When couples don't match in attractiveness?

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Today I saw a total smoke show who might have been mid 30s with a very average looking guy. They were a family as there were 2 kids in tow. She was eyeing me up and down. It got me thinking how often couples match in terms of appearance. Most people tend to find their equal in terms of appearance, am I wrong? This lady had the whole package, pretty, tight jeans with a baggy sweater that you could still tell her tits were huge. Just an observation on my day. Anyone have acquaintances in this situation.

Disclaimer....the eyeing up part was a matter of interpretation that nobody can contest.
 

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Today I saw a total smoke show who might have been mid 30s with a very average looking guy. They were a family as there were 2 kids in tow. She was eyeing me up and down. It got me thinking how often couples match in terms of appearance. Most people tend to find their equal in terms of appearance, am I wrong? This lady had the whole package, pretty, tight jeans with a baggy sweater that you could still tell her tits were huge. Just an observation on my day. Anyone have acquaintances in this situation.

Disclaimer....the eyeing up part was a matter of interpretation that nobody can contest.
Women are not as visual as men. She is looking at the total package.
 
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Today I saw a total smoke show who might have been mid 30s with a very average looking guy. They were a family as there were 2 kids in tow. She was eyeing me up and down. It got me thinking how often couples match in terms of appearance. Most people tend to find their equal in terms of appearance, am I wrong? This lady had the whole package, pretty, tight jeans with a baggy sweater that you could still tell her tits were huge. Just an observation on my day. Anyone have acquaintances in this situation.

Disclaimer....the eyeing up part was a matter of interpretation that nobody can contest.
Maybe he is wealthy, or a drug dealer, or a cock so big he has to call it Mr Cock in public, or a cock so big Stephen Hawkins tried to come up with a theory for it but his math skills were not up to snuff. Maybe his dick was so big there was a military coup on it and it's now known as the peoples democratic republic of <his> dick. Or maybe she just has a fetish for what he is offering.

Even if I were 11 out of 10 with looks and charm, was a literal king, had a massive fan base and one of the richest dudes in the world, I would still consider myself lucky to end up with a socially awkward adorkable penguin.



 

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Women are not as visual as men. She is looking at the total package.
From the tip to the base ;) I know I know, thank you but I prefer it my way.
 

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I'm talking how most couples are in the same ballpark in the looks department generally. This couple was unusual from a pure visual perspective.

I was trying not to look too much but that is the spell beautiful women can have.
 

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He makes a ton of $$$.
 

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Many years ago my cousin who was very attractive married a guy who was very average looking. She met him when her first husband put her in the hospital. The second guy looked after my cousin and her two kids(from the first guy). They married, and he adopted her two kids. They had a very nice marriage for about 35 years until she passed away. He then passed away about a year or two later.
 

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Maybe he is wealthy, or a drug dealer, or a cock so big he has to call it Mr Cock in public, or a cock so big Stephen Hawkins tried to come up with a theory for it but his math skills were not up to snuff. Maybe his dick was so big there was a military coup on it and it's now known as the peoples democratic republic of <his> dick. Or maybe she just has a fetish for what he is offering.

Even if I were 11 out of 10 with looks and charm, was a literal king, had a massive fan base and one of the richest dudes in the world, I would still consider myself lucky to end up with a socially awkward adorkable penguin.



Sadly realized Cock size is a decider. I know an sp who won't let guys fuck her pussy. Until a couple of guys reviewed that she did. Because they were huge. I know her. It's true. As Jean Seberg said. Referring to women. "soft cock, hard heart." Hard cock. Soft heart"
I say, sadly, because I am not on her list. Add that to the ever growing list of things to hate about growing old. And having a small cock.
I knew a girlfriend of a friend of mine who was gleefully telling him and me that her friend had a friend who was seeing a guy with a massive cock. The message was, if women tells you cock size doesn't matter, they are lying.
Add to that. I saw a really hot Asian woman with an Asian husband who had some awful facial deformation. His lower jaw and lower lip were afflicted with some horrendous deformation. His lower lip looked like a purple tire. She seemed fine with that.
 
