Lousy Time with a sub par Provider- is it time for me to retire?

[Tinmachine]

So I had the misfortune of seeing a provider I now know I shouldn't have. Older milf type who offered massage in Hamilton with hj, bj, fs menu. She was cheaper than usual- 180 dollars for the hr- but had some good reviews so i took the plunge.

Instructions for meet up were flawless and I was there on time and she let me up to her hotel room on time. So far ok. Open the door, not disappointed, older milf type, not a knockout but nothing to turn me off either.
Started with massage. Had to lay on my stomach. She then insisted on me massaging her with her flat on her stomach. I was getting tired. Finally to the main event. Laid on my back as she gave me a decent bbbj. However, she said jokingly "no cim!" . Which was fine but though "oh boy here come the rules!" Finally put the dome on and asked me to do her from behind. I usually have trouble guiding the plane to he runway on "from behind" so usually need a little guidance like a hand . Nope. So i tried to find with my fingers "no fingers in the pussy hun!" "Sorry. Tried again. Just started going limp as i was tired too from all that massaging. Went on my back and she said "wow, you're soft ". I just finished myself and be done with it. Disappointing.

What really turned me off was I booked an hr, I gave her 200, not 180,(I'm generous) and when I got dressed and tried making a little chit chat she said "honey I got another appointment coming so sorry to rush u out the door". Looked at the clock at i was only there 45 minutes . Didn't argue. Said goodbye and left.

One of the lamest experiences. I'm in my early 50s. Am I getting too old for this? I had a hard time getting hard with her and got limp with the condom on
Or was it her lame service? Certain things she said and did slightly turned me off. Also keep the room super dark. Couldn't see anything. I know the rate should have been a red flag.

Sigh....

 

[Burldude]

Sucks... I have had a number of those mostly when I booked on impulse and last minute without searching for reviews.

Best if you name the lady so myself and others can avoid.

 

[wonderingeye]

I know the feeling. It was challenging to line up with my regulars due to offsetting vacation and my WFH (actually cottage 2 days/week). Elected to see some of the newer stars as an alternative.

Much more expensive and IMHO they followed a script which isn't what I wanted. NMCOT.

Finally saw a reg after almost a month. Told her let's play first and chat afterwards. I truly enjoy my pillow talk time as much as the sex.

She tapped out for a break after a good pounding. As we were chatting she said she lost all interest in men and sex. Well now, if that isn't a passion killer... So we chatted for the balance of our appointment. And then left.

Perhaps it is time to call it a day and move on to some new form of entertainment.

 

[Tinmachine]

I know the feeling. It was challenging to line up with my regulars due to offsetting vacation and my WFH (actually cottage 2 days/week). Elected to see some of the newer stars as an alternative.

Much more expensive and IMHO they followed a script which isn't what I wanted. NMCOT.

Finally saw a reg after almost a month. Told her let's play first and chat afterwards. I truly enjoy my pillow talk time as much as the sex.

She tapped out for a break after a good pounding. As we were chatting she said she lost all interest in men and sex. Well now, if that isn't a passion killer... So we chatted for the balance of our appointment. And then left.

Perhaps it is time to call it a day and move on to some new form of entertainment.

She told u this before you finished? Or after all
Done?

 

[StephenHKing]

Get right back on that horse and ride…

There are always flat spots, peaks and valleys.

Challenge yourself to see three or four in a week. Do some homework this time and book at least two well reviewed stars.

You’ll find at least one you like!

 

[xix]

Get right back on that horse and ride…

There are always flat spots, peaks and valleys.

Challenge yourself to see three or four in a week. Do some homework this time and book at least two well reviewed stars.

You’ll find at least one you like!

Or take time off, 3 - 6 - 9 - 12 months off.

 

[russocga]

So I had the misfortune of seeing a provider I now know I shouldn't have. Older milf type who offered massage in Hamilton with hj, bj, fs menu. She was cheaper than usual- 180 dollars for the hr- but had some good reviews so i took the plunge.

