Too Comfortable

[Tango Urilla]

My story,

I finally found a SP that was great looking and gave a great session so I decided to have her as a regular. Was seeing her 2-3 times per week usually for two hours sometimes three and all was good for the first month. After that fabulous first month I believe she got too comfortable and the unprofessionalism began. She started showing up late, sometimes up to an hour when she had never been late before. She also started letting herself go by no longer wearing sexy clothes and showing up in sweats. She also came over all the time now with no makeup and glasses on when she had never done that in the first month. She looked totally different and I was no longer attracted. I let it go the first couple of times because I get not everybody is always on point but she never reverted back to her old ways. I even made comments to her about how great she looked the first few times I had seen her and if she could please be punctual.

In the end, I cut her off and she kept asking why. I just told her I’m no longer interested and will be looking for a new regular. At $400 per hour and getting close to 2k a week from me you figure she would put in the effort. Nope… Boggles my mind.

Has anybody ever seen a SP regularly and they just get too comfortable and don’t put any more effort into how they look?

 

[blacklabdog]

Happened several times. Did what you did

 

[William St]

My story,

I finally found a SP that was great looking and gave a great session so I decided to have her as a regular. Was seeing her 2-3 times per week usually for two hours sometimes three and all was good for the first month. After that fabulous first month I believe she got too comfortable and the unprofessionalism began. She started showing up late, sometimes up to an hour when she had never been late before. She also started letting herself go by no longer wearing sexy clothes and showing up in sweats. She also came over all the time now with no makeup and glasses on when she had never done that in the first month. She looked totally different and I was no longer attracted. I let it go the first couple of times because I get not everybody is always on point but she never reverted back to her old ways. I even made comments to her about how great she looked the first few times I had seen her and if she could please be punctual.

In the end, I cut her off and she kept asking why. I just told her I’m no longer interested and will be looking for a new regular. At $400 per hour and getting close to 2k a week from me you figure she would put in the effort. Nope… Boggles my mind.

Has anybody ever seen a SP regularly and they just get too comfortable and don’t put any more effort into how they look?

I haven't the budget or the horniness quotient to pay $400 2x/week. I'd be bankrupt and probably have a stroke. So I'd never be in that position.

 

[charbed]

Almost sounds like she thought youmarried her. Time to move on once they start acting like a wife rather than a girlfriend.

 

[Pokemon301]

I don't understand why you would even do this. If you have that much cash, you should have a harem of regulars and make sure they know about each other to keep the level of services up. In any business, people act professional because they get paid... otherwise somebody else gets paid.

Also, if you have that much cash you can have fun with 3 different girls per week... instead of a pay-to-play relationship with a girl who's banging 15 other guys anyway, no offense.

 

[ThundercatsHo]

So somewhere in the range of $3200 for a month of pleasurable company? Quite the investment and would love to meet your money manager - that’s a nice little bit of fun money. Definitely some merit to your theory about just taking for advantage but knowing this is their work it seems there is a possibility of so many other theories but hard to speculate. For all one knows she got bored, having own issues, or whether it makes any sense whatsoever or not perhaps she was pushing you away and looking for you to call it off? Can only speculate

 

[Tango Urilla]

Happened several times. Did what you did

Don’t blame you!

 

[Tango Urilla]

I don't understand why you would even do this. If you have that much cash, you should have a harem of regulars and make sure they know about each other to keep the level of services up. In any business, people act professional because they get paid... otherwise somebody else gets paid.

Also, if you have that much cash you can have fun with 3 different girls per week... instead of a pay-to-play relationship with a girl who's banging 15 other guys anyway, no offense.

I absolutely could have a harem of women, but I wanted one regular that I was extremely happy with and I thought I had found her. I don’t have the patience for nonsense (which I would get with multiple) and that’s what I was trying to avoid, but obviously I didn’t.

 

[Tango Urilla]

So somewhere in the range of $3200 for a month of pleasurable company? Quite the investment and would love to meet your money manager - that’s a nice little bit of fun money. Definitely some merit to your theory about just taking for advantage but knowing this is their work it seems there is a possibility of so many other theories but hard to speculate. For all one knows she got bored, having own issues, or whether it makes any sense whatsoever or not perhaps she was pushing you away and looking for you to call it off? Can only speculate

She definitely wasn’t pushing me away and looking to call it off because like I said above, she wants to know why and is pretty upset I did call it off.

