Lousy Time with a sub par Provider- is it time for me to retire?

[Tinmachine]

I am feeling thr same as OP; however I saw some well reviewed ladies in the absence of my Regs and my last reg session was subpar.

What's the expression? "It is not you. It's me."

It just may be that time...

Maybe we're just top hard on ourselves

 

[Jenesis]

Maybe we're just top hard on ourselves

I’m not a guy but have you had your testosterone checked? Can that not leave you feeling sexually unsatisfied or does only effect libido as in not wanting sex at all.

Like menopause takes away our hormones regulate by our body and affects our sex drive, and I know low T has that affect on men too but in the beginning, the side effects of these conditions can be much smaller and therefore go unnoticed.

Just spitting out some ideas. I couldn’t be totally off based though.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I’m not a guy but have you had your testosterone checked? Can that not leave you feeling sexually unsatisfied or does only effect libido as in not wanting sex at all.

Like menopause takes away our hormones regulate by our body and affects our sex drive, and I know low T has that affect on men too but in the beginning, the side effects of these conditions can be much smaller and therefore go unnoticed.

Just spitting out some ideas. I couldn’t be totally off based though.

You should swallow.

 

[Jenesis]

You should swallow.

I knew someone was going to make that comment, I just didn’t think it would be this fast. LOL.

Besides; you know I swallow

 

[Tinmachine]

I’m not a guy but have you had your testosterone checked? Can that not leave you feeling sexually unsatisfied or does only effect libido as in not wanting sex at all.

Like menopause takes away our hormones regulate by our body and affects our sex drive, and I know low T has that affect on men too but in the beginning, the side effects of these conditions can be much smaller and therefore go unnoticed.

Just spitting out some ideas. I couldn’t be totally off based though.

Possible. Never had it checked. Or maybe I'm just bored of it all now

 

[Jenesis]

Possible. Never had it checked. Or maybe I'm just bored of it all now

That can be true too. I would maybe think about getting it checked. I mean it can’t hurt. I know guys hate going to the doctor but if it can improve your sex life….

Either way - I wish you luck.

 

[Mandalorian]

Besides; you know I swallow

marry me.

 

[Mandalorian]

I’m in my mid 50’s and the older I get, the more I wait between seeing SWs. I used to see 3-4 a week (and sometimes I still do) but I follow what my body tells me and if I’m not in the mood I don’t even think about seeing anyone for weeks. For SPs, I tend to stick to regulars I have a connection to and know what I’m getting. I don’t like to see complete strangers anymore, unless I’m out of town and in those cases I do a lot of research on Terb for solid providers. If I try anyone new it’s usually MA and I drop my expectations down by a lot since at the very worse case I get a good HJ. I have to say though that all my regulars started as MA encounters that blossomed into amazing SPs, so MA sessions are amazing for its surprises.

 

[Tinmachine]

That can be true too. I would maybe think about getting it checked. I mean it can’t hurt. I know guys hate going to the doctor but if it can improve your sex life….

Either way - I wish you luck.

I had a case of vertigo a month ago (inner ear issues) and I think my balance was off for some time after. I think that was it to be perfectly honest .

 

[ChipsnSalsa43]

I think everyone who does this activity regularly will have their fair share of bad/mediocre experiences, myself included. If the thought of "retiring," as you put it, comes into your head, use it and run with it. This hobby should be done in extreme moderation only. With that said, you will never fully retire, because we are sexual males and and this whole giving up escorts talk is all good when you are not horny, content, and have other things going on. Eventually you will succumb to your urges, which is fine if its once or twice a month.

As for bad experience. I have come to realize that if you run into such escorts with a:

1) Shitty attitude,

2) Don't want to be there,

3)Low energy

4) Going through the motions

It's because they are doing this strictly as job and nothing more. Some will be more professional than others, just the nature of things. Same as any other profession.

Agreed with all this. Sometimes you run into them having a bad day. I had a great experience with one provider, second experience like 10 months later was quite bad. Almost like meeting a completely different girl. Lol