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All the minute men are sticking up for her lol
Based on your posts, I’ll stick up for her. Clearly you have some axe to grind.

She is one of the top reviewed women in Durham. If you had a problem with her, it is most likely because of you.

9/10 guys have a great time, 1 guy doesn’t. It does not take a rocket scientist to figure out who the problem is. 🙄
 
How is communicating to the partner you’re being intimate with a bad thing? It’s not necessarily “constructive criticism” or “advice”, it’s communicating whether something they’re doing is or isn’t working for you. I feel like open communication with an intimate partner is pretty important if you both want to have a good time, whether it’s your romantic partner or an SP you’re having a session with. Sometimes people don’t click or connect and that’s fine, it happens. On the flip side, I think if an intimate partner makes a reasonable suggestion to the other person for something that will help them enjoy themselves more, it should be respected. & I’m not saying this to specifically defend the OP, it absolutely goes both ways. Both partners should enjoy their time together and being vocal about the things they like and don’t like their partner doing helps make that time together enjoyable, in my opinion.
The problem is, that she's not anyone's intimate partner. She's basically a stranger that you buy a portion of your time from. You're meeting her for a very brief period of time and there is no intimacy. Some people come across as VERY entitled and NEEDY. It is every providers right to decide they just don't want the hassle. For $70 or $80 you have to know that there are people who will abuse that and try to take advantage and be as annoying as possible and make a provider question why they don't charge more money. Some people need to pay double for how demanding they are. MOST people are great. Don't lump yourself in and die on the hill with the guy we don't even want to make money off of. At a certain point you have to wash your hands of certain people to maintain your own peace and integrity.

If you're going in at $70 or $80 and she's doing ALL of that when she could charge way more money FYI. Like ALOT more... are you really going to defend the guy who probably went in for a bng and probably should have paid for an hour but was too cheap? Bng's ARE for minute men. They're not for someone to bust their back trying to get it done in 15 minutes when they need a hh or more. They're a reduce rate for people that honestly cum really fast and they shouldn't have to pay the same price as everyone else. They're not for people that need a long time but people who need a long time try to sneak in at a reduced rate and take up all of our time and complain that they didn't get the full experience for a fraction of the price. You have to be short with those people. Even kick them out. They don't like or respect us. They're trying to use us and take advantage. It's not easy, so treat the girls that treat you right like gold because they'll move on.

This lady is a fox. She could easily charge more money for what she provides but she doesn't. But she SHOULD *wink wink*

(Charge more money) 🤫
 
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I’ve seen Candi a few times. She’s a hot little minx and gets the job done well. Would have paid alot for FS 🤤

Haven’t been since she tried to berate me for not carrying cash (during Covid) when my online banking was down and I showed her it was on their end not mine. “A big waste of her time and I need to have cash on hand next time”.
Honestly, people try to rob us all the time. They try to short us cash and online banking not working is the biggest scam and the biggest waste of time. It can take up to 30 minutes for an e transfer to go through. It takes 5 to 10 minutes to set up and then more waiting. It can look like it went through on your end and then it never goes through and then she has to call the bank just to find out she's never getting paid. Everyone wants to stand around messing around with e transfer but they don't want it to come out of their session. This is time she schedules as paid time and cuts into her next appointment. So unless you're paying for a hh and expecting 15 of those minutes to be dedicated to setting up e transfer and potentially even paying before you arrive (some people do that) I would just bring cash. Everyone going cashless has been the most annoying thing to come out of the pandemic just because of how much of a waste of time it is. We cant do anything. We can't provide the services before getting paid and then if it never goes through we've wasted all of our time and essentially been robbed if we provided services before confirmation. Some people count on that money never going through and they pick when they know online banking isn't working to book a session.

You have to think that if it happened to you ONE time it's happened to her SEVERAL times that week and some lazy slob made her feel like crap about it, like she's not worth just stopping in at the ATM and that she's being a b*tch for setting up boundaries for her own safety and sanity. We have to learn the hard way that we're never going to be paid for our time, even from people we knew and trusted that we saw several times. So don't take it personally. I've been shafted by someone I saw several times, who did great things for me. Was an ABSOLUTE sweetheart. I honestly would have forgave him. But not paying me the money he owed me was more important than whatever relationship we had formed over the year or two we knew each other. I honestly thought he was great and I would have spent time with him outside of our sessions until he essentially robbed me and acted like he was good for the money and I never heard from him again. People show you over and over again how you essentially don't matter to them in this business. You get to see the worst in people AND the best. You learn pretty quick how to prevent bad things from happening to you and not accepting e transfers is the easiest way to do that.

You know how, when scammers ask for gift cards and fees up front and you guys get red flags about it? We get red flags about etransfers. We've all been screwed around so much by them.
 
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SexConnoisseur

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Honestly, people try to rob us all the time. They try to short us cash and online banking not working is the biggest scam and the biggest waste of time. It can take up to 30 minutes for an e transfer to go through. It takes 5 to 10 minutes to set up and then more waiting. It can look like it went through on your end and then it never goes through and then she has to call the bank just to find out she's never getting paid. Everyone wants to stand around messing around with e transfer but they don't want it to come out of their session. This is time she schedules as paid time and cuts into her next appointment. So unless you're paying for a hh and expecting 15 of those minutes to be dedicated to setting up e transfer and potentially even paying before you arrive (some people do that) I would just bring cash. Everyone going cashless has been the most annoying thing to come out of the pandemic just because of how much of a waste of time it is. We cant do anything. We can't provide the services before getting paid and then if it never goes through we've wasted all of our time and essentially been robbed if we provided services before confirmation. Some people count on that money never going through and they pick when they know online banking isn't working to book a session.