 

[mwillheim22]

She definitely wasn’t pushing me away and looking to call it off because like I said above, she wants to know why and is pretty upset I did call it off.

Just be straightforward. You're paying a premium price for a premium experience. Tell her it starts when she enters the door.

 

[William St]

She definitely wasn’t pushing me away and looking to call it off because like I said above, she wants to know why and is pretty upset I did call it off.

I'll bet she's upset! The gravy train stopped rolling! Oh, no...what will I do? I'll have to buy some lingerie and start prospecting for men again (Lol)

 

[Tango Urilla]

Just be straightforward. You're paying a premium price for a premium experience. Tell her it starts when she enters the door.

Couldn’t agree more but I really shouldn’t have to.

 

[Tango Urilla]

I'll bet she's upset! The gravy train stopped rolling! Oh, no...what will I do? I'll have to buy some lingerie and start prospecting for men again (Lol)

She has other clients obviously, but I was definitely consistent, respectful and not an ugly dude by any means. That’s why I’m so mind-boggled why she wouldn’t put the effort in and started this thread to make sure I wasn’t the only one who has experienced this. I’ve gotten a few PMs from people saying that it happens to them as well. It blows my mind that they are making that kind of money and don’t take it seriously.

 

[Asher99]

Almost sounds like she thought youmarried her. Time to move on once they start acting like a wife rather than a girlfriend.

Lol, this

 

[Like tiny ones]

Remember they are sex workers it's what they do

 

[Theredmilf]

I think this is fair critique but at the same time it’s a bit unrealistic to want to meet a lady for full service date 2-3 times a week and expect the same level of passion, enthusiasm and effort. Maybe as an MA, but I can’t see this being a great idea with a full service companion. I would personally turn down most if not all offers of this nature TBH because I know my limits. Unless you’re the world’s most interesting man, repetitive dates are going to get boring as fuck fast and a provider is naturally going to start looking for ways to reduce her stress by dialling some things back.

You’re expecting a consistent level sexual engagement but without anything else on the table to connect with you and not long enough dates for other social activities from one person? That’s not going to work with anyone IMHO. Sure she should arrive on time and tell you it’s too much—it’s also a lot to ask.

Currently, my highest frequency date is once per month for 24 hours, I have one gent I meet for 4 dinner dates in a row but that’s once a year and we have an identical sense of humour plus spend 2hours eating. These are excellent frequency rhythms IMHO. There’s enough time for us to have something new to say to one another and we spend long enough time together to get bonded and share other experiences besides just blow jobs and fucking. I have never had a once a week client let alone at 2 to 3 times per week client. I can honestly say I would probably turn down this type of date especially if it didn’t have a social activity.

As much as I agree this is unprofessional behaviour, you just can’t suck and blow at the same time. If you want to see someone at this frequency or on a sustained level there is a dimension of casualness that will come with it. No shade to you but I think you are much better off booking at least six different ladies per month to meet your needs from what you have described.

 

[Tango Urilla]

I think this is fair critique but at the same time it’s a bit unrealistic to want to meet a lady for full service date 2-3 times a week and expect the same level of passion, enthusiasm and effort. Maybe as an MA, but I can’t see this being a great idea with a full service companion. I would personally turn down most if not all offers of this nature TBH because I know my limits. Unless you’re the world’s most interesting man, repetitive dates are going to get boring as fuck fast and a provider is naturally going to start looking for ways to reduce her stress by dialling some things back.

You’re expecting a consistent level sexual engagement but without anything else on the table to connect with you and not long enough dates for other social activities from one person? That’s not going to work with anyone IMHO. Sure she should arrive on time and tell you it’s too much—it’s also a lot to ask.

Currently, my highest frequency date is once per month for 24 hours, I have one gent I meet for 4 dinner dates in a row but that’s once a year and we have an identical sense of humour plus spend 2hours eating. These are excellent frequency rhythms IMHO. There’s enough time for us to have something new to say to one another and we spend long enough time together to get bonded and share other experiences besides just blow jobs and fucking. I have never had a once a week client let alone at 2 to 3 times per week client. I can honestly say I would probably turn down this type of date especially if it didn’t have a social activity.