Instructions for meet up were flawless and I was there on time and she let me up to her hotel room on time. So far ok. Open the door, not disappointed, older milf type, not a knockout but nothing to turn me off either.
Started with massage. Had to lay on my stomach. She then insisted on me massaging her with her flat on her stomach. I was getting tired. Finally to the main event. Laid on my back as she gave me a decent bbbj. However, she said jokingly "no cim!" . Which was fine but though "oh boy here come the rules!" Finally put the dome on and asked me to do her from behind. I usually have trouble guiding the plane to he runway on "from behind" so usually need a little guidance like a hand . Nope. So i tried to find with my fingers "no fingers in the pussy hun!" "Sorry. Tried again. Just started going limp as i was tired too from all that massaging. Went on my back and she said "wow, you're soft ". I just finished myself and be done with it. Disappointing.

What really turned me off was I booked an hr, I gave her 200, not 180,(I'm generous) and when I got dressed and tried making a little chit chat she said "honey I got another appointment coming so sorry to rush u out the door". Looked at the clock at i was only there 45 minutes . Didn't argue. Said goodbye and left.

One of the lamest experiences. I'm in my early 50s. Am I getting too old for this? I had a hard time getting hard with her and got limp with the condom on
Or was it her lame service? Certain things she said and did slightly turned me off. Also keep the room super dark. Couldn't see anything. I know the rate should have been a red flag.

Sigh....

Brother I hear ya.

I too am in my 50's, high BMI and have a hard time staying up with regular condoms. I need the Magnums as the regular ones are too small/tight. They come off so much easier when they are small. (Think of a small t-shirt. Rides up on you and is uncomfortable) Providers dont normally have the Magnums on hand, so I bring my own most of the time . When I dont, I make do with BBBJ, 69. Thats good enough for me.

As for this provider specifically, I havent been to Hamilton to play, so I dont know who the provider is. That said, 200 hr is on the low end of the spectrum in terms of donations. Its at that rate for a reason. Pay a little extra, find a couple of ladies that you connect with, see them often and sprinkle in the occassional new one with good reviews. You'll stay happier that way.

 

[Tinmachine]

Get right back on that horse and ride…

There are always flat spots, peaks and valleys.

Challenge yourself to see three or four in a week. Do some homework this time and book at least two well reviewed stars.

You’ll find at least one you like!

3 or 4 a week?! Lol not sure I have the budget for that. Once every 2 months is a lot for me.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Lousy Time with a sub par Provider- is it time for me to retire?
Sounds like one of you should.



Tin Man
Song by
America

Some are quick
To take the bait
And catch the perfect prize
That waits among the shells
But Oz never did give nothing to the Tin Man
That he didn't, didn't already have

 

[Tinmachine]

Brother I hear ya.

I too am in my 50's, high BMI and have a hard time staying up with regular condoms. I need the Magnums as the regular ones are too small/tight. They come off so much easier when they are small. (Think of a small t-shirt. Rides up on you and is uncomfortable) Providers dont normally have the Magnums on hand, so I bring my own most of the time . When I dont, I make do with BBBJ, 69. Thats good enough for me.

As for this provider specifically, I havent been to Hamilton to play, so I dont know who the provider is. That said, 200 hr is on the low end of the spectrum in terms of donations. Its at that rate for a reason. Pay a little extra, find a couple of ladies that you connect with, see them often and sprinkle in the occassional new one with good reviews. You'll stay happier that way.

Do u take viagra or anything? I notice some problems with my performance couple of years ago and tried viagra for the first time and couldn't believe the difference. Was like wow this is amazing. However slowly I've noticed that is waning ad well. Could be all in my head too. Sometimes when I see a provider I'm super anxious and takes a lot to get my motor going. If the provider does or says something just a little off I find it can turn me off.

Yes, I know about the low cost. Was a bit of a red flag and normally wouldn't go that low end route (I find girls in the 240-350 an hr range are good) .however she had some good reviews (although some not so nice ones either) and I guess I just acted on impulse. I always feels disappointed when I can't finish inside her.

 

[StephenHKing]

3 or 4 a week?! Lol not sure I have the budget for that. Once every 2 months is a lot for me.

