Do some women lose interest in sex as they get married/older?

[TheQuestion]

Hey guys,

So after talking with many SD's it seems one of the reasons for them getting into Sugar dating in the first place was because their wives and/long term partners stopped being interested in having sex.

Meanwhile, they themselves kept their interest high. Hence this discrepancy. On one hand the men kept wanting to have sex while their wives weren't interested anymore. I wonder how common or uncommon is this situation.

I assume this situation might be similar to married guys who get into escorts.

What do you think?

 

[Operative Fern]

It’s common. Menopause and dryness is the cause for some ladies.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Very common as my married gents bitch and complain about it all the time - some have even gotten to the point where they are tempted to join out wonderful world.

 

[shack]

It’s common. Menopause and dryness is the cause for some ladies.

I've heard that the most common cause for women losing interest in sex is:




It's the damn wedding cake.

 

[GeeBee]

It’s incredibly common, for many reasons.

If it wasn’t, most SP’s wouldn’t be in business.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Wonder nobody has started a thread on this subject up until now.

 

[xmontrealer]

It could also be that "one dish on the menu" thing that causes both spouses to lose interest after the first few years.

 

[Tinmachine]

You're kidding right? Does the sun set in the west?

 

[onomatopoeia]

A lot of women want to be mothers. Some of them see sex as a 'necessary evil' to accomplish that goal. Some don't like sex because they've never had sex with a partner who cared about their enjoyment of the act.

Sometimes that maternal urge has a selfish motive. They want to have one or more people who are required to love them unconditionally, regardless of their character flaws. They can't necessarily expect that from a spouse or other partner.

 

[massman]

Hey guys,

So after talking with many SD's it seems one of the reasons for them getting into Sugar dating in the first place was because their wives and/long term partners stopped being interested in having sex.

Meanwhile, they themselves kept their interest high. Hence this discrepancy. On one hand the men kept wanting to have sex while their wives weren't interested anymore. I wonder how common or uncommon is this situation.

I assume this situation might be similar to married guys who get into escorts.

What do you think?

You must be new here. Lol

 

[Jenesis]

It’s common. Menopause and dryness is the cause for some ladies.

This is true. As well as other hormonal issues pre-menopause, hormonal issues from childbirth, hormonal issues from birth-control, and a slew of other ailments that women can have that causes issues with libido.

To a lot of men it just means we are prudes or bitches who want to deny them sex. Not actual physical issues within our bodies. Let’s not start on emotional intimacy for physical intimacy. That can be tabled at the moment.

Men who have low T and their libido falls - they have medical reasons and therefor need to be treated for their hormonal issues.

We don’t even get the option of hormonal treatments. Women’s health is not an important enough issue yet. I mean sure we have breast cancer support but we still get told it is just a little pinch when our cervix is forced open for a biopsy or a IUD insertion. We are given absolutely no medication for it. But men get 2 to 4 days off from a vasectomy and get sent home with a care package of medication’s. Women get sent home with a diaper and Tylenol after pushing 8 to 10 pound babies out of their vaginas.

So if men are so concerned about sex, maybe women’s health should be taken more seriously. But I digress.

 

[Oistins]

Hey guys,

So after talking with many SD's it seems one of the reasons for them getting into Sugar dating in the first place was because their wives and/long term partners stopped being interested in having sex.

Meanwhile, they themselves kept their interest high. Hence this discrepancy. On one hand the men kept wanting to have sex while their wives weren't interested anymore. I wonder how common or uncommon is this situation.

I assume this situation might be similar to married guys who get into escorts.

What do you think?

Get a dog!

 

[Operative Fern]

This is true. As well as other hormonal issues pre-menopause, hormonal issues from childbirth, hormonal issues from birth-control, and a slew of other ailments that women can have that causes issues with libido.

To a lot of men it just means we are prudes or bitches who want to deny them sex. Not actual physical issues within our bodies. Let’s not start on emotional intimacy for physical intimacy. That can be tabled at the moment.

Men who have low T and their libido falls - they have medical reasons and therefor need to be treated for their hormonal issues.

