Whats percentage of women do you guys think want to be dominant in bed? I see guys on here seek dominant sp’s and want rim jobs, etc. i think its 1% and maybe 10% will assume the role in exchange for money. From what i’ve been told from money weakness disgusts them. Its resllt the polar opposite of what i read on this board
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Are you asking about sp's wanting to be dominant?
Or women in general?
One problem with this question is that what people mean by "dominant" varies a LOT. It covers a lot of ground, and not everyone means the same thing by it.
Or women in general?
One problem with this question is that what people mean by "dominant" varies a LOT. It covers a lot of ground, and not everyone means the same thing by it.
I met a super hot 20 year old SB last week. She wore fuck me heels and the tightest mini-dress that barely covered her amazing ass. She's way out of my league, but incredibly she wants me to totally dominate her as if she's the unworthy one. She wants to be slapped around, degraded, humiliated and restrained while I use all of her holes. She's in university, very intelligent and refined but this is what she wants. There is no rational explanation for this dynamic but who am I to argue?
We did an overnighter for $400 on our 1st date. What does a premium agency like Cupids or others charge per hour? I'm seeing her again on Wednesday.
We did an overnighter for $400 on our 1st date. What does a premium agency like Cupids or others charge per hour? I'm seeing her again on Wednesday.
It’s hard to put an exact percentage on how many women prefer to be dominant in bed because sexual preferences vary greatly from person to person. Some women enjoy being dominant, while others prefer a more submissive role, or they might enjoy switching between the two. Surveys show that there is a wide spectrum of desires, and some women are open to experimenting based on their partner's preferences, which could explain why you see some dominant service providers (SPs) catering to these requests. It’s important to note that everyone’s experiences and desires are unique, and it's not always tied to disgust or attraction to "weakness." For many, exploring power dynamics in a consensual and safe environment is part of a healthy sexual expression.
I would say that very few women prefer to be dominant-it goes against their biology.
However more sps do it for the money.
However more sps do it for the money.
I don't think it's fair to say that being dominant goes against women's biology. Sexual preferences, including dominance and submission, are shaped by a combination of factors—biology, psychology, personal experiences, and societal influences. Many women enjoy being dominant, submissive, or even switching roles, and it’s more about individual personality and desires than strictly biological imperatives.
You're right that some SPs might adopt dominant roles for financial reasons, but others may genuinely enjoy this dynamic. It’s important to recognize that human sexuality is incredibly diverse, and what works for one person might not for another. We all have unique preferences that can’t always be reduced to simple categories like biology or money.
Depends on what you mean by dominant. I have been with a woman that wanted to play rough and I enjoyed that (mild) dominance for a while but then she wanted me to slap and punch her. It felt so fucked up there was no way I was doing that and talk about a complete mood killer.
There’s a big difference between playful dominance and something that crosses personal boundaries or feels uncomfortable. Everyone has different limits, and it's crucial that both partners feel safe and respected in any dynamic. Communication is key, and it’s completely okay to stop if things aren’t aligning with what you're comfortable with. It's all about finding what works for both parties without crossing those boundaries.