Fair enough. Then research is your friend. Half hours are budget-friendly, go with a well-reviewed provider.

HPL has locations out west that are probably easy for you to get to.

Asian places like ATEA are also extremely reliable for pretty girls who try to take care of you.

Net-net: you had a bad experience. It doesn’t sound like it’s you - there are tired providers out there all the time.

 

[Tinmachine]

Fair enough. Then research is your friend. Half hours are budget-friendly, go with a well-reviewed provider.

HPL has locations out west that are probably easy for you to get to.

Asian places like ATEA are also extremely reliable for pretty girls who try to take care of you.

Net-net: you had a bad experience. It doesn’t sound like it’s you - there are tired providers out there all the time.

Thnks. As I get older I get concerned it's my performance. But if a provider does something "off putting" whether verbal or physical, even just subtle, i find it can effect my performance. Maybe I just have high standards.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Thnks. As I get older I get concerned it's my performance. But if a provider does something "off putting" whether verbal or physical, even just subtle, i find it can effect my performance. Maybe I just have high standards.

I had a famous one years back. Famous for her fucking attitude. Long story short. Her attitude did me in. She was kneeling down looking at disgust at my limp flag saying she was looking for rock hard. Not limp noodle. Scolding me even, lol, like that would do the trick.

 

[Tinmachine]

I had a famous one years back. Famous for her fucking attitude. Long story short. Her attitude did me in. She was kneeling down looking at disgust at my limp flag saying she was looking for rock hard. Not limp noodle. Scolding me even, lol, like that would do the trick.

Good grief. That will certainly get yu hard and cum quicker! Wtf!

 

[russocga]

Do u take viagra or anything? I notice some problems with my performance couple of years ago and tried viagra for the first time and couldn't believe the difference. Was like wow this is amazing. However slowly I've noticed that is waning ad well. Could be all in my head too. Sometimes when I see a provider I'm super anxious and takes a lot to get my motor going. If the provider does or says something just a little off I find it can turn me off.

Yes, I know about the low cost. Was a bit of a red flag and normally wouldn't go that low end route (I find girls in the 240-350 an hr range are good) .however she had some good reviews (although some not so nice ones either) and I guess I just acted on impulse. I always feels disappointed when I can't finish inside her.

I do take generic viagra as I find it has less side effects. I only take it when I know I'm going to play. Over the years I've had to increase my dose. They say thats normal.

 

[Tinmachine]

I do take generic viagra as I find it has less side effects. I only take it when I know I'm going to play. Over the years I've had to increase my dose. They say thats normal.

I've never ticketed with the dosage . I believe I use a 100 MG pill. Can I take more? One and a half? Or 200mg?

 

[Tinmachine]

I've never ticketed with the dosage . I believe I use a 100 MG pill. Can I take more? One and a half? Or 200mg?

"Chsngd" the dosage....sorry what I meant to say. Auto correct....

 

[russocga]

"Chsngd" the dosage....sorry what I meant to say. Auto correct....

I beleive 100mg is the max daily dosage

 

[IM469]

So I had the misfortune of seeing a provider I now know I shouldn't have. Older milf type who offered massage in Hamilton with hj, bj, fs menu. She was cheaper than usual- 180 dollars for the hr- but had some good reviews so i took the plunge.

.....

One of the lamest experiences. I'm in my early 50s. Am I getting too old for this? I had a hard time getting hard with her and got limp with the condom on
Or was it her lame service? Certain things she said and did slightly turned me off. Also keep the room super dark. Couldn't see anything. I know the rate should have been a red flag.

Sigh....

You pick a cheap sub-par older milf and you blame yourself for a shitty experience ? You got what you paid for and so would a 21 year old - would you expect him to quit ?

You should quit if can't afford quality service or move to rub & tug where at least the attendants are good looking under normal lighting. You are going to hit the occasional bust - chalk it up to life and move on.

 

[xmontrealer]

I've never ticketed with the dosage . I believe I use a 100 MG pill. Can I take more? One and a half? Or 200mg?

100mg is max. I once tried one 100mg and half of another to see what would happen. No benefit, and I did not feel physically well after for a few hours...