Lousy Time with a sub par Provider- is it time for me to retire?

[Nickelodeon]

I'm in my 70's and still like to lightly hobby. What's happened is that my preference has now shifted to MP's from SP's. I think because there is less pressure to perform, and no need for a condom.

I can even help them along. I still remember with one mature MP when I took over to help her with the hand job she said: "It's lot more fun when you can do this with someone else". It relaxed her and freed her up to do other things since she didn't feel like everything depended on her performance.

Find someone you're comfortable with doing repeat sessions.

Enjoy.

 

[Chris2020]

100mg is max. I once tried one 100mg and half of another to see what would happen. No benefit, and I did not feel physically well after for a few hours...

I'm at 50mg right now.

I prefer the evening sessions as I tend to get a headache, feel tired after I'm done with an SP so I can sleep a little bit after and I'm back to normal the next day.

 

[Leimonis]

I know the rate should have been a red flag.

this

 

[Tinmachine]

I'm in my 70's and still like to lightly hobby. What's happened is that my preference has now shifted to MP's from SP's. I think because there is less pressure to perform, and no need for a condom.

I can even help them along. I still remember with one mature MP when I took over to help her with the hand job she said: "It's lot more fun when you can do this with someone else". It relaxed her and freed her up to do other things since she didn't feel like everything depended on her performance.

Find someone you're comfortable with doing repeat sessions.

Enjoy.

I kind of picked this provider because she said it was a massage. So thought would be good to start off something simple. The massage involved too much work I found (not enough stimulation) and when it was finally time for the main event things went down hill in a hurry.
Glad to see you're still hobbying at that age. I'm 53, in good physical condition relatively, so I salute you

 

[Tinmachine]

You pick a cheap sub-par older milf and you blame yourself for a shitty experience ? You got what you paid for and so would a 21 year old - would you expect him to quit ?

You should quit if can't afford quality service or move to rub & tug where at least the attendants are good looking under normal lighting. You are going to hit the occasional bust - chalk it up to life and move on.

Guilty as charged
No denying

 

[Oistins]

I've never ticketed with the dosage . I believe I use a 100 MG pill. Can I take more? One and a half? Or 200mg?

No

 

[wonderingeye]

She told u this before you finished? Or after all
Done?

Before and at that point, we were done as far as I was concerned.

Couldn't script it.

 

[xyzhunt1990]

I think everyone who does this activity regularly will have their fair share of bad/mediocre experiences, myself included. If the thought of "retiring," as you put it, comes into your head, use it and run with it. This hobby should be done in extreme moderation only. With that said, you will never fully retire, because we are sexual males and and this whole giving up escorts talk is all good when you are not horny, content, and have other things going on. Eventually you will succumb to your urges, which is fine if its once or twice a month.

As for bad experience. I have come to realize that if you run into such escorts with a:

1) Shitty attitude,

2) Don't want to be there,

3)Low energy

4) Going through the motions

It's because they are doing this strictly as job and nothing more. Some will be more professional than others, just the nature of things. Same as any other profession.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

100mg is max. I once tried one 100mg and half of another to see what would happen. No benefit, and I did not feel physically well after for a few hours...

 

[doldren]

It happens. I always stick to well reviewed providers and had some bad experiences. I generally do hh before seeing them again and doing an hr. The first visit is like a vibe check—it should give you a sense of how well you connect with the provider, how satisfied you are with their services, and whether they take their time or rush through the appointment.

 

[Tinmachine]

I think everyone who does this activity regularly will have their fair share of bad/mediocre experiences, myself included. If the thought of "retiring," as you put it, comes into your head, use it and run with it. This hobby should be done in extreme moderation only. With that said, you will never fully retire, because we are sexual males and and this whole giving up escorts talk is all good when you are not horny, content, and have other things going on. Eventually you will succumb to your urges, which is fine if its once or twice a month.

As for bad experience. I have come to realize that if you run into such escorts with a:

1) Shitty attitude,

2) Don't want to be there,

3)Low energy

4) Going through the motions

It's because they are doing this strictly as job and nothing more. Some will be more professional than others, just the nature of things. Same as any other profession.