We don’t even get the option of hormonal treatments. Women’s health is not an important enough issue yet. I mean sure we have breast cancer support but we still get told it is just a little pinch when our cervix is forced open for a biopsy or a IUD insertion. We are given absolutely no medication for it. But men get 2 to 4 days off from a vasectomy and get sent home with a care package of medication’s. Women get sent home with a diaper and Tylenol after pushing 8 to 10 pound babies out of their vaginas.

So if men are so concerned about sex, maybe women’s health should be taken more seriously. But I digress.

Unfortunately, I didn’t pay attention to the signs, didn’t listen, and didn’t try to learn and understand. The cost was my marriage of almost 30 years.

 

[Jenesis]

Unfortunately, I didn’t pay attention to the signs, didn’t listen, and didn’t try to learn and understand. The cost was my marriage of almost 30 years.

I’m sorry. That sucks. Kind of a fault but kinda not. Society has you guys believing what you do. If society as a whole was more supportive to women’s health and promoting it and education about it, a lot of couples would probably still be together.

I mean there are plenty of men who think a woman only uses one tampon her whole cycle or that she can’t pee with a tampon in.

Now I get that women themselves don’t necessarily pay attention in the male reproductive section of sex ed but ….. society has a whole and in the medical field mens health is taken a little more seriously. Evidence alone is in the fact that most medications, most testing, etc is/was done on white males over women and a POC. When we present symptomatically different, and have different ailments that affect us.

So yes - accept some responsibility but understand, you can only really do what you are taught as well because that is all you will know about.

 

[xix]

I believe there should be Sex Education for every couple or single people when they turn their age at a new decade. For example at 20 - 30 - 40 - 50 60 .
The Sex ed is for an hour for 8 weeks. A women's class and a mens class. No mix.

OR a full day for 9 hours. This way there is communication between the people.

 

[SchlongConery]

 

[Mencken]

I’m sorry. That sucks. Kind of a fault but kinda not. Society has you guys believing what you do. If society as a whole was more supportive to women’s health and promoting it and education about it, a lot of couples would probably still be together.

I mean there are plenty of men who think a woman only uses one tampon her whole cycle or that she can’t pee with a tampon in.

Now I get that women themselves don’t necessarily pay attention in the male reproductive section of sex ed but ….. society has a whole and in the medical field mens health is taken a little more seriously. Evidence alone is in the fact that most medications, most testing, etc is/was done on white males over women and a POC. When we present symptomatically different, and have different ailments that affect us.

So yes - accept some responsibility but understand, you can only really do what you are taught as well because that is all you will know about.

I don't agree that men's health is taken more seriously. Check on the funding and profile of breast cancer research compared to prostate cancer. The amount of funding for prostate cancer is a fraction of that for breast cancer, but I think it is true by far more men get prostate cancer, and there are, I think, a higher death rate. That part someone could challenge me on...I don't have the stats in front of me.

 

[canada-man]

 

[Jenesis]

I don't agree that men's health is taken more seriously. Check on the funding and profile of breast cancer research compared to prostate cancer. The amount of funding for prostate cancer is a fraction of that for breast cancer, but I think it is true by far more men get prostate cancer, and there are, I think, a higher death rate. That part someone could challenge me on...I don't have the stats in front of me.

I already mention breast cancer in an earlier post on this thread but for centuries it was white man only who were admitted into medical studies, who’s symptoms were taken into account when women can have the same issue but different symptoms. I mean I could go on and on and go find the stats but there are so many examples, if you are truly interested, you can google it yourself.

Just google the differences between IUD insertions and vasectomies. Google how they handled completely differently. Women have their cervix forced open, a foreign objected stuck into their uterus and are given no pain management. Women have a baby and are sent home the next day with some Tylenol. Men get a vasectomy and get a whole care package sent home with them. They get medication beforehand they get anxiety medication. They get pain medication afterwards and they are plenty of men on this board who could testify that a vasectomy is not that bad.

Or look at stats for heart attacks if you want to compare apples to apples. Women have different symptoms yet the only ones promoted to look out for are the symptoms men have. So many women don’t even know they have had a heart attack because they don’t know the symptoms that are for women.

I could go on and on but you should do some googling on it. There is plenty of info. And then if you find the difference in medicine for men and women interesting, start looking at the difference in medicine between white people and people of colour. It will blow your mind.

 

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