Advice from married guys

[sholon]

Hello fellow married guys,

After you got married, did you stop hobbying? How long was it before you went back to hobbying?

 

[Starwalker]

Definitely don't hobby as much anymore, maybe like once a month. I'm on my second marriage and I realized a long time ago now that hobbying is better than a affair

 

[jalimon]

Hobbying is one of the reasons many marriages hold on. Many women around the age of 40 lose any envy to have sex at all but are happy with the relationship.

Just do it.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

 

[kherg007]

Hobbying is one of the reasons many marriages hold on. Many women around the age of 40 lose any envy to have sex at all but are happy with the relationship.

Just do it.

Divorce rate went down in Oz when brothels were legalized...

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Divorce rate went down in Oz when brothels were legalized...

Makes sense.

 

[FUCKMEISTER]

On my second last and love to hobby. Agency girls only..

 

[Goodoer]

I'm a horny dude and I was just about to get into hobbying when I met my now wife... We had lots of sex while dating, but it became a sexless marriage soon after the nuptials... It took me 8 years to fuck another (married) women and 1 more year after that to see an escort. Both were amazing experiences and the experiences after were not bad either.... Stay in your marriage ONLY if you want to have children with that woman.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

 

[rex_baner]

Hobbying is one of the reasons many marriages hold on. Many women around the age of 40 lose any envy to have sex at all but are happy with the relationship.

Just do it.

isnt the exact opposite? In my 20s... women in their 40s seemed to want it more than I did

 

[IM469]

isnt the exact opposite? In my 20s... women in their 40s seemed to want it more than I did

I think women in their 40's preffered younger guys in their twenties. Not much difference in the sexes after all.

 

[Goodoer]

I think women in their 40's preffered younger guys in their twenties. Not much difference in the sexes after all.

As wisdom creeps in with age, I realize that being in your 30s may be the best time as both chicks in their 20s and (married) women in their 40s want to fuck you. You're in good shape and strong, you have money and you have a clue... I turned aside many advances, succumbing to only a few.

 

[opieshuffle]

Started hobbying AFTER I got married. Love my partner. We ARE partners. Nothing I'd give up. Got married young. We're just different people sexually. Not interested in affairs, don't need the emotional outlet.
Plus... this city... the variety of beautiful women from around the globe. All shapes, sizes and colours.

I never travelled as much as I should have in my single days. This is a way for me to at least experience different cultures in one way.

 

[coolmanfever]

Hobby in marriage is like seeing therapist so you do not commit affair and risk losing half of finacisl.assets

 

[xix]

Hobby in marriage is like seeing therapist so you do not commit affair and risk losing half of finacisl.assets

WTF?

 

[lanaorg]

Hello fellow married guys,

After you got married, did you stop hobbying? How long was it before you went back to hobbying?

if you don't stop you will have to adapt, the biggest dilemma will be having cbj instead of bbbj.

 

[Random dude]

Hobby in marriage is like seeing therapist so you do not commit affair and risk losing half of finacisl.assets

Agreed. Might not be the correct answer, but in a sex-less marriage, I don't know what else to do. Wife and I used to be like bunnies in the early days, then it dwindled over time. Now it's all but non existant.

Hobbying keeps me sane. Doesn't have to be FS, but at least a massage with HE once in awhile to take the edge off.

 

[Leimonis]

Being single feels even more amazing after I read the posts above

 

[kinkystinky]

Agreed. Might not be the correct answer, but in a sex-less marriage, I don't know what else to do. Wife and I used to be like bunnies in the early days, then it dwindled over time. Now it's all but non existant.

Hobbying keeps me sane. Doesn't have to be FS, but at least a massage with HE once in awhile to take the edge off.

Do you guys have friends in similar situations but don't hobby? What stops them?

 

[Mr Deeds]

Do you guys have friends in similar situations but don't hobby? What stops them?

Some men just want to stay faithful, their vows are important and they love their wives.I admire that. Fear is also a factor.Most men if given the right opportunity will give in to temptation.