Yes for years I would get that "urge " only once or twice a year. But then me and my SO were still having sex from time to time back then
Now the last few years it's turned into once every couple of months or so. I guess all in moderation.

 

[kbiii2]

No

Comment on Viagra dosage. There is a large Japanese study which found that 200 mg can be safe if you move up slower. Add 20 mg tab each time and check for side affects.

I have used up to 180mg with no negative effects. The healthcare industry 100mg limit is their often "erring on the side of caution". They have liability so they are being extra careful.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Jean Seberg quote:
"Hard dick. Soft heart.
Soft dick. Hard heart."

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Ava Gardiner quote:
Of Frank Sinatra's 119 lbs, 19 lbs was cock.

 

[massman]

I don’t think having a disappointing time and performance issues with a sub par provider indicates that it’s time to retire. As you’ve admitted, the low price point is a bit of a red flag. The performance issues were directly related to her attitude and you feeling like you were being rushed, and / or directed to do stuff in the session that you preferred not to.

I’m basically the same age as you, and for the last several years, have really only stuck to regulars 90% of the time. I’m lucky to rarely have any issue at all with performance, but
I know that if I get any sense that a girl is rushing me or is not interested that will put me off, at least making it very hard to finish, and the pressure of that can lead to going soft. I have dabbled a bit with low dose ed meds, and that could give you a little bit of extra confidence in yourself.

 

[Tinmachine]

Jean Seberg quote:
"Hard dick. Soft heart.
Soft dick. Hard heart."




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She died young right? Suicide in Paris? Or am I thinking of someone else?

 

[Tinmachine]

I don’t think having a disappointing time and performance issues with a sub par provider indicates that it’s time to retire. As you’ve admitted, the low price point is a bit of a red flag. The performance issues were directly related to her attitude and you feeling like you were being rushed, and / or directed to do stuff in the session that you preferred not to.

I’m basically the same age as you, and for the last several years, have really only stuck to regulars 90% of the time. I’m lucky to rarely have any issue at all with performance, but
I know that if I get any sense that a girl is rushing me or is not interested that will put me off, at least making it very hard to finish, and the pressure of that can lead to going soft. I have dabbled a bit with low dose ed meds, and that could give you a little bit of extra confidence in yourself.

Going to se

I don’t think having a disappointing time and performance issues with a sub par provider indicates that it’s time to retire. As you’ve admitted, the low price point is a bit of a red flag. The performance issues were directly related to her attitude and you feeling like you were being rushed, and / or directed to do stuff in the session that you preferred not to.

I’m basically the same age as you, and for the last several years, have really only stuck to regulars 90% of the time. I’m lucky to rarely have any issue at all with performance, but
I know that if I get any sense that a girl is rushing me or is not interested that will put me off, at least making it very hard to finish, and the pressure of that can lead to going soft. I have dabbled a bit with low dose ed meds, and that could give you a little bit of extra confidence in yourself.

Thnks fir the feedback. Sent yu a DM

 

[Robert Mugabe]

She died young right? Suicide in Paris? Or am I thinking of someone else?

That's her.

 

[Tinmachine]

That's her.

Remember seeing her in some airplane flick in the early 70s. Burt Lancaster maybe?

 

[wonderingeye]

I don’t think having a disappointing time and performance issues with a sub par provider indicates that it’s time to retire. As you’ve admitted, the low price point is a bit of a red flag. The performance issues were directly related to her attitude and you feeling like you were being rushed, and / or directed to do stuff in the session that you preferred not to.

I’m basically the same age as you, and for the last several years, have really only stuck to regulars 90% of the time. I’m lucky to rarely have any issue at all with performance, but
I know that if I get any sense that a girl is rushing me or is not interested that will put me off, at least making it very hard to finish, and the pressure of that can lead to going soft. I have dabbled a bit with low dose ed meds, and that could give you a little bit of extra confidence in yourself.

I am feeling thr same as OP; however I saw some well reviewed ladies in the absence of my Regs and my last reg session was subpar.

What's the expression? "It is not you. It's me."

It just may be that time...