Do some women lose interest in sex as they get married/older?

[Josephine]

To provide you with meaningful employment, obviously.
As to the original question.
Do sharks shit in the sea?

LOL, yes.

Also learned not to ask why they were here. I would just shake them violently and tell them to pursue happiness.

 

[massman]

I am sorry for not being more empathetic about it. I just find the op's statement redundant and don't understand why we people have to have sex so much.

People are so indoctrinate with the idea that you have to get married, you have to get children, you have to buy a house, a golden retriever and a cottage in Muskoka to be happy that they forget what actually makes them happy and people get hurt in the process. People will give up on their life for money or because they think their children couldn't handle a divorce. Newsflash, everyone divorce nowadays. What is the real cost of being miserable all your life tho? More than a divorce me think.

You raise many good points.

 

[Josephine]

You raise many good points.

I will obviously never get married

 

[Telebass]

LOL, yes.

Also learned not to ask why they were here. I would just shake them violently and tell them to pursue happiness.

If they’re seeing you, they are pursuing happiness in their own way.

 

[Josephine]

If they’re seeing you, they are pursuing happiness in their own way.

It's true, I didn't see it like this. But I would more consider myself like a band-aid.

 

[massman]

I will obviously never get married

Lol!!! You are very wise

But in all seriousness, if that’s true, that will be some guy’s loss. You seem like a genuine person, who is interested in seeing issues not only from your point of view, but also the point of view of others. Pretty good qualities.

 

[Y_Diner]

Men and women get tired of sex
W their partner after years of monogamy

 

[massman]

Men and women get tired of sex
W their partner after years of monogamy

Not always.

 

[Y_Diner]

Not always.

Agreed. I was generalizing.
There are no absolutes.
Kudos to those that can make it work.

 

[xix]

The people that I don't understand are the ones who mislead. And they know what they are doing. These people don't enjoy sex or know they will stop once married.
I am referring to both genders and there is no absolute. I met these people.

1. Just gets married because they were asked - when their intention was FWB or adrenaline rush or
2. Cannot be alone
3. Financial security.
4. Society obligation
5. Not my problem if my partner didn't see I wasn't going to bother with sex.

 

[sharty]

I think women get bored fucking their partners too, it's just not talked about much. Many older ladies are horny as fuck. Husband may get fat also which doesn't help.