As much as I agree this is unprofessional behaviour, you just can’t suck and blow at the same time. If you want to see someone at this frequency or on a sustained level there is a dimension of casualness that will come with it. No shade to you but I think you are much better off booking at least six different ladies per month to meet your needs from what you have described.

This makes no sense to me whatsoever because I did not complain about the level of service. What I did complain about was the timely fashion and the level of professionalism and how she appeared when she came over. Both of these things are standard in most jobs…to be on time and to look professional when you go to work. Are you telling me that this is an unrealistic ask? Most women in the workforce work five days. I’m only having her come over to 2 to 3 times per week at a PREMIUM rate!

 

[BusterHighmann]

I think this is fair critique but at the same time it’s a bit unrealistic to want to meet a lady for full service date 2-3 times a week and expect the same level of passion, enthusiasm and effort. Maybe as an MA, but I can’t see this being a great idea with a full service companion. I would personally turn down most if not all offers of this nature TBH because I know my limits. Unless you’re the world’s most interesting man, repetitive dates are going to get boring as fuck fast and a provider is naturally going to start looking for ways to reduce her stress by dialling some things back.

You’re expecting a consistent level sexual engagement but without anything else on the table to connect with you and not long enough dates for other social activities from one person? That’s not going to work with anyone IMHO. Sure she should arrive on time and tell you it’s too much—it’s also a lot to ask.

Currently, my highest frequency date is once per month for 24 hours, I have one gent I meet for 4 dinner dates in a row but that’s once a year and we have an identical sense of humour plus spend 2hours eating. These are excellent frequency rhythms IMHO. There’s enough time for us to have something new to say to one another and we spend long enough time together to get bonded and share other experiences besides just blow jobs and fucking. I have never had a once a week client let alone at 2 to 3 times per week client. I can honestly say I would probably turn down this type of date especially if it didn’t have a social activity.

As much as I agree this is unprofessional behaviour, you just can’t suck and blow at the same time. If you want to see someone at this frequency or on a sustained level there is a dimension of casualness that will come with it. No shade to you but I think you are much better off booking at least six different ladies per month to meet your needs from what you have described.

Yeah I'd definitely also turn down a solid $2k a week because working 3 hours 3 times a week sounds exhausting. Poor lady I hope she's recovering from the stress ok.

 

[bushido_99]

My story,

I finally found a SP that was great looking and gave a great session so I decided to have her as a regular. Was seeing her 2-3 times per week usually for two hours sometimes three and all was good for the first month. After that fabulous first month I believe she got too comfortable and the unprofessionalism began. She started showing up late, sometimes up to an hour when she had never been late before. She also started letting herself go by no longer wearing sexy clothes and showing up in sweats. She also came over all the time now with no makeup and glasses on when she had never done that in the first month. She looked totally different and I was no longer attracted. I let it go the first couple of times because I get not everybody is always on point but she never reverted back to her old ways. I even made comments to her about how great she looked the first few times I had seen her and if she could please be punctual.

In the end, I cut her off and she kept asking why. I just told her I’m no longer interested and will be looking for a new regular. At $400 per hour and getting close to 2k a week from me you figure she would put in the effort. Nope… Boggles my mind.

Has anybody ever seen a SP regularly and they just get too comfortable and don’t put any more effort into how they look?

Here I was thinking I was a baller going once a week! hahaha Good on you!! I have only just recently learned, have a regular.. but definitely switch it up now and then, if you want to keep things the way you have been doing it, I highly suggest finding yourself a sugar baby instead of an MA or SP.

 

[interferon]

This makes no sense to me whatsoever because I did not complain about the level of service. What I did complain about was the timely fashion and the level of professionalism and how she appeared when she came over. Both of these things are standard in most jobs…to be on time and to look professional when you go to work. Are you telling me that this is an unrealistic ask? Most women in the workforce work five days. I’m only having her come over to 2 to 3 times per week at a PREMIUM rate!

Says something about your atitude that you get honest feedback from a fellow SW and you totally dismiss it, also that you don't see that this isn't like "most jobs".