No.
I just told you how happy I was you were being honest about your complaint instead of your weird, illogical argument about legal semantics.
Again, if you actually believe that the only people who can be called rapists are those who have been found guilty in a court of law of a crime specifically named as "rape" or if you believe the only valid definition of rape is the one that existed in New York State Law when Trump assaulted Carroll (or one that is substantially similar to that definition) then I will apologize for misunderstanding your argument and simply agree to disagree.
The fact that this was a civil case, where the burden of proof is significantly lower than a criminal court case, it's essentially based on he-said/she-said.
Throw in a judge and prosecutor who are friends and coworkers.
Throw in the witness not even remembering the year it allegedly happened.
Throw in the suspect situation where they were both willingly in a dept store changeroom; two people who barely knew each other getting frisky.
Throw in overwhelming negative bias towards Trump.
Throw in a woman scorned.
Throw in a jury who did not conclude rape.
And you can argue the judgement for the plaintiff all you want...but doesn't make him a rapist.