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Sadly realized Cock size is a decider. I know an sp who won't let guys fuck her pussy. Until a couple of guys reviewed that she did. Because they were huge. I know her. It's true. As Jean Seberg said. Referring to women. "soft cock, hard heart." Hard cock. Soft heart"
I say, sadly, because I am not on her list. Add that to the ever growing list of things to hate about growing old. And having a small cock.
I knew a girlfriend of a friend of mine who was gleefully telling him and me that her friend had a friend who was seeing a guy with a massive cock. The message was, if women tells you cock size doesn't matter, they are lying.
Add to that. I saw a really hot Asian woman with an Asian husband who had some awful facial deformation. His lower jaw and lower lip were afflicted with some horrendous deformation. His lower lip looked like a purple tire. She seemed fine with that.
Or you could have an above average dick and go from PIED to full on ED. That's fun, not.

I knew a girl, rather unattractive actually who would just not shut up about big dick this, big dick that. So then I would start saying shit like "My Dungeons and Dragons group needs a place to play, can we set up a table and some chairs in your vagina". Another girl in a work context, the trainer said something about size not mattering [in a work context] and she was like, yes it is. She was revolting looking, I was so tempted to say something but then you get body shamed as a small dick guy. I wish I knew of the Jimmy Carr bit. " Jeez you don't have to yell, oh wait, that's just the echo from your cavernous vagina, sorry"
As for the first girl, she was talking about banging some dude who would tear her up bleeding each time, and I'm like, why the fuck did you go back? But she was a vapid twat monkey. She once claimed she never had a guy with a small dick [but then made fun of someone decades earlier for having a small dick] and when I asked what to her was a big dick, she said 5, 6 maybe 7 inches. Did I mention she was vapid? She also said she was waiting for god to get her a hot guy with an 8 inch dick... again very unattractive, body like a potato sack, the stuff she trowled onto her face didn't cover her complexion issues and she was seriously getting up there in years] I tried to explain that in a world of childhood cancer and abuse, famine etc it is a bit much to expect an all powerful creator of the universe to get her any guy, let alone a hot guy with an 8 inch dick. She gave me that same sort of look that you would get from a cat or dog after trying to explain calculus to it.
 
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As others have said, women (in general, there are of course exceptions) value physical attractiveness much less than men. Being kind, funny, generous and thoughtful are far more important. Being able to talk to them without making them feel like “prey” is also hugely important.
I’m an “ok” looking guy I think (averagish I’d guess) but over my life have been able to attract some women who would be considered beautiful, and some might say “out of my league” but this has always been a result of getting to know me a bit through social situations, work, conversations. Turns out, as I get older and more experienced, those non physical qualities in women are also quite important and can outweigh physical attractiveness.
 
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As others have said, women (in general, there are of course exceptions) value physical attractiveness much less than men. Being kind, funny, generous and thoughtful are far more important. Being able to talk to them without making them feel like “prey” is also hugely important.
I’m an “ok” looking guy I think (averagish I’d guess) but over my life have been able to attract some women who would be considered beautiful, and some might say “out of my league” but this has always been a result of getting to know me a bit through social situations, work, conversations. Turns out, as I get older and more experienced, those non physical qualities in women are also quite important and can outweigh physical attractiveness.
This is it. Beautiful or handsome is great but nothing if the person is an asshole or shallow or dumb as shit. Add in some arrogance, dishonesty, egotistical. They start to look ugly really fast.
 

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Many years ago my cousin who was very attractive married a guy who was very average looking. She met him when her first husband put her in the hospital. The second guy looked after my cousin and her two kids(from the first guy). They married, and he adopted her two kids. They had a very nice marriage for about 35 years until she passed away. He then passed away about a year or two later.
That's a real man.
 
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@DesRicardo - Who or which post #?

@massman - sounds they are seeking a Simp, which is fine if no major deciding factor is involved. So basically FWB level, beyond that I can't see the relationship lasting.

“Simp”??

No offence, but based on what you have written, it looks like you have no idea what you are talking about.
 
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