You have to think that if it happened to you ONE time it's happened to her SEVERAL times that week and some lazy slob made her feel like crap about it, like she's not worth just stopping in at the ATM and that she's being a b*tch for setting up boundaries for her own safety and sanity. We have to learn the hard way that we're never going to be paid for our time, even from people we knew and trusted that we saw several times. So don't take it personally. I've been shafted by someone I saw several times, who did great things for me. Was an ABSOLUTE sweetheart. I honestly would have forgave him. But not paying me the money he owed me was more important than whatever relationship we had formed over the year or two we knew each other. I honestly thought he was great and I would have spent time with him outside of our sessions until he essentially robbed me and acted like he was good for the money and I never heard from him again. People show you over and over again how you essentially don't matter to them in this business. You get to see the worst in people AND the best. You learn pretty quick how to prevent bad things from happening to you and not accepting e transfers is the easiest way to do that.

You know how, when scammers ask for gift cards and fees up front and you guys get red flags about it? We get red flags about etransfers. We've all been screwed around so much by them.
Thanks to you, her rates went up by an entire $10. All jokes aside good explanation, you can’t have high expectations for $80 bng.
 

SweetCandi_DR

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The problem is, that she's not anyone's intimate partner. She's basically a stranger that you buy a portion of your time from. You're meeting her for a very brief period of time and there is no intimacy. Some people come across as VERY entitled and NEEDY. It is every providers right to decide they just don't want the hassle. For $70 or $80 you have to know that there are people who will abuse that and try to take advantage and be as annoying as possible and make a provider question why they don't charge more money. Some people need to pay double for how demanding they are. MOST people are great. Don't lump yourself in and die on the hill with the guy we don't even want to make money off of. At a certain point you have to wash your hands of certain people to maintain your own peace and integrity.

If you're going in at $70 or $80 and she's doing ALL of that when she could charge way more money FYI. Like ALOT more... are you really going to defend the guy who probably went in for a bng and probably should have paid for an hour but was too cheap? Bng's ARE for minute men. They're not for someone to bust their back trying to get it done in 15 minutes when they need a hh or more. They're a reduce rate for people that honestly cum really fast and they shouldn't have to pay the same price as everyone else. They're not for people that need a long time but people who need a long time try to sneak in at a reduced rate and take up all of our time and complain that they didn't get the full experience for a fraction of the price. You have to be short with those people. Even kick them out. They don't like or respect us. They're trying to use us and take advantage. It's not easy, so treat the girls that treat you right like gold because they'll move on.

This lady is a fox. She could easily charge more money for what she provides but she doesn't. But she SHOULD *wink wink*

(Charge more money) 🤫
Thanks girl. Ik I could easily charge more but I'm very humble and I realize that the $80 I did make in 10/15 mins is the average working man's 4 hr shift. Because I charged $80 I refuse to deal with any bullshit. I can guarantee anyone bitter is because I've seen them once and then refused to see them again. Hey, I'd be mad too hehe. People saying "charge more" is almost funny to me. The going 30min rate for DR FS GFE is 140-160. I'm making $80 for less than 15m doing half the work. People need to do the math. Anyhow, there's a saying...you give people an inch they will take a mile. It's always something someone will find to complain about. This is life. You seem like a cool chick, some of your points are def valid. Wishing you a wonderful day & week.
 
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SweetCandi_DR

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Thanks to you, her rates went up by an entire $10. All jokes aside good explanation, you can’t have high expectations for $80 bng.
My rate
Honestly, people try to rob us all the time. They try to short us cash and online banking not working is the biggest scam and the biggest waste of time. It can take up to 30 minutes for an e transfer to go through. It takes 5 to 10 minutes to set up and then more waiting. It can look like it went through on your end and then it never goes through and then she has to call the bank just to find out she's never getting paid. Everyone wants to stand around messing around with e transfer but they don't want it to come out of their session. This is time she schedules as paid time and cuts into her next appointment. So unless you're paying for a hh and expecting 15 of those minutes to be dedicated to setting up e transfer and potentially even paying before you arrive (some people do that) I would just bring cash. Everyone going cashless has been the most annoying thing to come out of the pandemic just because of how much of a waste of time it is. We cant do anything. We can't provide the services before getting paid and then if it never goes through we've wasted all of our time and essentially been robbed if we provided services before confirmation. Some people count on that money never going through and they pick when they know online banking isn't working to book a session.

You have to think that if it happened to you ONE time it's happened to her SEVERAL times that week and some lazy slob made her feel like crap about it, like she's not worth just stopping in at the ATM and that she's being a b*tch for setting up boundaries for her own safety and sanity. We have to learn the hard way that we're never going to be paid for our time, even from people we knew and trusted that we saw several times. So don't take it personally. I've been shafted by someone I saw several times, who did great things for me. Was an ABSOLUTE sweetheart. I honestly would have forgave him. But not paying me the money he owed me was more important than whatever relationship we had formed over the year or two we knew each other. I honestly thought he was great and I would have spent time with him outside of our sessions until he essentially robbed me and acted like he was good for the money and I never heard from him again. People show you over and over again how you essentially don't matter to them in this business. You get to see the worst in people AND the best. You learn pretty quick how to prevent bad things from happening to you and not accepting e transfers is the easiest way to do that.

You know how, when scammers ask for gift cards and fees up front and you guys get red flags about it? We get red flags about etransfers. We've all been screwed around so much by them.
I get etransfers all the time. I've only had 2 hiccups. Fingers crossed lol. I personally prefer etransfers. Saves me from going to the bank lol. What works for some may not work for others 🤷‍♀️
 
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