sexual with a certain race versus flat out hating someone within a certain race.

I'm not particularly attracted to Indian women in a sexual way, however I have no issue with them generally speaking.